Even regarding Amar and VD's off screen bond, you can't blame him. None of us knows the real story. Will you guys tolerate if I say that it's entirely VD's fault, she must have done something because of which her and amar's off screen bond is not so good? No right. In the same way Amar is not to be blamed. Rather than appreciating him for giving you your favorite love story, you guys are hell bent on criticizing him and giving all the credits to VD. I've no issues with you guys appreciating VD but bashing Amar is unfair.
I don't believe people can hate a person so much whom they claimed to love once upon a time. I know people are hurt and even I and the rest of KR fans have gone through the same.
And I read some where that VD thinks her fans don't bash. What a good joke. Little does she knows that her fans are bashing her own co-star to the extreme end.