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Ok so i have seen a lot of posts saying Asad deserves all thats coming his way..Before i start, lemme make it clear that am no Asad fan..I always wanted him to pay for all that he did to Zoya..But to say he deserved to be sexually assaulted is taking things too far..Infact i'd go as far as saying that noone deserves to be raped/sexually assaulted irrespective of their behavior or circumstances..And here Asad's only mistake was that he was dumb and extremely trusting..For someone like Asad, this whole experience is gonna be supremely traumatic..Add to it the fact that his marriage broke in an extremely embarrassing manner..Now if the promo is to be believed, he is being slapped by his mom and he is left to cry without any support..Are we all forgetting that he is the real victim here? Imagine a situation where a girl was extremely trusting of her best friend despite repeated warnings and eventually got raped by him..Would you still say she deserves to be raped merely because she made the mistake of trusting her friend? And if the girl gets back home and is slapped for betraying her family, would you call it justified? Then why the gender bias? I have always felt sorry for Zoya and bashed Asad for his loser behavior and judgmental attitude but no way in hell did he deserve this..Am not sure if Gul Khan calls this redemption or teaching Asad a lesson cos this is NOT..Noone deserves to be taught a lesson in this manner..Asad always feared he'd do a Rashid on Zoya..And now apparently his biggest fear has turned into reality..I'd say the situations are far from similar..Rashid willfully fell into the trap and got himself blackmailed by Razia cos the guy is a wimp and he din have the guts to confess to his crime..But Asad on the other hand would be the first person to confess to his crime and here the guy has been sexually assaulted and humiliated in front of all and sundry..Am honestly surprised Dilshad thinks this low of her son..Does she think Asad in his senses would ever rape or sleep with a girl a day before marriage? I understand she is shattered but i really hope she understands the situation cos its Asad who needs all the support at the moment..I wouldn't expect Zoya to support him at the moment after all that she has seen and gone through..Thats too much to expect..But i hope Dilshad knows her son well enough to not keep taunting him and make the situation worse..
I was depressed after yesterday's epi and felt sick for a good 4 hoursđ Am not sure if i can watch this show till the Ajmer track startsđ But i saw many people accusing Asad and thought it fit to express my opinion..Rape is a very sensitive issue and it must always be looked at from a gender neutral point of view..Its an extremely traumatic experience irrespective of the gender of the victim..What they showed yesterday was very disturbing and am not justifying the show..But yes, i do want to repeat that no human deserves to be raped or sexually assaulted..I wouldn't even wish this upon Tanveer who IMO has become the most despised vamp in the history of Indian Tellyđ
P.S.A small part of me is still hoping that they din do the deed not because i want Asad to remain a virgin for Zoya but simply because he does not deserve this..And yeah, we don deserve this either
