Originally posted by: CanadianChik
Original comment from Soup
SR before nikah...now thats one rule I don't mind seeing broken...I mentioned in Sangeta's thread. NOt that I believe in premarital sex...but when you are telling a story like this..situations could arise...where a nikah might be a distant dream...if so,...
Soup u really think the fact that Zoya's parents having premarital sex is not an issue for her? If her parents would have been married she would have known the name of her father -😕 Also do u note every time Asad jokes that he was not worried about her (like he was more worried for Dhoni) for a sec Zoya has a doubtful look on her face - she tries to hide it but she has abandonment issues - which effect their physical intimacy IMO
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This was the inspiration for the najayaz post...😳
CC,
This Q is quite tricky for me, actually.
I am not sure how to answer it...
I feel Zoya has the same feelings about premarital sex, as any girl of her background...she has been brought up well...and she has her cultural values dear...also as a religious person, MARRIAGE IS VERY IMPORTANT TO HER...with or without the tragedy of her mother.
Since I am not sure if her mother was an unwed mom, I cannot answer this...
What I feel is...Zoya is willing to change...or might want to change her beliefs for him...
And another important point is that, Asad himself will make sure nothing untoward happens between them...so, there is no need to have a Zoya hanging on to her ideals...I am not sure if Zoya has given ANY of this any thought at all...she simply seems not to have progressed from that Prince Charming stage.😉😆 Living a fairy tale, still...😉
What happens after they get married, Ms. Farooqui?🤣
Abandonment issues...I have not give it much thought...may be subconsciously...😊
But Zoya has always had faith in Asad...har mushkil mein...she knows he is a guy she can bank on...until something breaks that myth.
Edited by chicksoup - 11 years ago
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