pehle Megha aur ab Mohan ????!

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naina2010

@naina2010

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Posted: 12 years ago

Pehle Megha tested my patience in understanding Mohan and her behavior towards him was not good.
Now when I see Megha is set herself correct and following correct things in setting Addu correct,this Mohan is completlu ruining things for everyone.

Mohan ka dimaag kharab hogaya hai ki Addu jaise criminal ko bail karwane chala
Yeh MM na ek nahi tho doosra zabardast galati karne mein number one hain

How can Mohan bail criminal. Kya mazaak hai yeh cvs. Ek insaan bas 2 ghante mein badal jaaye yeh duniya mein kahi bhi possible hai kya?

What Mohan is doing is completly incorret. What happens in the future if this criminal plans and tries to kill Mohan and to save if Nanhi dies. Then In my eyes Mohan Bhatnagar doimgs frm the beginning will be void for me . I wull not excuse him and more than addu Mohan Bhatnagar will be the biggest criminal and will remain that way.

And I am very unhappy wih this twist of addu coming home. Itne sare crime karke koi bail pe ghar aaye aur wo bhi MB jaise insaan usko ghar leke aaya isse zyaada sharmnak cheez aur koi nahi.

Looks like for Mohan ko apna sincere pyaar addu ko dikhane mein jitna interest hai aur apni baat ko prove karnekeliye wo addu ko ghar lanemein kamiyab hona hai. Chahe wo kitni logo ko murder kikiya hua criminal hi kyon na ho aur wo sab ko chakma deke aage jaake chaahe kitno ko bhi maarde usse Mb ko koi pharak nahi padta. Wah bhai wah Mohan kya baat hai.

Atleast I am extremly happy that aage jaake koi bhi durghatna ho usme Megha ki koi bhi galti nahi hogi.
She is free and clean now in my view she is a dutiful mother lover,wife,friend and honest human being.

Edited by naina2010 - 12 years ago

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MysticalDawn

@MysticalDawn

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Posted: 12 years ago

Just relax and don't get so hyper dear and it will also be nice if you avoided using the kind of harsh words that u have. You can also convey what u want to without using the kind of language you have IMO.

Also, instead of being so judgmental, try and look at the situation in an in depth way from all perspectives. Understand why Mohan is doing what he is doing. All Mohan wants is a second chance for Addu - a chance to reform him as any parent wld. He does not want to give up on him...parents don't. Wld u, if you had a kid who went astray? Life is not black and white, simple and one dimensional imo and kids are not some materialistic stuff that ppl can throw away that easily. Also, Mohan here rightly or wrongly, feels guilty somewhere abt what happened to Addu in addition to genuinely wanting to help him walk the correct path

Megha did what she did as it was all too sudden for her and she was under shock - the revelation to her was too sudden and her reaction to it too was instantaneous. Mohan has had time to internalize everything and is reacting accordingly after think thru everything

Remember - No parents give up on their children ever..forget easily. Also, it is teh circumstances that have made Addu who he is.. Addu's kidnapping, his torture, the life he led were responsible in making him what he is. And its the responsibility of his loved ones to get him back on the right path which is what Mohan is doing and rightly so IMO!

As an imp saying too says - Hate the crime and not the criminal. Everyone deserves a second chance so why begrudge a father wanting to give a sec chance to his wayward son

What is being shown is realistic too. Real life is full of such examples where parents fight legal battles for children their whole life and wish that they are able to reform them and have them lead happy lives.

Example - .

When Sanjay Dutt was in Jail under TADA, Sunil Dutt did not give up on him...he ran from pillar to post to get him out of jail even though he was caught under terrorist act and there was solid evidence against him. Before that too, he had given Sunil dutt lot of trouble with his drug addiction, his volent streak etc etc. did Sr dutt give up on him? No...not till his last breath!

Think of the situation from a parent's pov, from a child's pov who was kidnapped and put on the path of crime and also Mohan's pov specifically given the background and the story behind Addu's disappearance

One needs to look at such sensitive things in an indepth manner and not superficially pass harsh judgements.

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Leesan

@Leesan

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Posted: 12 years ago

@ Sansaa! Excellent post re Mohan/ Addu situation ! 👏 Well said! A few of us have been expressing a similar pov for quite some time now. In reality,Mohan is just doing what most concerned and loving parents would do: Never give up on their children, because in their mind and heart,once there's life, there's always hope ! 😊 And I think in the final analysis Mohan will be proven right re Addu! 😉

Thanks again, great post! 👍🏼

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naina2010

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Posted: 12 years ago

@sansaa
can u tell me with the reasons stated above will it change anything abt addu or can he be set free. ?
Whatever is the reason he is a criminal and he need to be in prison
Law is for everyone and it stays neutral u all knw that very well.
If chances r given it shud be given for all equally .

