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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Raghav-Sia

OH GOD, NO!!!!
I'm really sick tired heard about about Sohum and bani!!!!
It's made me sick!!! Enough!
Please, please, please stop it about Sohum - bani! They're not Jodi anymore!
Remember CV ruin them, stupid cv are very clever!

Sohum and Rajji are good couple!

Hey dear,...

sorry I am bringing Sohum-Bani up,.. but right now, I just felt like nothing else makes sense. I do agree with you though... the CVs ruined their jodi! Could've been really great, but they really messed up!

im not trying to make Sohum-Bani a jodi,.. just trying to say that Soji is wrong the way the CVs are doing it! If they dont fix this, Bani will always be attached to Sohum somehow, someway... even if you dont want her to be,...because Sohum still feels for her!

thanks!!

<3 Ria

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sailuja

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: xxRiaKapoorxx

Hi there! I really appreciate your reply, and your perspective!

I can understand where you are coming from also. Being a Soji fan, you probably see them as meant for one another, and you have hopes that they will come together.

I dont think there is anything wrong with that. As I said, I'm not against Soji being together. I just think that the way it is being shown right now is wrong. The CVs need to change the way they are starting off their love story!

You are right, Rajji is trying her best to be a good wife and bahu,... but I dont think she loves Sohum, and I dont think she has a soft corner for him either. She has no feeling except this duty as a wife, or just friendship (which was always there from the beginning). She can't try and woo him until she herself feels love first at least. And there is none of that!

I have not seen today's episode yet, but what is going on now just proves my point that what the CVs are showing is just wrong and conflicting.

If Sohum can't stand wrong done on Bani, and still acts to protect her, beats Randeep up, and goes to jail... he still has the same place in his heart for her, and he does more than just care for her,.. her still loves her. Then if you show that he and Rajji have a "sweet" moment where she brings him food in jail or something like that,.. and you show an eye-lock or something... thats just wrong!!! Sohum is not developing love for Rajji if he still loves Bani, so you just can't show that stuff.

As I said, I have no problems with Soji,... but you cant show their love and attraction until Sohum gets it straight first.

thanks you so much!!!

<3 Ria

ya agreed ur point s ..rajji still not ful fill developing her feeling for sohum but i can't accept thoroughly i think she has some sft corner with him as wife.. but i think she has been quitting that is sohum still loves bani... may be she will realize her love with sohum 😉 as well as my wish also sohum should falll love wih her 😉 may be in future will happen...😉 wait and watch i don't know wat is da cv plan.😉?

@ underline.. may be happen thanx ur encouraging for soji scene ,,, but i watch only for soji sry any hurting u 😉

Edited by saila1305 - 12 years ago

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xxRiaKapoorxx

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Originally posted by: saila1305
ya agreed ur point s ..rajji still not ful fill developing her feeling for sohum but i can't accept thoroughly i think she has some sft corner with him as wife.. but i think she has been quitting that is sohum still loves bani... may be she will realize her love with sohum 😉 as well as my wish also sohum should falll love wih her 😉 may be in future will happen...😉 wait and watch i don't know wat is da cv plan.😉?

@ underline.. may be happen thanx ur encouraging for soji scene ,,, but i watch only for soji sry any hurting u 😉

haha aww no worries dear, its fine, I appreciate your opinions!!

Yes you may be right! Maybe as Rajji sees that Sohum is caring so much for Bani, she will feel some jealousy. If the CVs show this,.. then maybe it could mean she is falling in love! This would be good! ⭐️ thats what I mean be natural. If this happens,.. then maybe we are getting somewhere haha

:)) have fun watching the show dear! I hope you get to see what you wish for <3

-Ria

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sailuja

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: xxRiaKapoorxx

thank youuu!!! 😆😳 I am just so afraid people here would read my post and just flip out and I'd get beaten off IF lol but thank you so much <3

I AGREE. I feel like Bani will always be there for Sohum, and thats just annoying me. He needs to get his priorities straight!! Either stop getting in Bani's way and stick to your duty towards Rajji... or just say loud and clear that it will not work with Rajji and stop getting the poor girls hopes up. Right now, he is just playing both sides.

I think youre totally right, the CVs are to blame!! They have totally messed up the story and the characters, making audiences and people like me super confused!! 😕 If they want to show Soji, they have to do it the right way, and show them fall in love naturally... not like this!! AND they have to stop showing Sohum playing both sides. If the CVs want Soji, then they better show Sohum having a complete change of heart.

thanks againnn!!! <3<3

-Ria

ur right 100% sohum is playing both side ...😃 i don't understand who is real jodi for sohum ? rajji or bani 😕 but cv well lknow 😉

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Samia

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: xxRiaKapoorxx

Hey dear,..[DIV][B]

sorry I am bringing Sohum-Bani up,.. but right now, I just felt like nothing else makes sense. I do agree with you though... the CVs ruined their jodi! Could've been really great, but they really messed up!


im not trying to make Sohum-Bani a jodi,.. just trying to say that Soji is wrong the way the CVs are doing it! If they dont fix this, Bani will always be attached to Sohum somehow, someway... even if you dont want her to be,...because Sohum still feels for her!


thanks!!
<3 Ria

Okay, dear. As you wish.

