What does saanchi feel will happen after marriage?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am a little puzzled as to why saanchi feels that these are all one time things... and that after marriage she will sidle out of them.
Why does she feel that after getting married to jagdish, she can revert to her own ways without there being problems?
I personally don't think the singhs ever expected anything from her really -- they saw her jeans and tank tops; they are surprised today by her revelation that she is doing a teej ka vrat. -- I think they would have been happy to accept her just as she was - it was hard enough to find a bride like this for jagdish anyway with his two divorce background. Other parents would shy away or else they would have other monetary motives for this alliance.
Does she think Jagdish would support her in her avatar revelation? Does she have plans of moving out of the haveli and moving into a private apartment somewhere with Jagdish?
What do you all feel is the thought process here?

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Simple

she feels the final legality will give her actual power

to tell Anandi to butt out as now she has MORE rights than her as SHE is the bahu ...u see , she is super jealous of Anandi

to make Jagdish dance on her tunes , to fight with his family and voice her opinions rudely and firmly is no big tension to her AT ALL ...she does it all the time in HER house . To curb those simple rural folk is child's play to her .

Saw how Jagdish rubbed his forehead in tension today ? That will be the picture if he marries this leech like shrew ...she will constantly fight with him and use her family to subdue him .

And Sumitra will tell him to swallow it all for Anandi's sake . Its her saasra , she will say . Don't say ANYTHING to Saanchi .

her steps will be

forcing him to move to city

moving around with a hep crowd

decking him up like a handsome stud as per her choice

expecting constant romance and sex from him whether he wishes or not .

Shallow thoughts will be forced on him . And she will tell his shocked family members to shut up and garner Ira's support .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000

Simple


she feels the final legality will give her actual power

to tell Anandi to butt out as now she has MORE rights than her as SHE is the bahu ...u see , she is super jealous of Anandi

to make Jagdish dance on her tunes , to fight with his family and voice her opinions rudely and firmly is no big tension to her AT ALL ...she does it all the time in HER house . To curb those simple rural folk is child's play to her .

Saw how Jagdish rubbed his forehead in tension today ? That will be the picture if he marries this leech like shrew ...she will constantly fight with him and use her family to subdue him .

And Sumitra will tell him to swallow it all for Anandi's sake . Its her saasra , she will say . Don't say ANYTHING to Saanchi .

her steps will be

forcing him to move to city

moving around with a hep crowd

decking him up like a handsome stud as per her choice

expecting constant romance and sex from him whether he wishes or not .

Shallow thoughts will be forced on him . And she will tell his shocked family members to shut up and garner Ira's support .



this is scary, disturbing, and totally true.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000


she feels the final legality will give her actual power

aah! I see! 😆 good answer.
But would this also hold for a twice-previous divorcee? I don't mean that as a snub to Jagdish.
But what I am thinking is that if I were in this position, I would see even this final legality as being a fragile issue -- it could just end up in divorce court a third time.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It's her inherent way of thinking... -- she thinks that -everybody has to pamper her and they have to yield to her stupid tantrums. That's why she is showing dogged determination not to change her attitude on this --love demands or for that matter on any issue...so stubborn she is!!😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Sanchi has two obsessions

One is Anandi and the other Jagya.

She feels she has to prove that she is better than Anandi.No harm in thinking that way.But she has chosen a way to prove that she is better than Anandi by being a better wife to Jagya.
Her way of emulating her brother means marrying a divorced man so it is not very odd if her way of bettering her bhabhi is being a better wife to her bhabi's ex.

The next obsession is Jagya and I thik she was too fascinated by this man she saw and who was once the black sheep of his family.This gentleman with a dark past does attract her a lot.Hence wanting to posess Jagya. For her love is all about possession.

Her level of maturity is that marriage is like playing with dolls, keeping a doll house and decking up the dolls.That's what she will do with Jagya and his family after marriage treat them like dolls keep them or discard them or place them wherever she feels like.In other words try and manipulate them to suit her needs.

Sanchi in case gets married to Jagya he and his family will be like dolls in her hands. she knows how to play with dolls very well she knows where the key for each doll lies and will turn the keys to play them like she wants them.


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Posted: 12 years ago
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You see she won't allow him to take a divorce

first of all , he will hesitate this time coz he does not want his family to go through it again

so chances of him applying for divorce are very thin . He will just clam up and immerse in work and will suffer the mental grief alone .

secondly , she is shrewd enough to even fake suicide attempts etc to prevent him from going to that level . She knows how to rein in and when to rein in . A born natural .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jagya needs to come out of la la land and see Sanchi's reality (if he is a doctor he must be atleast that smart)

Sanchi needs to buy a haunted Jagya doll who will turn her into a frog (ofcourse she thought she would possess Jaggu by using the doll)

Ira needs to get a brain transplant to see her daughter's reality (unless she is a master mind behind Sanchi's crow brain)

Dadi needs to do some swapping by getting Jagya-Ganga on a happily married train and Sanchi-Nathu (gaon ka moorakh) into a unhappily married train

Sumi needs to be hired by the prison authorities as a maid for Ratan Singh
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

Sanchi has two obsessions


One is Anandi and the other Jagya.

She feels she has to prove that she is better than Anandi.No harm in thinking that way.But she has chosen a way to prove that she is better than Anandi by being a better wife to Jagya.
Her way of emulating her brother means marrying a divorced man so it is not very odd if her way of bettering her bhabhi is being a better wife to her bhabi's ex.

The next obsession is Jagya and I thik she was too fascinated by this man she saw and who was once the black sheep of his family.This gentleman with a dark past does attract her a lot.Hence wanting to posess Jagya. For her love is all about possession.

Her level of maturity is that marriage is like playing with dolls, keeping a doll house and decking up the dolls.That's what she will do with Jagya and his family after marriage treat them like dolls keep them or discard them or place them wherever she feels like.In other words try and manipulate them to suit her needs.

Sanchi in case gets married to Jagya he and his family will be like dolls in her hands. she knows how to play with dolls very well she knows where the key for each doll lies and will turn the keys to play them like she wants them.


Very good psycho analysis: Yes she is immature enough to think that marriage is a kids play for her-- she is adamant to realise that it's a big commitment. By marrying Jagdish she wants to play with the lives of few people for some time...it is a mere time pass for her.Her attitude towards marriage is ...to boast her victory in her friends group.!Unfit for any type of serious commitment.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: suresh555

Jagya needs to come out of la la land and see Sanchi's reality (if he is a doctor he must be atleast that smart)

Sanchi needs to buy a haunted Jagya doll who will turn her into a frog (ofcourse she thought she would possess Jaggu by using the doll)

Ira needs to get a brain transplant to see her daughter's reality (unless she is a master mind behind Sanchi's crow brain)

Dadi needs to do some swapping by getting Jagya-Ganga on a happily married train and Sanchi-Nathu (gaon ka moorakh) into a unhappily married train

Sumi needs to be hired by the prison authorities as a maid for Ratan Singh

HA...HA..HA really hilarious...the punishments you have given to these two ladies is praiseworthy!!!!!

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