And bitter lessons learnt. Addu is wht he is today bcoz of his wrong doings frm childhood and he was never been set straight by mother first and later he himself is into the crimeworld. And he lived up his life liking bad and hurting good
When its time to set him right Mohan in the name of love is doing same mistake
Addu will never ever like Mohan in his life. He basically cannot take any thing frm him either good or bad u people r failimg to understand the ego of addu. He can be very happy to live like orphan doimg good or bad but he dont want mohan around him. This os pure form of saddism.
and u all talking here mother and father love. I think all ur pov are same but I am holding a completely diff pov

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MysticalDawn

@MysticalDawn

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Posted: 12 years ago

Thanks Leesan!

Frankly I fail to understand why are some ppl refusing to look at the gravity of the life altering situation Addu faced. Its unimaginable what the boy must have gone thru. Also, he is not who he is at the moment just coz he spent better part of his life with hard core criminals who did not leave him a choice but to do what he did. But the boy also is under this huge misconception that his family forgot and abandoned him. Its not that he is a feeling less robot...the very fact that he is hell bent on hurting his own family so badly shows how deep his sense of betrayal is. He is hurting and wants to give it back in kind. Of course, his sense of betrayal is misplaced and he has misjudged the entire situation...but the guy does not know that at the moment imo. I am not justifying his wrong ways or condoning anything he has done (frankly CVs have gone a bit too far to create drama element here) but one needs to understand the 'whys and hows' also behind what he is doing and not be completely blind towards the same.

And Mohan - whatever the poor guy does, he finds no endorsements, does he?. When he slapped Addu, there were many who said he shld not have salpped...it was too extreme etc. Why...wld they have said the same if Mohan was Addu's real father? Ironically, if he had not slapped/punished Addu for his wrong doing...same or another set of ppl wld have said...see since he is a step father he does not care enough to set his son right. That he is only concerend abt creating a good image of him self in his son's eyes even though it is at the cost of his son's well being! I mean, its a lose-lose for him no mater what he does imo

Even in this situation, if he had been unrelentingly tough on Addu...ppl wld have said, he is not fit to be a father...that he is not acting maturely...that instead of being tough he shld have tried to reach out to Addu by showing him that he cares, that his family cares...that this is what his real father wld have done to turn him around!

And frankly it really bothers me to see that despite knowing what happened to Addu, the kind of hellish life he led and on top of that the kind of misunderstandings he had with regards to his family and Mohan...why can't ppl cut him some slack and not begrudge him having a second chance in life. And I am talking abt the character here regardless of the actor's emoting abilities.

Frankly, I feel, at this point in time - we need to cut all 3 of them some slack. Many are criticizing Megha too for behaving the way she did with Addu. But in my view she did not get enough time to think thru stuff. She reacted impulsively and had no time to process all the info that was suddenly downloaded on her. Hope she will be shown later wanting to understand why Addu became this way and trying to help him with his redemption. Outright rejection is not the solution here imo. And frankly, I don't know of a single mother in real life who wld give up on a lost & found child like this, knowing very well what he may have gone thru and what made him turn into what he is. She wld cry and begrudge her fate but wld still want a chance to show her child the right path...a chance to heal and lead a happy life.

Finally, according to me, all 3 of them - Mohan Megha and Addu are victims of circumstances here - grappling and struggling desperately to make sense of what life has cruelly dealt them and doing their best to deal with the same in their own way. Addu is no doubt handling it all the extreme wrong way...but then he too is human and is making a mistake or rather a blunder...but for God's sake why have an issue with Mohan, as a father, wanting to help him out and set him on the right path or why snatch that one chance away from Addu!

Just wish we all cld look at things in a bit more sensitized way and not in a black and white, simpleton way and be so harshly judgmental based on the same

Sorry, for pouring it all out here like this😊. Actually I was resisting saying anything on this subject even though I felt strongly abt certain things being said but guess today it crossed my threshold limit and hence the rant lol

Edited by Sansaa - 12 years ago

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naina2010

@naina2010

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Posted: 12 years ago

@sansaa I can understand ur pov. But if I ask u question and plz honestly ans plz dont take it to heart.
Jst place addu in the place of those guyz one among who were imvolved in tht delhi rape case where victim battled and finally died.
Even if u chk the bgrd of the families its pathetic past thy come frm. And stthm whu the parents gave up on their child. Will any parent teach this stuff to their kids however bckgrd thy come frm. Can the law keep quiet just becoz he is son of MB and Megha vyas who lost him 12 yrs bck so he became like this so give sec chance.
Well Megha did absolutely correct act amd I suppport her 100%
I dint support mohan as addu is not trustable he cud be for their family but not for society.

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Leesan

@Leesan

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Posted: 12 years ago

@Sansaa! Again...,👏

But you're preaching to the choir here! 😆 I cannot tell you how many times a few of us have been saying the same thing from almost the beginning of NBT 2! If you ever have time please visit Meera's ( Devilsadvocate) thread. There 98 of them: Musings of Monuland !) we've been debating this issue for months now! 😉

Personally I didn't like Megha's slap, because I just don't like resorting to physical means ,and by anyone! So I didn't like Mohan's slap to Addu either! And I think it's a too much exploited tactic used in tellyland.,and sends a wrong message. But that's water under the bridge now.

