No Suhaag rat...please!!!!!! - Page 3

well analysed Poppy.

Originally posted by: Dabulls23

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<font color="#660099" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Pramad did not come between SaMud...Saras broke off SaMud's wedding, Kumud accepted Pramad Rishta so why punish Pramad? Its domino effect...</font>

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<font color="#660099" face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">She should not have said yes to VC abt the marriage until she was over Saras and the betrayal..She cant trust Saras any more...I would not...I don't blame her for her hurt...I do blame her for her quick yes to marry someone if she is not ready to SR. Why punish innocent person for someone else's fault.</font>

<em><font color="#660099" face="Georgia">BTW for a moment I thought she was going to pass out as he put garland around her & held her hand for pheras...Prego indeed...Cant wait to see that coming up 😉</font>

Originally posted by: nitzy_21

She is not doing the marriage to take revenge...she is doing it for her family. She has no more sapne, if her hubby wants he can do anything to her, but as far as I know, she won't do it. She is almost dead. I know she can never forget Sarsa and she can never forget his betrayal too.

Originally posted by: poppy2009

What Saras did was absolutely wrong...but what Kumud is doing is worse!

I do agree on this But Kumud's actions are reaction to Saras's very very bad impulsive decision..VC considering Pramad rishta for Kumud within minutes of Saras breaking off marriage is the Worst decision a parent can make for their daughter..They are supposed to be more wise and mature in this sort a thing instead of ghar ki izzat and BS..

And it is being made worse, because the creatives have failed to show the reason behind her actions!

Most people in the audience are not convinced about Kumud's decision at all!

Agreed, that she was betrayed by him twice...technically just once! His rejecting her proposal for the first time was a choice he made...how is that a betrayal? He hadn't even met her back then! Just because she took it up as an ego issue and made such a big fuss about it doesn't mean it was a betrayal!

Rejecting a marriage proposal the first time was Saras's right to his own choice...No betrayal there...But this time it sure is and a very cruel betrayal after falling in love, mutually having PMS and than dumping her a day b4 the wedding is bad..

The creatives are not showing the time gap between Saras calling off the wedding...Kumud's reaction...the repurcussions...and Saras realizing what he had done! Everything is being done in a span of two episodes!

How on earth can we feel bad for Kumud, when Saras is already being shown to regret his decision...which he clearly made under emotional duress? But she is making her decision in all her senses! No one has forced to marry her...Vidya Chatur didn't beg on his feet to his daughter to save his izzat...he just put up a proposal that she would get married on the same day...and before he could even ask her, she said yes!😕

This is where I tend to disagree...Just because mr. flip flop decided to impulsively break the wedding off and the next day decided to show up at the wedding does not mean Kumud has to forgive him...Saras should have known the implications or after math of his impulsive decision...I do not cut him a slack for showing up at ratannagari..

If Saras made a decision under emotional duress than so did Kumud...She was heart broken by the man she loved and was to be married...Saras's heart was broken by his father a betrayal to his mother..2 different scenerios...Apple to orange comparison but they both were under emotional duress..I am not saying Kumud's decision is not a mistake..Both made boo boos. big ones..But kumud's life is on the way to be destroyed by their decision...Saras may be hurt but he is single mind you and not married to someone random.😳

VC should have never brought up Pramad marriage proposal at the time like this...he as a father should have known better...If he had not brought it up Kumud would have never asked her father to find her someone to marry within 24 hrs...

It is not for her family's honor that she is marrying...she is marrying because her ego is crushed! Simple as that!

She is marrying for many reasons...Family honor,, hurt, betrayal and her own self respect or ego...You are being harsh on Kumud...Its a domino effect to Saras's action...He got the ball rolling...He started it and kumud is finishing it my dear..both at fault but Saras to be blamed first...sorry.

Coming to the main post, by not consummating her marriage with Pramad, Kumud will be doing further injustice to her husband. She has not only hidden a huge fact about her life from him, but now she is putting the weight of her past on her husband's shoulder and making his life miserable without any rhyme or reason! (Assuming that Pramad is dying to sleep with Kumud😆)

Whether Pramad is a good guy or not doesn't matter...Kumud has to fulfill her side of the bargain. She made a choice and she has to fulfill it...whether she likes it or not!

Now these last two paras I totally 100% agree and said the same in my 3 posts b4...Kumud made a conscious decision be it in duress or not...SaMud have put Pramad in between them...Pramad is an innocent person...Does not matter how he will turn out..😃

Originally posted by: -bornalee-

according to the novel pramad gonna leave her in their wedding night n will go to a call gal😃

kumud belongs to saras only😳