Sapno Ki Sajili Chunariyaan....A few Q's.

Everyone dreams of someday meeting a person that completes you. They see you for who you are, & understands you better than yourself. This person shares your joys, but more importantly your tears when no one else cares to. This person promises to hold you, cherish you, and love you at your best, and even at your worst. All in all the other part of your soul.

In case you're wondering where I am going with this...I thought it would be interesting to hear everyone's views on marriage.

I know many girls dream of a perfect wedding, sharing a special day with someone they love...

So an invitation to all the Dulhanns.. (Dulhas too..)..to answer a few questions....

How do you envision your partner in life to be? What do you prefer the most? Eyes? Smile? Personality?

How do you envision your perfect wedding? Something small, and personal shared with only family members & friends? Something elaborate & grand? Do you just prefer to elope?

Those who are already married, what was your marriage like? Was it as you'd pictured it to be? Maybe more?

In one sentence how would you describe love? The institution of marriage?

What do you think is most important components of marriages, that keep it alive, and truly forever?

Please share your thoughts, and if you'd like to add more than what is asked, or some questions of your own feel free to.

Thanks

Wafah😳

What a lovely topic Wafah!! 😳 I promise I will come back to this tomorrow!! 😊

A beautiful discussion topic wafah!

How do you envision your partner in life to be? What do you prefer the most? Eyes? Smile? Personality?

When I first imagine my life partner I glorify my imaginations with physical appearances..but on second thought, I could never live with a plastic doll, so I would prefer personality the most...I can live with man who may not be good looking, but I can't live with a man whose ideologies differ from mine...I don't need to drown into gorgeous eyes, I need to be able to see trust and faithfulness, My heart need not skip a beat when I see someone, but it needs to feel secure...

How do you envision your perfect wedding? Something small, and personal shared with only family members & friends? Something elaborate & grand? Do you just prefer to elope?

My perfect wedding would comprise of my groom, all my family members, friends and everyone I care for...It doesn't need to be elaborate to be grand although I do desire a wedding on the beach...A beach because I think it would be a naturally beautiful and peaceful place to be wedded at...But then again it depends also on the likings of my life partner, but no I wouldn't elope...marriage is something that should be done with pride for me...

Those who are already married, what was your marriage like? Was it as you'd pictured it to be? Maybe more?

Still single...

In one sentence how would you describe love? The
institution of marriage?

Love to me has infinite words to describe but difficult to explain...It's a feeling that you feel, a joy that you cherish...Love is a connection between two people not necessarily eros,it could be love that you have for your parents, relatives and friends...Love are thoughts of the well being of someone else, love is the emotion that empathizes and sympathizes in sorrow, love is the joy that joins happiness together..

If love is a heart connection then marriage to me is a ritualistic and formal announcement of a marriage...Marriage are vows of togetherness, trust and support throughout life... Whereas love is between two hearts, Marriage connects families together as well...Marriage is a commitment that two people take...

What do you think is most important components of marriages, that keep it alive, and truly forever?

To me trust and understanding keep a marriage alive, love on it's own cannot support a marriage...Trust enables each partner to be able to express freely of their sorrows and joys, and freedom to the other partner...Understanding helps each partner communicate and listen to one another...Love never dies, but a relationship can...that is why even though two people are in love they could end up in a divorce because of the lack of these two and many other components...

Keep smiling...
Love
Soni

Aww, such a sweet topic Wafah ji.... 😃 I dunno if I'll be able to answer this, haven't thought about shaadi 😆 haha, just kidding, but will try and answer some of it !

Originally posted by: soni595

A beautiful discussion topic wafah!

How do you envision your partner in life to be? What do you prefer the most? Eyes? Smile? Personality?

When I first imagine my life partner I glorify my imaginations with physical appearances..but on second thought, I could never live with a plastic doll, so I would prefer personality the most...I can live with man who may not be good looking, but I can't live with a man whose ideologies differ from mine...I don't need to drown into gorgeous eyes, I need to be able to see trust and faithfulness, My heart need not skip a beat when I see someone, but it needs to feel secure... I love the way you put that and I agree, if you feel secure with that person, and are comfortable...I believe that eventually the heart beat skipping will come on it's own...

How do you envision your perfect wedding? Something small, and personal shared with only family members & friends? Something elaborate & grand? Do you just prefer to elope?

