Jaggiyya should support ganga

It is so nice that jaggiyya is trying his best to support Ganga. No matter how his relationship is named, I don't care.

Since we don't date in India, engagement kind of acts that way. Boy and girl can always break their relationship with no guilt if they realize they are not made for each other.

I hope jaggiyya starts realizing that saanchi is not the right partner for him. He should realize that a girl like Ganga should be his partner.

I can see.lot of jealousy going on for jaggiyya. This definitely shows other characters are not as charming, cute and realistic like jaggiyya. I am glad people are finding all possible unrealistic, unethical, inappropriate reasons to bash him.

If he chose saaanchi over Ganga, it makes sense if he is being bashed. But, when he is matured enough to give life to an unfortunate woman, he is still being bashed.

Shiv did the same and he is in the list of Great people. It amazes me how inappropriate words are used when someone is trying to redeem themselves.

I wonder how the movies like DDLJ, kkhh, jthj (guess what all played by the same actor) are big hits.

Now I truly wish he starts doing his MS in mangalore and rub it on shekars family...

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Originally posted by: noshows

Now I truly wish he starts doing his MS in mangalore and rub it on shekars family...

😆 😆 😆

Why does he need to rub it on Shekhars? He could have clearly said NO the first time the proposal was put forward.

I thought he is already doing that. Did I miss anything? Who is jealous of who and why? How does it matter what a show character does?
It is good for him if he completes MS, not to rub it on anyone be it Gauri or Shekhar's.

@missesha

I have tons of reasons to say why he did not say during the whole engagement drama.

But answer these,
is he flirting with saanchi or trying to understand her?
Is he trying to act and impress saanchi or trying to be his trueself?
is he telling lies about his whereabouts or being truthful?
Since ganga is a woman, are we having this discussion?

At this point jaggiyya is more concerned about Ganga in a humanitarian way. Saanchi definitely can't hide her realself and will definitely be the reason for jaggiyya to break up with her. and she will also be the reason for jaggiyya to understand his feelings towards ganga as saanchi, shekars and sumithra keep questioning him about his relationship with Ganga.

He will be Fed up with these constant torment and will say.. hell with you all, you want to know relationship with her... yes I love her. she compliments me as my wife whereas saanchi will be my another mistake...

Originally posted by: swapnakodali

Why does he need to support ganga standing on his mothers toes??? while
she is crying and feeling bad. he didnt even sit with her when she came
to his room and try to explain but prefer going against. he did the
engagement but not spare the shock for his family before doing that.

What
was the need for him to stay days together in manglore to see ganga is
ok or not?. Cant he meet her like a hour or two find out if she has any
discomfort and get back home but no he has to gift stay and stare at
ganga. eat with themmerry with them when he know saachi is
misunderstanding. Wow cool guy.

gave the ring to someone else and
cashing some other. Spare all this if ganga has any shame in her she
would not let him do this. She knows she id driving wedge between mother
and a son and a girl and her fiance. Like we used to call gauri now
ganga is the brand new mistress who has feelings for a committed person.
No matter how bechari she was before she is no bechari now. she has
everything for a new start but she wants to land in a committed persons
lap.

I cannot explain the entire thing again. But this is the exact kind of inappropriate, insensible talk I am talking about.

Also an another note, anandhi did the same with ashima (also understand I am not an anandhi hater, but do not want her involvement in jaggiyyas life). I want to say more but it is pointless to argue when you have no respect for jaggiyya or Gangas characters.

Originally posted by: noshows

@missesha

I have tons of reasons to say why he did not say during the whole engagement drama.

But answer these,
Is he flirting with saanchi or trying to understand her?

No, sadly he is neither trying to understand her nor flirting with her, both of which is required for his relationship to move a step ahead. He is just simply being obidient or polite to her, which is leading to his inner suffocation wanting him to go away from Sa. But that's not right. He needs to think & address, why is he suffocated and what he wants to do with Sa next.

Is he trying to act and impress saanchi or trying to be his trueself?

No he is not trying to impress her nor is being his true self. He hasn't told Sa that he is ONLY marrying for his family's sake. He was quite clear about that the that girl Kanchan, even on his first meeting. But he isn't clear about anything with Sa. He is just following rituals.

