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Posted: 12 years ago
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anandi had an intense relationship with jagya.

Call it teenage feelings or whatever, anandi's first love or first crush was Jagya.

Jagya broke her heart and Shiv came to revive anandi's lovelife.

And now her sister in law sanchi talks how much she loves Jagya blah blah blah. Anandi listens with cheerfulness as if Jagya was a new person.
Anandi is watching how ganga is worshipping Jagya and how sanchi is lattoo over Jagya.

I am glad that anandi has a very solid marriage with a man like shiv so that she is able to treat Jagya as a friend.




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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

anandi had an intense relationship with jagya.

Call it teenage feelings or whatever, anandi's first love or first crush was Jagya.

Jagya broke her heart and Shiv came to revive anandi's lovelife.

And now her sister in law sanchi talks how much she loves Jagya blah blah blah. Anandi listens with cheerfulness as if Jagya was a new person.
Anandi is watching how ganga is worshipping Jagya and how sanchi is lattoo over Jagya.

I am glad that anandi has a very solid marriage with a man like shiv so that she is able to treat Jagya as a friend.



yes anandi is so cool
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

anandi had an intense relationship with jagya.

Call it teenage feelings or whatever, anandi's first love or first crush was Jagya.

Jagya broke her heart and Shiv came to revive anandi's lovelife.

And now her sister in law sanchi talks how much she loves Jagya blah blah blah. Anandi listens with cheerfulness as if Jagya was a new person.
Anandi is watching how ganga is worshipping Jagya and how sanchi is lattoo over Jagya.

I am glad that anandi has a very solid marriage with a man like shiv so that she is able to treat Jagya as a friend.




Jagya is not anandi first crush or true love. He is her child friend whom she got married and got used to from childhood. Its because of the tag called marriage she loved him and did not care about any other man in her life. Shiv is the truly her soulmate or her actual adult love. Jagya will remain her friend only even though I don't know how can she forgive his disloyalty towards her. All the qualities she wants in a man to help her lead a happy life are what she saw in shiv.

Edited by Sheetsden - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sheetsden

Jagya is not anandi first crush or true love. He is her child friend whom she got married and got used to from childhood. Its because of the tag called marriage she loved him and did not care about any other man in her life. Shiv is the truly her soulmate or her actual adult love. Jagya will remain her friend only even though I don't know how can she forgive his disloyalty towards her. All the qualities she wants in a man to help her lead a happy life are what she saw in shiv.



I think a woman who had a consesual sex with a man for the first time, leaves a lasting impression in terms of emotional feelings. It is very difficult to overcome the trauma of having sexual relationship with 2 men for a traditional girl like anandi. I think chotima must have worried about this aspect.

Now all is well that ends well.😊
Edited by leavesandwaves - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Jagya was her friend husband as well as a lover who betrayed their relationship in every which way.

Falling for Gauri was not wrong but the way he dealt his relationship after his association with Gauri started was and is very reprehensible.There is no excuse for his behaviour towards her.

If he did not consider her as his wife because theirs was a child marriage it was fine but he betrayed his best friend too by not confiding in her about his feelings for Gauri and his confusion over those feelings.

It was not just husband wife relationship that broke but also a relationship between two friends that broke.

Today Anandi is cool towards Jagya because the friendship between them has taken a new life and she knows that she met her soul mate in Shiv.

She accepted the fact that Jagya moved away from her because he was never meant to be hers long before Shiv came into picture.

But she loved him all the same and cherished those memories and Shiv patiently created new and better moments for her so that her present looks so much more beautiful than her past.So now she thinks of her husband only Shiv comes to her mind and no one else.

Jagya is a friend with whom she shares a deep friendship irrespective of her relationship with Shiv.She cared for him as a wife and now she cares for him as a friend.That's why it does n't bother her seeing him with someone else.



Edited by aparnauma - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@leaves...you always come up with such interesting points to discuss 😊.

credit for this cool anandi goes to shiv .. who with his patience, persistence, love and maturity won over anandi's heart & soul...she doesn't need to ponder over her past any more!

i agree with @sheets here, jagya was not her first love but her friend & first husband..n she dedicated herself completely to him as a dutiful wife..because her mind was conditioned like that...it was not out of choice but just happened...both jagya & shiv became her friends first, but shiv's friendship was unconditional...that made the difference...with shiv..she has found her soulmate & partner for life 😊 she is damn lucky to have got this second chance in life to be happy with a man like shiv...i really wished they would have shown her sometimes comparing shiv with jagya when alone ! but it doesnt matter now.

in fact, i think she is amused with sanchi ... how little does she know about jagya 😉

yes...anandi is now very secure & safe with shiv...🤗 i want her to remain cool & detached from sanchi-jagya-ganga drama.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

anandi had an intense relationship with jagya.

Call it teenage feelings or whatever, anandi's first love or first crush was Jagya.

Jagya broke her heart and Shiv came to revive anandi's lovelife.

And now her sister in law sanchi talks how much she loves Jagya blah blah blah. Anandi listens with cheerfulness as if Jagya was a new person.
Anandi is watching how ganga is worshipping Jagya and how sanchi is lattoo over Jagya.

I am glad that anandi has a very solid marriage with a man like shiv so that she is able to treat Jagya as a friend.





Anandi is a woman who is soft from the outside but having a iron strong inner soul.Yes it is very true that Jagdeesh was her 1st husband,first friend as well as first love.She is a truely traditional girl and it is very much difficult for her to forget the her love for jagdeesh...But as she has a strong inner soul and self respect so it is very difficult for her to forget the insult of jagdeesh too...But still she have forgiven him becoz she get a person who is the mirror image of her...she find all the qualities of her in shiv ...shiv never tried to take the place of jagdeesh in anandi's heart...he have created a new place in anandi's heart...it is a natural human psychology too that we always like that person to share our view with whom the web length of our thinking matched...same thing has happened with anandi and shiv...it is not that anandi loves whom more wheather it is shiv or jagdeesh ...but i think for anandi she have got a person with whom she can share her view of life better than jgdeesh...that is why it is so meaning less to her that where jagdeesh have became a ideal person or not ...how many girl drool over him...for anandi may be jagdeesh a very good friend and she is very much concerned about him...but her true soulmate is shiv.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: nandita.jana


Anandi is a woman who is soft from the outside but having a iron strong inner soul.Yes it is very true that Jagdeesh was her 1st husband,first friend as well as first love.She is a truely traditional girl and it is very much difficult for her to forget the her love for jagdeesh...But as she has a strong inner soul and self respect so it is very difficult for her to forget the insult of jagdeesh too...But still she have forgiven him becoz she get a person who is the mirror image of her...she find all the qualities of her in shiv ...shiv never tried to take the place of jagdeesh in anandi's heart...he have created a new place in anandi's heart...it is a natural human psychology too that we always like that person to share our view with whom the web length of our thinking matched...same thing has happened with anandi and shiv...it is not that anandi loves whom more wheather it is shiv or jagdeesh ...but i think for anandi she have got a person with whom she can share her view of life better than jgdeesh...that is why it is so meaning less to her that where jagdeesh have became a ideal person or not ...how many girl drool over him...for anandi may be jagdeesh a very good friend and she is very much concerned about him...but her true soulmate is shiv.

Very good analysis by both of you...Law&Nandita . Ananadi---Jaggdish---Shiv...their love relationship is unique and contain so many complexities...something with many parts in intricate relationship.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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In anandi's case 2 good things happened.

Shiv is good. In fact perfect and what anandi deserved.

anandi was able to overcome her past.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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yes, I too admire J-A relationship...and A , I dont think ppl like her really exist, she is a dream

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