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do u think shiv should scold anandi for hiding truth about his sister?

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Suchi-

@Suchi-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#11

I guess nivi but right now Shiv has shown that he is really not good at being a diplomat when it comes to his mother and family. He has always reacted first (except that one time with the whole sleeping with Anandi deal tha tIra made)

Urmi devi fiasco kinda shook Anandi I think .. and that is why she is treading carefully. She does not to make situation worst for herself by butting in and making a fool of herself.

Shiv will get upset but its ok ,... thats better than opening up a can of worms , thats really not hers. LEt sanchi do it. She should stay away. If sanchi gets rejected let thatbe cause Jagya said no... not cause Shiv and Anandi confronted Sanchi.

cause Shiv will def. confront his sister after hearing this. Which brother will liket hat his sister is falling for the guy his wife was once married to??

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 12 years ago

#12

What will happen if she tells Shiv?It will be only her perception of events.

Instead Shiv should come and see for himself what his sister is up to and the form his own opinion.

When he comes to pick them up he should keep his eyes and see the way his sister is throwing herself at a man.

If he comes to the same conclusion that Anandi has come to about Sanchi and Jagya well and good for Annadi.

But how is that going to solve the problem of Sanchi Jagya?

What can Shiv or for that matter any of the Shekhar family members could do when it came to Sanchi?

So there is no point in Anandi telling him and it is no point in telling Sanchi either because she needs to know for herself the man she is obsessed with doesn't see her in that way.

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aparnauma

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Posted: 12 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: dixie123
Suchi: I disagree. I think Anandi should tell or atleast give out a hint to Shiv what she feels about Sanchi. Shiv is her husband. She needs to tell him. He has always been supportive of her. She cannot let Shiv's trust down. She cannot be afraid of Sanchi and Ira and keep quiet. She needs to do the right thing which is to control Sanchi. As she cannot do it, she needs to let Shiv or his family handle this. They can't if they don't know what is happening in Jeitsar.

There is no need to tell Shiv that everything is fine and Sanchi is gul-milgayi with everyone in BH. Why can't she tell that she doubts Sanchi has feelings for Jagya and tell him that she is wearing Lehenga and cooking kheer for Jagya. Its not too bad to tell this. Shiv and she can then come up with a plan to tackle this situation or ask him to come to Jeitsar to see Sanchi's behavior and then decide if her doubts are valid or not.

Nivi it is better they discuss this issue when Shiv also sees what his sister is doing and then if they discuss it will make sense.

If she tells him about her fears it may bias Shiv in making his own decision.I do hope he comes to pick them up and sees Sanchi's behaviour with his own eyes.

After he has seen Sanchi she can put out her theories on that matter to him.

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libsrocks

@libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

#14

I am totally confused now...i think Anandi should tell her doubts to Shiv and also explain him to not openly say everything to everyone until they both are sure about it...then even Shiv will keep an eye on Saanchi and they both together can face whatever bomb Saanchi will explode...there is a difference b/w in-laws and husband and if Anandi discloses her truth to Shiv she will mark that difference...married women find it difficult to openly tell everything to her in-laws or put her views specially when they have SIL and MIL like Saanchi and Ira respectively but that hesitations should not be there with husband or else what the use to getting married to him and leaving your own comfort zone for him

Disclosing her doubts to Shiv does not mean they have to disclose it to their whole family...let both of them observe and then decide but for all this Shiv has to be open enough to accept that his sister is not as sugary and doll as he thought...and also if by any chance he feels Anandi had a misunderstanding regarding Saanchi then he should just make Anandi understand about it instead of making an issue that ''you badmouthed my sister unnecessarily'' or ''how can you make such concepts about her when the truth is she is doing this just out of kindness'' and blah blah blah.

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HemaG

@HemaG

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Posted: 12 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: chahat11

I think he should scold her telling her that he has given her all the freedom to speak with him whatever was in her mind.
She can she anything and everything with him then why she kept quiet about Saachi. If she will not share it with him I am sure Shiv will somehow get it out of her.
She has the habit to bear everything alone and then take the blame also But that was Anandi Singh . Anandi Shiv Raj Shekhar should change her way of dealing with things
It should not be about breaking trust please Ira ne jo gusse mein kaha use sach nahi hona chahiye It will be sick.

i second u chahat...its exactly the same what am i thinking...⭐️

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