(I was button 'quote' I wrote it and but I button 'update post' it's sudden mess quote... I confused)

Edited by Raghav-Sia - 12 years ago

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nimmi

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Posted: 12 years ago

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honest confession:

i read the entire post..

true confession:

LOVED it.

you said it all Ria...

i am romantic at heart. gimme good sweet love stories and i am game. but please back it up with good story background story and sense..if i were to look for eye locks and tripping and catching.. there are other serials floating around...

physical infidelity can be forgiven.. but soham is committing emotional infidelity over here. dude! you are either too dumb or too insensitive.

bani.. Darling! you really need to stop worrying about soham. stay away from him. far away. for once someone LOOK at rajji. poor thing's face says it all when you and soham are exchanging sweet words.

rajji.. sweetheart... right now soham is not worth it. he has to earn you. respect you and above all... put YOU ABOVE ALL... till he gets his priorities sorted.. no need sar pe chadao him. (kick him down pretty please..).

haven't seen rajji and amreek but any guy who dumps a girl at the altar and takes off is SO Not worth the girl.. bring any hot guy for rajji please😈..

i am all for jealousy (from soham's end) track.. not this hearbreaking one.

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DiVa

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Posted: 12 years ago

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@Ria - I completely understand what you mean. Right now, both Rajji and now Soham are only going through all this because they feel its their duty/responsibility towards each other and their families. And you are also right about Soham playing both girls at the same time.

But don't you think that is only natural at this stage? Let me explain.. Since Rajji nor Soham ever loved each other, is it not too soon after their marriage to suddenly fall for each other. Rajji knows Soham loved and still loves Bani. So, how can she dare to have any natural loving feelings towards him? I agree in this case she should not even try to get close to Soham but then she is doing what Simran told her because she also wants to be proven a good bahu. I also agree with you that she should not be forced into loving her husband.. but is that not how most marriages work? Is every person who is married loving their husband naturally from the first day.. especially in India where arranged marriages are not uncommon, is it not in some sense a relationship forced on them initially. But most of them do seem to work out in the long run. Take Jas for example.. she does not know this Vikas guy.. but she will be married to him and expected to love him and Vikas will be expected to love Jas from the first day of their marriage. Is that not how it works in most marriages. Bani is also pining for Parmeet though she got to see him just for a day! Bani never felt anything for Soham even though this guy seriously loved her for so many years. But what made her cry and cry for Parmeet whom she barely knows?!

Now, Soham-Rajji case is different because Soham loved Bani and Rajji knows about Soham's feelings towards Bani very well. The guy who had only one person in his mind and heart before(read Bani), and thought he was marrying Bani.. realizes he was married to Rajji whatever the reason may be. If like you said, he completely stopped meeting or caring for Bani as a commitment to Rajji.. would it be natural? What has to be shown is a transition of Soham's feelings of love towards Bani to that of just care and concern for her. If he completely stopped thinking about her suddenly, it would look fake, isn't it? He has to develop feelings towards Rajji as a wife and lover and his mind has to let go of Bani eventually! This can happen knowingly or unknowingly by Rajji only. She is the only one who can make this happen because she completely understands Soham. He did not hide any of his feelings from her. Unknowingly, she has the power to make a strong impression on Soham's mind and heart which is what the CVs are trying to show. For Soham to naturally fall in love with Rajji, he needs to watch her from close quarters. And if Rajji is able to create that magic even unknowingly to herself(with her personality and charm), Soham will fall in love with her and let go of Bani. I do not agree that even IF Soham falls in love with Rajji, Bani will still rule his heart. He will only care for Bani as a friend and Rajji's husband and nothing else.

And until Soham clearly tells Rajji about his feelings towards her and that he loves her, I don't think Rajji can start to develop natural feelings of love towards Soham. So, I feel it is not impossible for these two to fall in love. I am also confused as of now as to what direction the CVs would be taking as they have seem to left lot of loose ends with regard to Soham's feelings. Lets hope we get some clarification on that soon. But if Soham is NEVER going to let Bani out of his life, then I want Rajji to walk out of his life!

Sorry for the long reply.. hope I made sense!

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NidhaA

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Posted: 12 years ago

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I second what Hima. Most marriages in our country are bondage first and then love. Rajji as of now cannot feel anything close to romance for Sohum and Sohum is still obsessed with Bani. Any transition has to be gradual. Love will have to come in place with time. Let's hope the CV's don't screw up.

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