Sa knows that J does not love her but hopes that one day he will. She has no clue that J is already suffocated at the idea of 3rd marriage and just doing it to please A & family. But that is not Sa's fault.

is he telling lies about his whereabouts or being truthful?

He is not lying of his whereabouts but he is not even informing beforehand. If he thought that Sa would have never objected about his meeting with G, he could have just casually told her in one of the phone calls. How difficult was that?

The problem is he has not involved Sa in his life, which is wrong. One's partner should form a natural extension to his life. And if it does not than one needs to pause and think, ' Is all well?' And 'if not, what next?'

Since ganga is a woman, are we having this discussion?

Yes, precisely. She is not only a woman, but a young woman who is already in love with her benefactor trying to suppress her feelings for him. And she is the same woman, whose involvement with J makes Sa (his fiance) feel insecure. And again she is the same woman, in whom J finds solace, but has already made commitments to Sa.

At this point jaggiyya is more concerned about Ganga in a humanitarian way. Saanchi definitely can't hide her realself and will definitely be the reason for jaggiyya to break up with her. and she will also be the reason for jaggiyya to understand his feelings towards ganga as saanchi, shekars and sumithra keep questioning him about his relationship with Ganga.

Humanitarian relationship also have boundaries & limitations. Under which humanitarian ground did he gift saree to G, on a symbolic day like teej which is an out-right hubby -wife festival, when he has never given anything to his fiance or even thought about her.

He will be Fed up with these constant torment and will say.. hell with you all, you want to know relationship with her... yes I love her. she compliments me as my wife whereas saanchi will be my another mistake...

@ bold, I would applaud J, if he did that, strongly without beating about the bush. But he has not done that yet, & has also promised Shiv that he (J) honours his decision to marry Sa. Until J clears his air regarding Sa & G, his commitment towards Sa and his overly concerned behaviour towards G will be questioned.

My answers in Red. Thanks

Originally posted by: noshows

It is so nice that jaggiyya is trying his best to support Ganga. No matter how his relationship is named, I don't care.

Since we don't date in India, engagement kind of acts that way. Boy and girl can always break their relationship with no guilt if they realize they are not made for each other.

I hope jaggiyya starts realizing that saanchi is not the right partner for him. He should realize that a girl like Ganga should be his partner.

I can see.lot of jealousy going on for jaggiyya. This definitely shows other characters are not as charming, cute and realistic like jaggiyya. I am glad people are finding all possible unrealistic, unethical, inappropriate reasons to bash him.

If he chose saaanchi over Ganga, it makes sense if he is being bashed. But, when he is matured enough to give life to an unfortunate woman, he is still being bashed.

Shiv did the same and he is in the list of Great people. It amazes me how inappropriate words are used when someone is trying to redeem themselves.

I wonder how the movies like DDLJ, kkhh, jthj (guess what all played by the same actor) are big hits.

Now I truly wish he starts doing his MS in mangalore and rub it on shekars family...

😆 😆 😆

@missesha thank you for your responses. I still can't agree with your perspective.

Jaggiyya would have had said No, but do not forget the family drama happened around him. What he did was very natural.
He is in the process of voicing out his opinion... that is where the entire story of jaggiyya is heading.

Engagement is a ritual where boy and girl are also trying to decide if they are made for each other. And when someone is in a relationship with a selfish girl like saanchi trying to dictate how one is supposed to be like, when will jaggiyya get a chance to know about her. I think this one reason is enough for him to break with her.

Did jaggiya visit ganga because its teez...I don't think so.
it just happened to be that it's teez when he visited her. So, since when giving gifts became wrong?
I think no matter what jaggiyya gifted Ganga, it still seems to be a problem. it is just the perspective one look at.

Agree wid you TM. This is call true man. Here people doing politics behind him, samne laad pyar peeche burai, her x wife sarural wale giving dhamki, If they have no faith in him then why the hell engage their doughter wid him. Just brack this rishta dhamki for what? but he did the right thing. Hope this stupid dhamki wala engagment brack soon.

@TM