Daddu used caution when he said that J may have made mistakes but we have seen him be a good guy in his interaction with us.
But his saying - lets see how J feels about Saanchi had nothing wrong in it.
Nobody is trying to wash J's sins or pretend that jawwani ki nadaani is a given and MUST be tolerated. Daddu has no basis on which to accept or reject J for S, so he is just asking the others to keep and open mind and meet Jagy for further clarification.
Sa is a female Jagya 10 years back. And Ira is Dadisa who has never learnt to say NO to her daughter. Right or wrong ceases to matter to her when her dear darling says - 'But this is what I want" !!!
Ira has allowed Saanchi to get everything her way and stamp her feet if she doesn't get it. So - now too, Ira will feel compelled to goto J and ask if he will accept Saanchi. Given how the CV's have scrambled Sumi's brains for now - Sumi may happily accept Saanchi for Jagya and throw Ganga out. Ganga might also feel compelled to take up some place on rent as she will now get a salary form the hospi.
And THEN - (rubbing hands) - I will get to see a lot of fun !!!
With no Ganga to work in the house - and increased term of Gehna - all the work will fall on Sumi and and and - -Yes - our darling Saanchi !!
Lets see how much she will adore making kheer and adrak ki chai and nashta and gatte ki sabzi and everything. She might be the one saying - I hate this stupid kitchen - whjy can't we just go out and get a pizza ??