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Posted: 12 years ago
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@lessan
Well I dont agree that slaping creates so much issues. Though I am frm this gen I believe in this old proverb ,,spare the rod spoil the child,
And its true. And frm the time of ssn1 I have been indicating same in my posts regarding addu.

If u dont teach thm dicipline to ur kids u r at fault. At the end u have to cut the whole big tree becoz it uproots the whole buniyaad of ur house and identity of family in itself.

Mohan was doing all correct so far but now he kind of lost his way at the end. He has failed to stand correct in the light of dharma and got stuck in the relationship maya which will give him only misery and nothing else.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Leesan







Naina,I really didn't want to respond here but you leave me no option !😉

The issue is not whether Addu deserves to be punished by the law if he's found guilty of wrongdoing, but whether he should be forgotten and banished by his parents ,without trying to understand his situation, without helping him see the error of his ways ,without letting him know the truth : that he's been missed and loved all along!And his family was broken and suffered while he was gone! Addu has always thought the opposite, so don't you think he deserves to know the truth after all this time??

Addu is not a murderous rapist ,so the comparison you made is unfair. The CVs have been really careful not to show him actually committing any serious crime,though insinuating it instead. Attempted crimes ,yes! But even the kidnapping charges may not hold water,since he himself was a victim, and just a teacher of these kids, and not actively involved in their abductions. Whatever the law decides re his fate ,so be it, but there were extenuating circumstances and luckily Mohan recognizes this and wants to help Addu as much as possible,as any father would! He doesn't want Addu to suffer any more, and believes that with love and acceptance ,he can be redeemed. And who are we to know for sure or decide ? Mohan is not trying to circumvent the law, the law must take it's course, all he's trying to do is to be a good father, and help Addu in his moment of need. That's what parents do!




Oh is it so. Sorry about tht if Mohan said to cooperate with addu and surrender but didnt u see frm past so many episodes mohan tried to tell addu the truth and nothing but the truth with all his patience frm the time of nanhi marriage and gave him multiple chances to yeild to him and cme bck home.

Did u.see him listening to him well no. He wants to believe in what he wants to feel what others tell doest matter to him. He has adament nature frm.chilhood tht he is someone spl and he has very big fat ego
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: naina2010

@lessan
Well I dont agree that slaping creates so much issues. Though I am frm this gen I believe in this old proverb ,,spare the rod spoil the child,
And its true. And frm the time of ssn1 I have been indicating same in my posts regarding addu.

If u dont teach thm dicipline to ur kids u r at fault. At the end u have to cut the whole big tree becoz it uproots the whole buniyaad of ur house and identity of family in itself.

Mohan was doing all correct so far but now he kind of lost his way at the end. He has failed to stand correct in the light of dharma and got stuck in the relationship maya which will give him only misery and nothing else.




Naina, you speak with such authority on these issues of crime ,punishment,discipline ,child psychology, etc.when you are not an actual expert or with any professional experience. These pronouncements of yours are strictly from your own limited pov! Anecdotal at best, and very narrow minded IMO.

You know of my professional background in this field , as well as Meera's ( Devilsadvocate) ! Yet you continue to choose to ignore and dismiss them, and that's certainly your prerogative.

But once again, everything you've stated above is totally opposite to expert opinion and needs a strong disclaimer! 😉 You do NOT spoil a child by sparing the rod!! In fact severe psychological damage can ensue by physical discipline of a child. That's why it's banned in many countries ! 👏

I know I'm banging my head here , but I tried!!! 😉 Thank heavens Mohan doesn't share your pov !!! 😉And at this point, I'm done too! 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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U said I m comparing apples to oranges, but dont u agree kidnapping childten is even worsen crime than that. The families which lead lifes in misey all through and how many criminals get injected into society.
Even whn he faced such horrible misery this addu still support daddaji actibities and still fights mohan . How much acceptable is tht. Well atleast I cannot accept him. So to say cvs left no chance of redeeming addu bck.
May be it will be shown he being sent to jail for lifetime. If his behaviour changes afterwith the support and love of his family there cud be a possibility tht his term can be shortened and he comes out as a changed person. Let see
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Leesan - I will certainly dig into Meera's threads and look for those posts. Actually, I did visit her last couple of threads and I am aware of her sensible musings and also of everyone else's who drops by her threads, including you :)). I am sure these posts you are referring to will make for interesting and enlightening reading. Thanks so much for the pointer😊

And yes, despite the time constraints now, hope the makers will try to show Addu's redemption a bit convincingly. The sensitive nature of this track deserves that at the very least. Though given the jet speed at which things are moving, I am not holding my breath for the same. I have now reconciled to the fact that what we will see shall be an abridged and probably an inadequate version of what might have been planned originally 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sansaa

@Leesan - I will certainly dig into Meera's threads and look for those posts. Actually, I did visit her last couple of threads and I am aware of her sensible musings and also of everyone else's who drops by her threads, including you :)). I am sure these posts your are referring to will make for interesting and enlightening reading. Thanks so much for the pointer😊


Despite the time constraints now, hope that the makers, will try to show Addu's redemption a bit convincingly. The sensitive nature of this track deserves that at the very leastt. Though given the jet speed at which things are moving, I am not holding my breath for the same. I have now reconciled to the fact that what we will see shall be an abridged version of what might have been planned originally 😕




Thanks for your response! Do take a look,you won't be disappointed! 👍🏼
And that's why I'm so upset with this revamp ,not that it's happening at all,but the timing is all wrong IMO. We've had to endure so much with NBT 2, and now that were getting to the crux of the season, Addus revelation, redemption and return, and the healing of a family, it's being rushed through at breakneck speed and not given the time ,respect and treatment it deserves! Then what was the point of NBT 2 ? Just pain and suffering, with little or no relief till now?😡 I just wished that they had ended it with dignity and sensitivity.


Anyways I know I'm in the minority, but I'm a tad nervous about the methods they'll use to introduce the revamp, since it seems as if it's a whole new story with MM back to their youthful personas! 😕

I guess they're squeezing in a mini series NBT 3, by ending NBT 2 prematurely! 😉 Lets see what happens in the next few weeks! 😉

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Well I will.also look into the thread which u all r refering here. Becoz of my busy schedule I did not look into it.

And u all might be thinking I am so happy to make this post on Mohan. Whom I love the most . I am literally sad today to write all this for him.
I am still hoping spiderman makes the right move soon

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