28/6/13WU Shekhars discuss Sa-J, G passes her exam - Page 5

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Posted: 12 years ago
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@ Skepblun i gave a general comment of my opinion 😆please lets have peace on that neither i am asking to have debate on Gauri i am fed up of debates on Gauri For me Gauri is much more responsible in breakage of her relation than Jagaya otherwise whatever the case ups and downs Jagaya was staying with her it was because her actions the relationship broke

Dadu analyzed everything according to him He doesn't know much about Jagaya if we see Shekhars don't know much about him The way Ira and Alok were blaming him was also wrong How much they know him that they are punching him like this even for his past so Dadu tried to be understanding to him little bit as well otherwise it was wrong the way Ira and Alok were trashing him despite he did so much for them Dadu by jaawani ki galti only meant mistakes done in immaturity which is a fact People do a lot many mistakes in the youthful age when age is blossming freedom is newly given, a lot much anger is there in people as well then and many people lose their track if not being guided properly by their family and Dadu was not wrong if he said Jagaya did mistakes in his immaturity Dadu was not justifying Jagaya's mistakes or he was defensive of him he did right there He only tried to give reasons why this happened from Jagaya which was true as well otherwise Dadu didn't defend Jagaya's mistakes but called him he has learnt his lessons from his past and became a responsible , calm man now removing the flaws in him and Dadu has seen this with his own eyes

only this is what i meant no war with you here
Edited by sidra08 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Daddu used caution when he said that J may have made mistakes but we have seen him be a good guy in his interaction with us.

But his saying - lets see how J feels about Saanchi had nothing wrong in it.

Nobody is trying to wash J's sins or pretend that jawwani ki nadaani is a given and MUST be tolerated. Daddu has no basis on which to accept or reject J for S, so he is just asking the others to keep and open mind and meet Jagy for further clarification.

Sa is a female Jagya 10 years back. And Ira is Dadisa who has never learnt to say NO to her daughter. Right or wrong ceases to matter to her when her dear darling says - 'But this is what I want" !!!

Ira has allowed Saanchi to get everything her way and stamp her feet if she doesn't get it. So - now too, Ira will feel compelled to goto J and ask if he will accept Saanchi. Given how the CV's have scrambled Sumi's brains for now - Sumi may happily accept Saanchi for Jagya and throw Ganga out. Ganga might also feel compelled to take up some place on rent as she will now get a salary form the hospi.

And THEN - (rubbing hands) - I will get to see a lot of fun !!!
With no Ganga to work in the house - and increased term of Gehna - all the work will fall on Sumi and and and - -Yes - our darling Saanchi !!

Lets see how much she will adore making kheer and adrak ki chai and nashta and gatte ki sabzi and everything. She might be the one saying - I hate this stupid kitchen - whjy can't we just go out and get a pizza ??
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Shankythebest

I agree with you.

@Sidra

We have our own opinions so I agree let's end it here.

But I am only against defending someone or making conclusions about someone without knowing all details. Daddu defended Anandi because he knew details about her.

I don't like people making judgements without knowing anything.

I also know youthful age is critical but it is not the norm that mistakes "happen". And these should not be justified or brushed aside in any way. Also age above 18 at least warrants some more responsible behaviour. This is why the young errant people in BV get bashed. If you can choose your career, choose who runs your country then you are also expected to behave more responsibly at that age! Especially in matters as serious as marriage.

Yes I do agree Daddu holding up Jagya's changed nature as a good sign because anyway Ira was bashing Jagya too much despite knowing he showed no interest in her girl. That part I agree with.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Skepblun



I was laughing when she said she didn't believe that her daughter was so stupid so to obsess over a man who did not give her bhaav! Ha! Wake up mummy! Your daughter IS STUPID! 🐷


LOL good one!! Yes Ira has to wake up😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Skep ...i am really against people discussing any person without knowing anything about him and they are deriving conclusions about him Honestly i didn't like the way Shekhars were doing post mortem of Jagaya's life I really loved Mahi in the episode thats why i was giving him standing ovation in my previous post Why Shekhars are doing so when its been cleared to them by their own son Shiv Jagaya is not at fault here its all the way Sanchi after him , its completely one sided and Sanchi herself told them Jagaya doesn't know about it neither gave her any such hint so far so why not Ira and Alok see their own daughter instead of accusing , blaming Jagaya here Ira and Alok i dislike them for what they are doing here How much they really know about Jagaya's life so far that they are deriving conclusions about him and blaming him ? Ira madam is trying to cover up her daughter by making an excuse of Jagaya's past which she is unaware of and her own daughter's nature and kaands she is not unaware of because Sanchi has been doing everything in front of her eyes still she is acting like complete blind person here towards her daughter and blaming some other person here whose past she doesn't know much , present she has seen but she is shrugging it off and for what she is blaming Jagaya for ? why he has been nice to Sanchi? really i agree with libs here according to Ira s philosophy no one should be nice to Sanchi otherwise he will get blamed for Sanchi's actions First she blamed Anandi when Sanchi cheated everyone and wore short dress Anandi was unaware of that chalo at that time Ira didn't know Sanchi cheated Anandi too but here its been cleared to her by her own son and also Sanchi Jagaya is unaware of how she thinks for him but still Ira is punching him putting entire blame on his head he has trapped her poor baby🐷 This is too much Ira is nothing but a blind mother

Coming to Dadu he didn't cover up Jagaya's mistakes at all neither he said he is not responsible for it otherwise why he would say he has learnt lessons from his life and changed himself into a better person Dadu is just an open minded practical person who tried to understand Jagaya as well in past according to his understanding when Jagaya was continuously being bashed by Ira and Alok Dadu was right too in many points He was appreciating Jagaya for his present How he has learnt his lessons and changed himself into a good and responsible man

For me Shekhars discussing Jagaya's life like this is not at right at all I agree with Mahi the most why they are really doing post mortem of Jagaya's life when its been cleared to them he doesn't know about Sanchi's love for him neither said anything like this to her ever its clearly one sided and Sanchi's nature is not hidden from them what she likes she tries to get it so why after Jagaya here? Think about controlling Sanchi
Edited by sidra08 - 12 years ago

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