i am feeling misrable HELP

😭😭😭FRIENDS I AM IN BIG PROBLEM IT HAD ALWAYS BEEN MY DREAM TO JION ARMY BUT AFTER READING ABOUT ARMY AND WATCHING LRL I AM VERY DISCOURAGED I HAVE COME TO KNOW THAT THERE IS NO SCOPE OF GIRLS IN ARMY.I AM VERY DESPERATE

I AM NOT INTERSTED IN AIRFORCE BUT I'LL DO THAT COURCE ALSO I WANT TO DO MEDICAL THAN JION ARMY AS AN DOC

U KNOW I AM AVERY LAZY SOUGHT OF A PERSON HOW MUCH HARD I TRY I CAN'T FIGHT IT THIS MAKES ME ALLTHE MORE DESPERATE MY DREAMS STRONGLY CONTRADICT MY FEELINGS ABT DOCS I FEAR THE MOST ABT HE SURGERIES ETC

WHEN I WAS SMALL I FEARED FROM ARMY AS I NEVER LIKED HOW THEY DIED THIS MUST NOT BE A BIG PROBLEM BUT TODAY ARMY HAS BECOME MY LIFE .ITS SIMILAR TO DIE THAN TO NOT REACH THERE HELP

well i dont tink am the right person to be given u advice..but as far as girls joining army am sure that there is lot of opportunties of girls to join army, and as far as lrl is concern its hardly a complete accurate dipiction of army protocals n life so dont feel disheartened.

ok..if u need help or advice just send PM's with your problem to these two members and you will recieve help.... kaleidoscope & amreen1409 ...they are the agony aunts at indiaforums.

ok hope that helps u 😊

Hey relax
LRL is just a fiction
and dont take it seriously
If u want to join the army.I feel thats the best thing u have chosen to do
and dont take LRL so seriously...just enjoy the show
and all the best to u 😊

Just a couple of days back I came across a couple of ads regarding army.If it can help u here r d details:

1) ARMED FORCES MEDICAL COLLEGE,PUNE
U can get into AFMC,Pune for a MBBS degree.Forms available frm 3rd Jan.On completing d course d student is bound to serve for Armed Forces Medical services for a min term of 7 yrs under a bond,failing wich one will hve to pay 15 lacs.It has 130 seats out of which the intake of girls candidate is restricted to max 25.

2)WOMEN SPECIAL ENTRY SCHEME(OFFICERS) COURSE NO-31(TECHNICAL ENTRY)
Unmarried women candidates eligible for grant of commission(Technical Entry) in d army may apply subject to fulfillment of specified conditions as given in d press notification,which will b published in Employment News/Rojgar Samachar issue of 6 jan 07.

I hve no clue wat is it abt bt dis appeared in newspaper as it is.Chk out Employment News if u r intrested.Bt yes d scope for girl candidtes in Army is definitely very restricted bt b positive.......atleast scope does exist.

BTW these 2 ads appeared in HT(Delhi Issue,might b there in odre issues as well.) on 30th Dec.Refer for details.

ALL D BEST!!!!

DOLLY YOU KNOW BETTER THAN ME THAT IF YOU DETERMINE YOU CAN DO ANYTHING AND YOU ALSO KNOW THAT YOUR FRIEND WOULD ALWAYS BE WITH YOU . AS FAR AS LRL IS CONCERNED IT IS A FICTION AND DEAR YOU ARE NOT NAINA SO BE CALM AND REMAIN FOCUSSED ON YOUR GOAL , SUCCESS SURELY WILL BE YOURS 😆 AUR AGAR MUSHKIL LAGE TO RAJ SE ADVICE LE LENA AS HE IS FROM DEFENCE BACKGROUND,HE'LL SURELY HELP . DON,T MIND A JOKE JUST TO RELIEVE YOUR TENSION. 😛 😆 😃


YOURS SWEETOO
SIMRIT

u know wat... u should do wat u want to.. dont care about wat others say & do... & about lrl... well, if things in the army started happening in real life, then nobody would want to be in d army... if u want to join the army, then let no power in the world stop u... after all, u might jst prove to the world that girls in the army r better than d guys... 😊

hey dont worry
one should have to have a confidence in his/herself to change the world not changed by world... if you are scared of Army life then you are very much needed there you must join Army and you can try your best to live as an how you want - becoming a soldier needs determination, courage and ability to BEAR the pain that a soldier goes through while training.... if you can do all these things then you are a true winner...
Girls lack in only one thing - they dont bear the underestimation and discouragement that they face when compared to boys.... so if you have a confidence that you are superior than anyone else then why to bother about what others think.....
All the Best!
& end of the day LRL is just a fiction 😊

yea Dolly...
To succeed in your goal you need determination and hard work. the road to being an army officer will not be easy but if your heart is set for this and you really want to achieve your goal, you will not care for the obstacles that come in your way and always move towards your goal.

LRL is just fiction and they do show some extreme people but the fact that women face discrimination in armed forces is perfectly true. The prejudice against women in army is however changing and there are examples of some really fine women in armed forces who have done wonders.Every year at least 2 lady officers are sent for representation at the UN.

I think currently women in defence are only eligible for SSC or short service commission.. i.e. they join army for 5 years with the option of extension for another 5 years.

For more information visit this website An eye on the armed forces

hey dolly!!
i think its wonderful dat u want 2 try 4 d army...dere cant be a more noble profession in d world...hav confidence in urself..n dont give a damn wat ne1 else says...coz u no wat u can do...
dont be discouraged by nething...
n as 4 LRL...as dhwani sed..take out ur brains frm ur head...keep dem safely aside..n den watch ne hindi tv serial....coz its always full of flaws....if u st n count...u'll cum across a HUGE no. of dem in LRL..
dey mite shows drills n academy..but trust me...asli army waisi hoti jaise LRL mein dikhate..den our country wuld never hav reached dis stage...

jus go 4 it if ur heart says so.....
dreams r wat make up ones life.....n dont compromise on it..EVER!