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Posted: 12 years ago
#31

Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Only her mother Archana can do this ..She was the one who always screamed from the roof tops about how Purvi can never be wrong etc etc ...now all those claims have fallen flat on the ground ..

Archana must think about baby Pari and stay very angry with Purvi until Purvi starts giving Pari the importance that she deserves and until Purvi starts behaving herself ...
If tomorrow Ovi and Arjun reconcile and Arjun asks for Pari then I am sure Purvi will not even think for a minute and give Pari to Ovi ...this is not done ...
or maybe she will tell him ( like last time ) to go and have sex with Ovi again and make another child ...
It is not purvi's business how Arjun and Ovi want their relationship to be ...


Im glad that Archu is still showing anger towards Purvi. I know right now Purvi feels as though her husband gave her a dhoka and I do want Archu to support her ( make sure Pari has a proper place to live). But it should not make her all of a sudden forgive her for her actions, that should come on its own not because of this.

I seriously want Archana to give Purvi a good yelling on this. Not only Archana but Arjun also when Purvi tries to tell him what to do.

Her intentions are not bad but they just lead to trouble. Purvi needs to see reality and think about her child.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I hope that this time Arjun not listen Puri. He stand himself & agree to sign divorce paper & free to ovi. Want Khadoos Arjun back. Enough listen Purvi demand. Now at least this time ignore her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It seems people are responding to something that hasn't been shown yet? As of yesterday's episode a lot of the things mentioned here haven't happened yet. I guess it's stuff from SBS for upcoming shows?

To date at least, Archana should be angry at Purvi, Arjun and Ovi equally, and Onir too. Archana should not have invited Onir when she felt like she did about Purvi.

If Purvi is not welcome in the house or at the party, neither should the others. Purvi and Ovi both wanted Arjun to marry the girl he didn't love and leave the girl he did love, but worse than wanting him to, Arjun is the one that did it.

It's not about Purvi's good or bad intentions, imo. Purvi needs to stop meddling, Arjun needs to grow a spine and Ovi needs to face reality. All three, not just Purvi, have destroyed a lot of lives because of their actions. So they all need to be treated equally. Either forgive all of them, or be angry at all of them. Don't pick and choose.

@Tanya...from what has been said, one can surmise that Purvi isn't angry at Onir for being married before, but angry that he is married right now to another woman. For whatever mistakes Purvi made, the last thing she wanted to do was be involved with someone who is married. Why she has stood on her head to avoid Arjun.

In Purvi's conservative upbringing, bigamy wasn't something she would have willingly been involved with. It seems logical she should be angry that Onir pretended he was single when he was already married. Even in her anger though, she still was civil to him. I want to know why Onir & Shalini planned this before I can judge whether Onir has any respectability. It was known and planned according to the story...Seems pretty wrong to me.





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Posted: 12 years ago
#34

Originally posted by: naava

It seems people are responding to something that hasn't been shown yet? As of yesterday's episode a lot of the things mentioned here haven't happened yet. I guess it's stuff from SBS for upcoming shows?


To date at least, Archana should be angry at Purvi, Arjun and Ovi equally, and Onir too. Archana should not have invited Onir when she felt like she did about Purvi.

If Purvi is not welcome in the house or at the party, neither should the others. Purvi and Ovi both wanted Arjun to marry the girl he didn't love and leave the girl he did love, but worse than wanting him to, Arjun is the one that did it.

It's not about Purvi's good or bad intentions, imo. Purvi needs to stop meddling, Arjun needs to grow a spine and Ovi needs to face reality. All three, not just Purvi, have destroyed a lot of lives because of their actions. So they all need to be treated equally. Either forgive all of them, or be angry at all of them. Don't pick and choose.

@Tanya...from what has been said, one can surmise that Purvi isn't angry at Onir for being married before, but angry that he is married right now to another woman. For whatever mistakes Purvi made, the last thing she wanted to do was be involved with someone who is married. Why she has stood on her head to avoid Arjun.

In Purvi's conservative upbringing, bigamy wasn't something she would have willingly been involved with. It seems logical she should be angry that Onir pretended he was single when he was already married. Even in her anger though, she still was civil to him. I want to know why Onir & Shalini planned this before I can judge whether Onir has any respectability. It was known and planned according to the story...Seems pretty wrong to me.