I have always maintained that out of everyone ,Addu suffered the most! He had already lost his father at 4, then by 6 had a stepfather with whom he never hit it off! There were issues of jealousy and rejection, and as an 8 yr old he dealt with it by negative attention seeking behaviors ,lying, stealing and failing !! Addu needed help,but was overlooked and overcompensated! But when he was abducted,he lost everything and every one he knew and loved. Surrounded by criminals, and having to survive,it's not surprising that he turned out the way he did! And of course his character has been made that much worse for dramatic effect! 😉

Anyways, I hope that once he knows the whole truth, and the tragedy that his family had to endure ,he'll have a change of heart. NBT 2 has always been about redemption , of everyone, and I hope and wish the same for Addu as well.

Once again, great post,thanks! 👍🏼

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naina2010

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Posted: 12 years ago

I believe in one thing very strongly. Childhood agar kharab ho ek waqt tak wo sahi hai. But when any human being grws up nature puts sense in all persons mind wht is correct. Becoz they are part in the society not living away frm it na.

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Leesan

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: naina2010
@sansaa I can understand ur pov. But if I ask u question and plz honestly ans plz dont take it to heart.
Jst place addu in the place of those guyz one among who were imvolved in tht delhi rape case where victim battled and finally died.
Even if u chk the bgrd of the families its pathetic past thy come frm. And stthm whu the parents gave up on their child. Will any parent teach this stuff to their kids however bckgrd thy come frm. Can the law keep quiet just becoz he is son of MB and Megha vyas who lost him 12 yrs bck so he became like this so give sec chance.
Well Megha did absolutely correct act amd I suppport her 100%
I dint support mohan as addu is not trustable he cud be for their family but not for society.

Naina,I really didn't want to respond here but you leave me no option ! 😉

The issue is not whether Addu deserves to be punished by the law if he's found guilty of wrongdoing, but whether he should be forgotten and banished by his parents ,without trying to understand his situation, without helping him see the error of his ways ,without letting him know the truth : that he's been missed and loved all along! And his family was broken and suffered while he was gone! Addu has always thought the opposite, so don't you think he deserves to know the truth after all this time??

Addu is not a murderous rapist ,so the comparison you made is unfair. The CVs have been really careful not to show him actually committing any serious crime,though insinuating it instead. Attempted crimes ,yes! But even the kidnapping charges may not hold water,since he himself was a victim, and just a teacher of these kids, and not actively involved in their abductions. Whatever the law decides re his fate ,so be it, but there were extenuating circumstances and luckily Mohan recognizes this and wants to help Addu as much as possible,as any father would! He doesn't want Addu to suffer any more, and believes that with love and acceptance ,he can be redeemed. And who are we to know for sure or decide ? Mohan is not trying to circumvent the law, the law must take it's course, all he's trying to do is to be a good father, and help Addu in his moment of need. That's what parents do!

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MysticalDawn

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Posted: 12 years ago

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Naina - For God's sake don't compare these two things. Its highly irresponsible and in fact quite extreme and offensive. They are just not the same. You can't compare apples to oranges and then ask for an explanation! In fact, this analogy is totally out of line and u must edit it out in my view imo!

And who is talking abt skirting the law or violating it? Neither the show nor we are saying so! Mohan got a bail for Addu legally which the law allows for - which is why police let him have bail. What's wrong with that? The option is available in the law and was exercised, which everyone does...what's the big deal in that...Mohan did not do anything unlawful here.

Also, given what u are saying...i think u did not hear what Mohan said to Addu yesterday! Plz see the epi again.

He told Addu to surrender and cooperate with police in exposing the entire illegal business of daddaji as that wld help him come out of this situation he had put himself in and also help him redeem himself. All he said was I will help u in this and be there for u.

What's wrong with that? This way case against daddaji wld become water tight and Addu too wld get a chance to redeem himself - by serving reduced jail time for whatever time he is sentenced to and then come out and have a normal, honest living having shunned the life of crime. That wld be a win-win for all concerned and more importantly a wayward young boy wld get a chance to rebuild his life away from the crime world and within the sanctuary of his family.

Btw police too try to do this - they make such ppl turn into approvers by way of which they divulge all the info to police and help them nail the kingpins. This helps them in getting reduced sentences and a chance to live respectable, honest lives. That is what Mohan suggested to Addu too. Nothing wrong with that...in fact it was a very responsible thing to do.

You must read a book by Kiran Bedi who ran a very successful program for reformation and rehabilitation of convicts when she was in charge of Tihar Jail and she won the Magsaysay award too for her such efforts.

Finally, suggest that u to look at the situation with an open mind and a bit more maturely imo. No offense, but this emotional outburst calling for ppl's blood is too extreme a reaction!

Anyways...I have said all I cld on this subject...which is quite a lot actually imo. So I am done!

Edited by Sansaa - 12 years ago