My perfect wedding would comprise of my groom, all my family members, friends and everyone I care for...It doesn't need to be elaborate to be grand although I do desire a wedding on the beach...A beach because I think it would be a naturally beautiful and peaceful place to be wedded at...But then again it depends also on the likings of my life partner, but no I wouldn't elope...marriage is something that should be done with pride for me... A beach...sounds beautiful...something scenic...and peaceful...nice choice...It might be old fashioned but even I think eloping is a little impersonal...
Those who are already married, what was your marriage like? Was it as you'd pictured it to be? Maybe more?

Still single...

In one sentence how would you describe love? The
institution of marriage?

Love to me has infinite words to describe but difficult to explain...It's a feeling that you feel, a joy that you cherish...Love is a connection between two people not necessarily eros,it could be love that you have for your parents, relatives and friends...Love are thoughts of the well being of someone else, love is the emotion that empathizes and sympathizes in sorrow, love is the joy that joins happiness together..

If love is a heart connection then marriage to me is a ritualistic and formal announcement of a marriage...Marriage are vows of togetherness, trust and support throughout life... Whereas love is between two hearts, Marriage connects families together as well...Marriage is a commitment that two people take... Beautifully Described...

What do you think is most important components of marriages, that keep it alive, and truly forever?

To me trust and understanding keep a marriage alive, love on it's own cannot support a marriage...Trust enables each partner to be able to express freely of their sorrows and joys, and freedom to the other partner...Understanding helps each partner communicate and listen to one another...Love never dies, but a relationship can...that is why even though two people are in love they could end up in a divorce because of the lack of these two and many other components...

Keep smiling...
Love
Soni

Thanks for Sharing your beautiful thoughts...🤗

So far have heard only from Sonia....and would love to hear from others too on their views...and thoughts...
Thanks
Wafah

How do you envision your partner in life to be? What do you prefer the most? Eyes? Smile? Personality?

i personally have had my dream guy since i was 10. he is so perfect but i have never been able to put a face to it till now.😆😆 for me, i look at a guy's eyes. the eyes are the window to the soul so it's the eyes for me. the personality is also just as important as the eyes. i want my life partner to make me laugh even if the world was to end.😊

How do you envision your perfect wedding? Something small, and personal shared with only family members & friends? Something elaborate & grand? Do you just prefer to elope?

i never had envisioned my perfect wedding. my wedding will be already perfect if i have my soul mate with me.😊 but i dislike grand weddings, so i would like a simple affair. eloping is a big no-no for me. i want to have my family with me during my wedding.😛

Those who are already married, what was your marriage like? Was it as you'd pictured it to be? Maybe more?

i am still searching for the one. and i am only 19 yaar, gimme some more time! 😆😆😆

In one sentence how would you describe love? The institution of marriage?

love is a feeling that usually hurts you more than making you happy yet you search for it all your life. instituiton of marriage? i can describe it in one word. Trust.😊 if you have trust, you can 100% have a happy marriage.😊

What do you think is most important components of marriages, that keep it alive, and truly forever?

Trust. also if you get a partner who calls you beautiful even when you're old & wrinkled, u must be the luckiest person on earth & ur love will surely live forever! 😳😳😳

How do you envision your partner in life to be? What do you prefer the most? Eyes? Smile? Personality?

Never really have. He's all blurry, maybe not even that.All I know is that my partner should make me feel on top of the world when I'm with him.

How do you envision your perfect wedding? Something small, and personal shared with only family members & friends? Something elaborate & grand? Do you just prefer to elope?

Funnily enough, I never have envisioned my marriage except I always imagine embarrasing myself somehow😆 It will be grand hopefully. The perfect song that day would be "Aaye ho meri zindagi mein" from Raja hindustani.

Those who are already married, what was your marriage like? Was it as you'd pictured it to be? Maybe more?

You'll be the first one to know when I pass thru this phase!😛

In one sentence how would you describe love? The institution of marriage?

Love is....an emotion which is reflected in a smile. Institution of marriage...sacredness.

What do you think is most important components of marriages, that keep it alive, and truly forever?

Staying young forever! Treat each day as your first day of marriage! Hehe...not that happens but just try to be the same person your spouse married. It should work then...