Friends and their personalities

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Posted: 12 years ago
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What are friends? someone who is supposed to support you in every situation , accept your flaws, be transparent with you .

Honestly I always have had such friends but recently with growing age I feel some friends have double standards .I know I shouldn't care about one who changes I should go on with who are with me but it bothers me -You pretend to be true friend but then sometimes they don't seem anything more than a colleague

I am not posting a teen problem .This is what I observed in one of my friend recently .He always makes me feel special but then I see he is doing special things with others as in other cool , more smart and some famous people of class

So I feel some friends have personality of being friends with all famous and cool people and they are with you because they are diplomatic someday you might do something good so they have a plan to stick with everyone and not be a true self

I think they are scared of being lost if they become true. Why would people prefer rather to be with fake friend than no friends at all . At one point of time I was all alone I had only classmate friends . I prefer either few true friendsor no friends at all I don't say other should also be like that

But how could you possibly stay with someone for whom friendship is a just a show off ? you will be anything sweet with everyone because you wanna show people that you have millions of friend

Myabe I am lucky that I have that confidence to stand alone that is why maybe I earned some few good friends but then the other don't seem good and when I tell them I don't think they are my friend they emotionally blackmail

That sucks I see they are what ………

I don't know what I am saying

But I want to ask you guys about different personalities of friends

DO reply

I am confused

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: hookorcrook

What are friends? someone who is supposed to support you in every situation , accept your flaws, be transparent with you .

Honestly I always have had such friends but recently with growing age I feel some friends have double standards .I know I shouldn't care about one who changes I should go on with who are with me but it bothers me -You pretend to be true friend but then sometimes they don't seem anything more than a colleague

I am not posting a teen problem .This is what I observed in one of my friend recently .He always makes me feel special but then I see he is doing special things with others as in other cool , more smart and some famous people of class

So I feel some friends have personality of being friends with all famous and cool people and they are with you because they are diplomatic someday you might do something good so they have a plan to stick with everyone and not be a true self

I think they are scared of being lost if they become true. Why would people prefer rather to be with fake friend than no friends at all . At one point of time I was all alone I had only classmate friends . I prefer either few true friendsor no friends at all I don't say other should also be like that

But how could you possibly stay with someone for whom friendship is a just a show off ? you will be anything sweet with everyone because you wanna show people that you have millions of friend

Myabe I am lucky that I have that confidence to stand alone that is why maybe I earned some few good friends but then the other don't seem good and when I tell them I don't think they are my friend they emotionally blackmail

That sucks I see they are what '''

I don't know what I am saying

But I want to ask you guys about different personalities of friends

DO reply

I am confused

Totally agree.. make some virtual friends on DM.. they will be selfless😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Its about us in the end. We expect, we want sincerity, we want fairness, we get hurt, we mind, we worry. You need to remove that element of we and then you will be okay.
my point is we should keep our sensitivties to minimum. you cannot give pain to someone who does not have sense of pain. lol. so yes just consider this as part of life and move on.
fox is writing in sleep. sorry if i did not make sense.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nice post and something on which I can give my POV being little baby on DM 😆

In Real life of course I need friend to share, get support in worst condition and even more mature than me and of course he/she should accept the way I am.

Friend should be mirror also who shows our strength and weakness as well

Talk about transparency this is required from both sides but that takes long time to be and sometime never happens will all. And depends upon person's nature as well that how much they should open themselves to their friends

yes but double faced friend can never be transparent and friendship is not at same level with all friends, the way you called friendship with colleagues sometimes.

Naah, I keep distance with persons who become close with celebs and then ignore because we are not celeb.

In Real life I have also seen double faced friends who pretended to be friend of mine but got their real face when I was in bad situation.

So I make friends not so easily

Yes but on IF when I entered have got some very good friends even though we are having different opinions and are friends outside IF also but have seen(not experienced) people having worst experience on IF like breaching privacy and have seen double faced people also on virtual life.

Edited by chacha_chaudhri - 12 years ago

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