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Navinchandra

Main to bhool chali babul ka des

Piya ka ghar pyara lage

Koi maike ko de do sandes

Piya ka ghar pyara lage



Aur yeh jhooth kafi tha

Kusum ko shant karne ke liye !


Par Saras... .?


Navinchnadra :

From today this is your name

And this is what I shall call you

Saraswati : a woman who could not deal with her pain

a woman who abandoned a little child

Vyas : a man who always puts himself and his needs first

A man who cares more about the end than the means

A man knows how to take, not to give


Today you were indeed Navinchandra

A navin avatar

Who knows its not his pain that is primary

It's Kumud's

Who has the courage to accept how

His one thoughtless action has had extreme repercussions

Who has the strength of stand by her and take on

Her fury, her bitter anger, her barbs

Unflinchingly, bravely squarely

Who has the wisdom to allow her, her dignity and space

By backing off at the right time

And handing her sindoor to her

Who has the perseverance to help her

Face the reality, and fight against abuse

And who has the selflessness to

Understand that she needs

to make this marriage work

I loved loved loved

Saras and Alak conversation

It showed his inner thoughts

I loved that he pulled himself together
Realized that losing control is not the way

I absolutely loved that he backed off

When he realized that she needs to

Believe that she made the right decision

By marrying pramaad

That anger against him is holding her up

Take away that anger, show her her mistake

And she will crumble

So he was silent

He had a chance to tell her the truth

But he didn't

He could have forced her hand and made her tell her in laws

But he didn't

For her


Yet he hasn't given up

He will work with her

To strengthen her

Selflessly

for her

You are Navinchandra, you are no longer Saraswatichandra and you are certainly not Vyas !

And like Lord Shiva, you will drink all the vish and still stand tall and strong !



Kya boloon, a superb episode, I loved everything about it

Well almost everything, the pink saree was a huge eyesore

From the looks of it, that torture continues tomorrow also


So my rating - 9.5/10, I have to cut number for the saree!!!

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes, true, he is the man
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Nice post Arshi. I saw the shift in him right on the day he made that speech. And the progress continues. I think he made a good beginning that day with 'himself' and it got better and his understanding of the situation got deeper.
He truly has that 'naveenta' in him now.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pasumarthisa

Nice post Arshi. I saw the shift in him right on the day he made that speech. And the progress continues. I think he made a good beginning that day with 'himself' and it got better and his understanding of the situation got deeper.

He truly has that 'naveenta' in him now.


Yes, he is a new man, and now he is totally focused on Kumud and standing by her, supporting her and doing it at her pace, not at his !

I just loved the epi today!
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Originally posted by: arshicritic


Yes, he is a new man, and now he is totally focused on Kumud and standing by her, supporting her and doing it at her pace, not at his !

I just loved the epi today!

That anger against him is holding her up

Take away that anger, show her her mistake

And she will crumble

Those lines are so true. I like how he realized he is playing into her hands by feeding her with more anger. And wont achieve what he wants to by doing it this way. Masterstroke.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: arshicritic

...

Today you were indeed Navinchandra

A navin avatar

Who knows its not his pain that is primary

It's Kumud's

Who has the courage to accept how

His one thoughtless action has had extreme repercussions

Who has the strength of stand by her and take on

Her fury, her bitter anger, her barbs

Unflinchingly, bravely squarely

Who has the wisdom to allow her, her dignity and space

By backing off at the right time

And handing her sindoor to her

Who has the perseverance to help her

Face the reality, and fight against abuse

And who has the selflessness to

Understand that she needs

to make this marriage work
...

You are Navinchandra, you are no longer Saraswatichnadra and you are certainly not Vyas !

And like Lord Shiva, you will drink all the vish and still stand tall and strong !


...
So my rating - 9.5/10, I have to cut number for the saree!!!


Arshi, love your "broken lines" tonight... Between reading Shana's post and your CB I finally got some inkling of what was going on there, when he gave her the sindoor box... 😔

Kumud still on her high horse lecturing him on how good she is at relationships and and how he is ill-qualified to advise her or force her hand, but...Saras was the one who was actually mature and considerate tonight...

Liked the pre cap more than tonight, though... Saras using his brains to talk to the target market (Kumud) in her own language, and reinforcing her positive self-image so she hears his own message clearly...

Today Saras may have moved an inch towards re-gaining Kumud's confidence by showing respect for her pov, her feelings, her constraints... Though if Pramad hurts her again, I doubt he will continue to be so patient?...

Btw, I found the Saras-Alak altercation very forced and awkward, wince-worthy, even unnecessary?!! Dunno why you liked that Arshi?😕

@Blue, wow, even as a true-blue Saras aficionado I wouldnt have conjured up that image!!😆 Thanks...😃

@Red, yes that saree needs its very own funeral pyre at the earliest! 😡
Edited by happychappy - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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the transformation is phenomenal the real man is emerging growing in stature each passing day...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: pasumarthisa

That anger against him is holding her up


Take away that anger, show her her mistake

And she will crumble

Those lines are so true. I like how he realized he is playing into her hands by feeding her with more anger. And wont achieve what he wants to by doing it this way. Masterstroke.


The way he just took those angry words, so calmly, connecting with her broken heart, and keeping his feelings in check, focused on her, I just loved him today!
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Originally posted by: annete

the transformation is phenomenal the real man is emerging growing in stature each passing day...


So true, Annete, and today, he seems to have achieved the inner calm needed at this time.
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Arshi, you saw so many thinks in today's episode and made us see those through your post! Loved today's CB

Few points that I liked in the episode:

- Saras started off with bang but was quick to realize Kumud's current level. Judging the situation, he changed the tracks and actually helped her even if he did not agree with her ways.

- The way he stood by her today, hereon, she will at least think of listening to what he says (and if it is not an apology again..); rather than downrightly rejecting his presence itself

- With this background, precap was very good with precise dialogues. Those lines will reach out to Kumud's heart if she is in listener's mode when he speaks..

And most important:
- Kumud did not cry even once in the episode.. And that for me, is an achievement enough to rate the episode at 10 😉

Alak-Saras face-off.. did not understand it much L does it have any future purpose?

Edited by Ad_Mumbai_Girl - 12 years ago

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