Balika Vadhu Written Update 3/9/2013 J realizes his love for Ganga! - Page 5

Mahi12, you are absolutely right, that Sumi's hatred for Ganga started when she was compared with

I think BV is too full of frustrations and even B grade at times now. 🥱

- Anandi and Shiv romancing openly on terrace was odd. 🤢 I think they ought to be careful when they knew that there was a guest in the house. This kind of open romance does not look nice. And was it necessary to show ex wife romancing current husband in near vicinity of ex husband? 😕 It was cheap sensationalism!

- What was Sanchi doing? Getting dolled up to visit Jagya in his room again after being turned away? In the middle of the night? 😲 Why so starved and desperate? It is not she. But Jagya who will be blamed if somebody saw her with him in middle of the night!
That talk with mirror was funny. 😆 She's a pampered and self obsessed kid. Princess of Kesar Bagh! Ha! 😆

- Jagya MUST be careful! He was talking openly. What if someone had heard him? Wahin panga ho jaata! 😲
He uttered Ganga's name when he saw Sanchi entering. Thank his luck that Sanchi did not hear him! He admitted love for Ganga so loudly on the terrace. Koi sun leta toh?

I loved it that he pushed Sanchi away. But I think he needs to be careful around her. Counsel her or use excuses like he doesn't like physical romance like this without marriage. This angry reaction will make her vicious.

- Anandi was surely rude and though I do not mind her questioning Jagya and pestering him to come clear, I do have problem with the way she said it! Anandi was never like this! Shouting, glaring and going all out! Anandi should have talked wisely and politely, gently getting to read his mind. Instead of blasting him and stomping away!

I also think she should have clearly asked him to be honest and let people know what was exactly on his mind regarding Sanchi and this alliance - because many lives (including his own) were hanging in balance.

Jagya keeps claiming he knows what he is doing and keeps reassuring Sanchi and Ira. But does he indeed know what he is doing? 😲

Instead of yakking about Ganga, Anandi should try to find out if Jagya agreed to marry Sanchi due to her and pressure of Sanchi being from her in laws' family?

- I think Anandi and Jagya must maintain a distance too. She serves him at dining table. She was talking to him alone, in middle of the night on the terrace. Why? She is someone else's wife now. Maintain decorum. Shiv doesn't mind. But if someone else had seen her alone with Jagya then they'd have created trouble for her. Ira already needs only excuses to doubt Anandi and bash her!

- So much happened on the terrace. Yet rest of the Shekhars were unaware? 😲 Asleep like Kumbhakarna? No one knew what was happening? No one got up by this commotion? No clue about what daughter is upto? And what everyone else is doing? Kamaal hai!
One hell of a clueless family! 😆

- Jagya and Ganga looking at the same moon was nice. But practically, Ganga should not stand at the window alone at night given how that mawaali is keeping an eye on her! She is alone there. Better pull all stops to stay safe.

- Precap was disgusting. Sumitra's character is badly butchered! 😡 Any woman could have done the delivery blah blah blah. But Ganga did it! And Gehna has every right to be grateful to her! Sumitra can't dictate others how to feel about someone! 😡 All these years they had no problem. Now she brought up this badi bahu/jethani issue?! 😲
Bet she will be MAD if she learns Jagya and Ganga love each other.
Anyway, it was not as bad as Ira giving that "apni aulaad" taunt to CM. That was really insensitive. 🤢

One obsessed Sanchi is causing so much destruction and frustration everywhere! 🤢 I loathe her!

Very well said skepbum. You said it all. Which girl will go decked up to entice a man in the

@Jan50

CVs are bonkers. Ruining a class show and butchering all characters!