Naava I agree with you. If you didn't want the wife at the party how do you invite the husband? But then let's accept that the party wasn't to welcome Archana hoem, it is just an excuse for another public humiliation of Purvi. I too will wait nad see what the Onir story really is before I jump to any conclusions about him.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Naava and @Sakhile

I agree I didn't like how they only invited Onir... Id rather they just not invited them at all.

I bet Cv's just did it because they couldn't show that Archana was inviting Purvi but then they needed them at the party so they could do the whole drama about Onir ki sachiye.

Why do they always need to have public tamashas? They willingly spoil their public image
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Posted: 12 years ago
#36

Originally posted by: -LiveLaughLove-

@Naava and @Sakhile

I agree I didn't like how they only invited Onir... Id rather they just not invited them at all.

I bet Cv's just did it because they couldn't show that Archana was inviting Purvi but then they needed them at the party so they could do the whole drama about Onir ki sachiye.

Why do they always need to have public tamashas? They willingly spoil their public image

Attention seekers all of them!!😡
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Posted: 12 years ago
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so all that party was arranged only to call Purvi indirectly and humiliate her ???

I don't think so ...
The way it looked , the party was because Archana had recovered from Coma after 2 months and both her and her husband were very happy about it and could not stop thanking God for this ..
also another big reason was that Archana wanted to introduce her handsome son proudly to the rest of the world ..It was lovely to see Soham in the party .As for Purvi , I think she deserves the cold treatment that she is getting from her mother ...it will do her good ..
After becoming an unwed mother , how can she still expect her family to keep respecting her the way they did once ...
Everyone has to pay a price for their choices . Purvi made a choice ...she went with her heart and got initimate with Arjun without being married, the next day she dumped him despite knowing their relationship had become so intimate ...had a child out of wedlock ..
Archana still cares for her or else she would not have thanked Onir the way she did , but Purvi has lost the respect that she once had in her parents heart for her ...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

so all that party was arranged only to call Purvi indirectly and humiliate her ???


I don't think so ...
The way it looked , the party was because Archana had recovered from Coma after 2 months and both her and her husband were very happy about it and could not stop thanking God for this ..
also another big reason was that Archana wanted to introduce her handsome son proudly to the rest of the world ..It was lovely to see Soham in the party .As for Purvi , I think she deserves the cold treatment that she is getting from her mother ...it will do her good ..
After becoming an unwed mother , how can she still expect her family to keep respecting her the way they did once ...
Everyone has to pay a price for their choices . Purvi made a choice ...she went with her heart and got initimate with Arjun without being married, the next day she dumped him despite knowing their relationship had become so intimate ...had a child out of wedlock ..
Archana still cares for her or else she would not have thanked Onir the way she did , but Purvi has lost the respect that she once had in her parents heart for her ...


No, of course the party was not for Purvi but for Archana's coming out of the coma...it was arranged by Manav, not by Archana, and is a wonderful reason. (Soham's introduction fit right in nicely but certainly not Manav's reason for giving the party. 😆 )

I agree with you Tanya that Archana still loves Purvi. That was never in doubt. It was cute how she thanked Onir...but we have to wait and see if a thanks is appropriate imo. I really do not like this Onir and haven't from the beginning. In my mind there was always something strange about him and about the arrangement.

I know that Puriv's actions affect us differently(. I personally have no problem with the intimacy, and in some traditional cultures, the betrothal period is the same as marriage and intimacy not frowned upon during that time) but if Archu was offended, and her way of rebuke and teaching a lesson, or even losing respect is how she is treating Purvi, shouldn't she do the same with Ovi? When Ovi tried to kill her baby by heavy drinking when Ovi forced the marriage of a man who didn't love her, when Ovi wished that Purvi would be murdered when she was kidnapped.

Come on, if a parent is going to lose respect, shouldn't those things cause that same reaction or more? Please understand I am not condoning the forced marriage or the baby swapping, but I just think it's unfair that Purvi is the only one to blame for the mess, and the only one rejected. If Ovi were there, she'd be the star of the party. She is just as responsible for this mess as anyone else.

That said, Purvi knows that Archana will not be mad at her forever...otherwise she wouldn't have shopped for a saree, or even come now to the party.

If it's true that Purvi still is trying to get Arjun&Ovi reunited, i am also angry at her for that. But equally angry at Arjun, that he doesn't know how to say no !! 😕

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