Originally posted by: Tanyaz
so all that party was arranged only to call Purvi indirectly and humiliate her ???
I don't think so ...
The way it looked , the party was because Archana had recovered from Coma after 2 months and both her and her husband were very happy about it and could not stop thanking God for this ..
also another big reason was that Archana wanted to introduce her handsome son proudly to the rest of the world ..It was lovely to see Soham in the party .As for Purvi , I think she deserves the cold treatment that she is getting from her mother ...it will do her good ..
After becoming an unwed mother , how can she still expect her family to keep respecting her the way they did once ...
Everyone has to pay a price for their choices . Purvi made a choice ...she went with her heart and got initimate with Arjun without being married, the next day she dumped him despite knowing their relationship had become so intimate ...had a child out of wedlock ..
Archana still cares for her or else she would not have thanked Onir the way she did , but Purvi has lost the respect that she once had in her parents heart for her ...
No, of course the party was not for Purvi but for Archana's coming out of the coma...it was arranged by Manav, not by Archana, and is a wonderful reason. (Soham's introduction fit right in nicely but certainly not Manav's reason for giving the party. 😆 )
I agree with you Tanya that Archana still loves Purvi. That was never in doubt. It was cute how she thanked Onir...but we have to wait and see if a thanks is appropriate imo. I really do not like this Onir and haven't from the beginning. In my mind there was always something strange about him and about the arrangement.
I know that Puriv's actions affect us differently(. I personally have no problem with the intimacy, and in some traditional cultures, the betrothal period is the same as marriage and intimacy not frowned upon during that time) but if Archu was offended, and her way of rebuke and teaching a lesson, or even losing respect is how she is treating Purvi, shouldn't she do the same with Ovi? When Ovi tried to kill her baby by heavy drinking when Ovi forced the marriage of a man who didn't love her, when Ovi wished that Purvi would be murdered when she was kidnapped.
Come on, if a parent is going to lose respect, shouldn't those things cause that same reaction or more? Please understand I am not condoning the forced marriage or the baby swapping, but I just think it's unfair that Purvi is the only one to blame for the mess, and the only one rejected. If Ovi were there, she'd be the star of the party. She is just as responsible for this mess as anyone else.
That said, Purvi knows that Archana will not be mad at her forever...otherwise she wouldn't have shopped for a saree, or even come now to the party.
If it's true that Purvi still is trying to get Arjun&Ovi reunited, i am also angry at her for that. But equally angry at Arjun, that he doesn't know how to say no !! 😕
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