Thank you for update Anita 😊

Sometimes acting trumps everything...sometimes an actor gives such a brilliant and shining performance that I barely realize what happened in the episode. Luckily here it was both the acting & the writing. In my opinion this was one of the most beautiful realization scenes in any show. I loved it. Yes, it was dramatic...and that's what I wanted. It was also well directed, superbly acted, and quite pleasing to the eyes. The dialogues were good...and Shashank's delivery was intense & passionate. My whole family and I watched it on the edge of our seats...truly a treat to see such believable feelings which seem to be coming from the depths of Jagya's soul...hard not to be swept away by him...if Ganga was there, she would have fainted for sure seeing him accepting his love for her and that too in such an emotional, electrifying and touching manner. Very beautiful.

I loved that moon scene. It was very sweet, cute and romantic. It made me smile when Ganga innocently said "Dr Sa" while looking up at the moon, it looked like staring up at that same moon, miles away...gave some comfort to Jagya's otherwise restless mind & soul.

The Anandi-Jagya confrontation was just...strange. I guess it was just useful for one reason because it made Anandi one of the many who have questioned Jagya's relations with Ganga...but I thought his realization afterwards was done logically & realistically...he remembered every instance when the same question was asked him but by someone else like Sumitra & Sanchi...he too asked himself these same questions and he remembered every moment when Ganga was near him & touched him either physically or emotionally...and he realized why he was touched...because he loves her and the line he said "haan main Ganga ko chahta hoon apne dil ki gehrahiyon se usse pyaar karta hoon...I love her"...was a full realization and it didn't leave any doubts...and he has also decided not to tell a single soul abt his feelings, especially not Ganga...this is sad but necessary and shows how selfless Jagya has become..duty comes first. He must do what others want him to do.

The camera spinning around Jagya & his hair blowing in the wind, his tortured eyes and changing expressions were very effective too.

The Sanchi seduction/molestation/forced kiss...delusions, moments of self absorbed conceit, narcissistic beliefs that she is the best...no comments on all that...but this girl needs a clue...you ain't so amazing, get over yourself.

Overall I loved this episode...thanks to a brilliant realization by Jagya.

Originally posted by: mahi12

Thank you for update Anita 😊

Shashank was brilliant in acting in the episode 👏Three cheers to him he made me emotional in the episode and a good incident happened with me i was watching the episode on my lap top and sobbing and my whole family gathered around me what happened and finally they made a decision my serials should be banned 🤣

Poor Jagaya felt bad him Good he realized how much immature Sanchi is but at the same time felt really bad for him when he was saying how will i spend my life with her He is badly trapped from all sides So much depressed , in so much pain and no one to share his heart with No one is supporting him here not even his family 😭My heart goes out to him It was so difficult for him to even breathe 😭

Jagaya and Ganga's moon connection was very nice scene Both looking at same moon Ganga's doctor sahab 's radar is very great 😆 She was sensing he is in pain thats why restless looking out and taking his name Thats called true love She has always been there standing by his side whenever he was in pain when she was with him to put a bandage on his wound no matter he wants her to be there or not but today she was not with him but her heart was sensing he is in pain This much attached she has become to him and he was trying to calm down out in open There seemed to be a heart to heart connection Quite an emotional scene made me emotional😭

Anandi was disappointing I disagree with all the defense for her she was no way wrong To me she was in every way wrong Very much rude , blind with her theory of my family's happiness 🥱Anandi in her obsession for her family's happiness has become completely blind Thats why she went to blackmail Jagaya for marriage despite her husband made her understand someday he will find the need to have a life partner himself He will be ready on his own but she didn't listen yet again she is absolutely blind in her obsession and must say Toral was over acting too Her acting made Anandi look more poor

Nothing gives Anandi license to ask these questions from Jagaya in this way and to blame him like this She was grossly rude and insensitive to him What make her say this ?

How can she say in his zeal to help Ganga He is not caring to his family ? First Sumitra made her stand clear to her when she stormed out of house fighting with Singhs when Ganga left the house ( that was right according to her ??? Her conscience i guess have gone to sleep thats why what i do is right what you do is wrong what relationship you have with Ganga for that you are going against your family ? Good double standards Anandi 🥱) Sumitra very clearly made her stand clear why she is against Ganga because she is the reason of all their problems Rest Anandi does not know much so how she can accuse Jagaya Sumitra changed only because of you ? what was his fault in that ? OR did Anandi forgot about that ? Is she having memory loss

She was angry at him he went out to find Ganga did not tell his family he has found her He made his stand clear to her why he did not tell his family in any case the hungama would be made and Anandi agreed with him now taking a 360 degree turn ? wow Anandi

Next angry for what ? he did not tell his family he kept Ganga in hospital quarters how would that have helped in anyway ? He made his stand clear to her even Shiv too agreed with Jagaya If he would have told his family he would never be allowed to do so so what he should have done in that case ? Sumitra would be angry in both cases and Anandi knows the reason very well so why shouting at him ?

Next for what she was angry at him he went to drop Ganga to bus stand without telling anyone ?Really if he would have told how would have that helped anyway ? Anandi knows very well what are the family's views about Ganga so he would never be allowed to go and be equally criticized if he would have told them He made his stand clear and biggest thing to prove he is standing by his responsibility , his promise he came back otherwise he would have never come if Ganga was his priority above his family so how can Anandi blame him like that ?

He made his stand very clear he will fulfill his family's wish even if he is dying from inside Anandi madam very well knows he is marrying just to please his family still blame game he is not caring to his family ? and top it all seeing this she is doubting he is planning to back out of this alliance How blind can Anandi become ?

Granted she does not know Sanchi's true colors but where she thinks Jagaya is being unfair to Sanchi ? when she knows he is not happy with the very idea of marriage It will take him some time to heal up so definitely he cannot show same excitement as Sanchi A woman who herself has gone through all this should know it better but she is on contrary yelling at him Where he is unfair to Sanchi ? What Anandi knows ? Was he suppose to get intuitions she is keeping fast for him ?otherwise when she invited him to Udaipur he came Took her outside with a smile on his face ( as much as Anandi knows ) Anandi has seen him wearing that horrible Jacket just for Sanchi too and she was shocked how much he is killing himself to adjust with Sanchi now she is shouting at him you are not fair with Sanchi ? How fair is that ?

If she wanted to him to balance out his responsibilities and duties so what were her these words for Are you understanding me ? You must abide by your promise to Sanchi and you have to stay away from Ganga no matter it is difficult for you but keep her in your heart Dil ka rishta but you have to stay away from her ?? At the high pitch of her voice saying these words to him she is ordering him what he has to do otherwise she would never shout never be angry if she only wanted to convey this to him to balance between responsibility and duty ?

O she knows about his indecisiveness but here his decisions are very clear to her if she cannot see that her blindness , her insanity she has lost it what else On the basis of her doubts , her suspicions without having any proof for confirmation in her hands shouting at someone blaming him so insensitively in which language is right? and she was questioning his relationship with Ganga someone ask her what is her relationship with Jagaya for that she is saying so much to him despite her dear husband stopped her ?

Jagaya is too guilty for his past thats why has become weak in terms of blasting her i do hope some day he gives it back to her she totally deserves it She is going over board Some day she will bite her own words and curse herself how much wrong she was here Let her eyes open from her blind obsession first

i am happy too for the one thing the so called god mother of Jagaya is no longer his god mother The miss who was called his voice of guidance , understanding ,she is failing to understand him big time The time has come where the cords are cutting Jagaya has moved on from her He no longer holds any feelings for her and also does not depend on her in anyway She is failing to understand him big time Here i am happy the one who is understanding and supportive to him is his father Blood is more understanding then merely a childhood friend and thats the best and most realistic thing Finally the kachi umer ka paka rishta is proving to be kacha Thats great

I won't give any credit to Anandi for realization of Jagaya ? Where her lecture made him see things more clear way or her great counselling 😳it was not because of her great counselling that he realized his feelings for Ganga what is in his heart Thats wrong analysis in my view Its the constant questioning of four people now Sumitra , Ganga , Sanchi and now Anandi too what his relationship with Ganga . that triggered him for this He was recalling this in his mind not Anandi's lecture Her question about his relationship with Ganga shocked him to the core These questions three people already have asked him with same reasons Anandi was fourth one If in her place it would have been Sanchi again then still it would have triggered him for self interospection so giving her credit in my view is not fair when she didn't do anything

Yes he did need pushes many pushes because of his disturbed emotional state where he has made him agree on this he has no right to love but love is natural to happen but he needed pushes and those pushes many things gave to him so giving Anandi madam all the credit is wrong when she did not do anything so special

Jagaya never knew when he got so much emotionally attached with Ganga when she became so special to him in all the while he was helping her He kept considering her as his responsibility only but fact that in his heart he kept developing feelings for her which he took as a compassion but it was love building He was too scared to fall in love again Too disturbed to say he has no right to fall in love in again therefore never saw her with the those eyes and never thought in this direction His conscious self suppressed the subconscious love that was gradually building up for her He would feel happy and satisfied in her company Feel her sorrows and happiness with same emotions She has been so caring and understanding that would work as bandage on his wounds Sumitra's attitude did not push him to think in this direction because it was too early but it did evoke a fear in him that made him think now things cannot remain like before between them He started to miss Ganga and Mannu 's company which was his solace in his wounded lonely self he was thinking to himself he never knew they would make so special place in his life and he wished things could be like before between them Bearing Separation from Ganga and Mannu Those two angels who filled his life with so much happiness , not being able to fulfill a promise with them to go with them in this very important stage of their lives made him teary eyed yet again he was battling with himself why these tears ? They were just a responsibility why i am crying All the rishta questions what rishta he has with Ganga and Anandi's was final one All were unexpected shockers for him and he went into interospection after every time in some way why these questions? and finally all good moments spend with Ganga when he was happiest , the tears in separation made him realize his feelings for her and all these roaming questions in his mind made him say in answer to them Yes i love her I love her from depths of my heart i love her 😊

I am happy the realization came in sensible way not due to Anandi madam's blessings 😆 neither she knows about it He didn't accept that to her I am happy 😃

Again it was not Anandi madam's great lecture which made him say later he cannot do this He does not know Ganga too loves him long before he started loving her and he has already cleared he will prefer to die then backing out from his words and rebelling against his family breaking their hearts so he will kill himself , whats in his heart He won't move further on this That makes me think Jagaya will never break this engagement ? Will it be Sanchi then? That will be great if she gets some intellect and does so

Sanchi's mirror mirror on the wall was funny😆Heights of idiocy 😆and her trying to kiss Jagaya really made me want to hit her head with my chappal 😡can't you see the guy is not ready for your kiss When i read spoilers i thought she will be demanding kiss from him but she was directly trying to kiss him right on lips Jagaya did absolutely right in pushing her away Firmly saying No . No sympathies for her being teary eyed she was crossing the line here but i wonder why she was not fuming up in anger but she was crying?😕Crying is not in her style

Precap Sumitra 🤢Ira and she has become twin sisters Ira taunted Meenu broke her heart in blindness for Sanchi Sumitra is breaking Gehna's heart so bitter to her over her blind vendetta against Ganga 🤢

Overall this episode was good Jagaya realized his love for Ganga He confessed it to himself God listened to him will help too in getting his true love His love is pure and so is Ganga's He has all the rights to love her Its just the matter of some time he will understand they are destined to be together forever 😊

sorry for the longest post😛

Mahi 🤗whenever you write write bang on Awesome post Totally agree with you

Very well said Mahi your both posts are awesome so well written very apt analysis Thank you for writing such nice posts Always love your comments 👏

@Anu and Jia aww you are being very nice Thanks for liking my lambay choday analysis 😳