Asad and Tanveer: Friends with Benefits

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Posted: 12 years ago
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His relationship with Tanveer falls under the category "Friends with benefits". So I don't blame Tanveer for moving on with her plans. With Asad being engaged to Zoya (his choice, he did not have a gun pointed at him, right), his main focus should be Zoya.

He should never have been a "shoulder to cry on" for Tanveer. Asad has made the classic error and is conveying the wrong message to Tanveer. Asad has stepped over the fine line of friendship between a man and a woman. I don't blame Tanveer. She has misconstrued his friendly help. Asad should have been polite, shown his concern, been helpful but involved his Ammi and Najma in taking care of Tanveer. Asad should have stayed strong about this and kept his shoulder to himself maybe given it to Zoya more often than he does now… With Zoya, he makes her cry and then runs to wipe them.

Asad should make sure he is never alone with Tanveer at any point of time. He should ensure that Dilshad, Najma or Zoya are around at any point of time. Tanveer has also hinted at marriage…Asad should keep a mile distance from her. He is not dumb, right and I don't think he is nave too. The writers had portrayed his character as a person who think before he does something. Where did that Asad go?

In the SBS segment of the Mehendi scene, Asad and Tanveer are clinging to one another in one shot and the next minute he lets her go and turns to Zoya when he realised that Zoya is in the room. What does this mean? Is Asad going to turn back to Tanveer the moment Zoya goes out of the frame. Oh for heaven sake, please don't the massacre Asad's character in the attempt to add a dramatic flare to the serial. It was very refreshing to see a man as young as Asad being over-protective and hiding behind traditions, culture, etc in these modern times. It was nice to see him opening himself out to change for the woman he loves without losing himself and then the whole thing is sullied with this cheap relation between Tanveer and Asad…

Disgusting, isn't it???

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--starstruck-- thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
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friends wid benefits is when two friends decide to have casual no strings attached SEX!

and i dnt think he is sleeping wid tanveer! o.O

i hold my BFF's hand and hug him and sumtym kiss him on his cheek and yes he is a GUY!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I totally agree with you.


In a house which is full of women I guess asad shouldn't be babysitting tanu everytime she pretends that she need one.

It is truly illogical and seems stupid.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: --starstruck--

friends wid benefits is when two friends decide to have casual no strings attached SEX!


and i dnt think he is sleeping wid tanveer! o.O

i hold my BFF's hand and hug him and sumtym kiss him on his cheek and yes he is a GUY!



That's all very well, but do you have the same personality, the same principles as Asad? Are you Tehezeeb-E-Afta like him?

I've always maintained that it does not go with his character to be so touchy-feely with a woman he does feel any romantic inclination towards. Or does he -___-
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Friends with benefits have sex with each other, if im not wrong. I guess this isn't the right term here.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: KulfiBai



That's all very well, but do you have the same personality, the same principles as Asad? Are you Tehezeeb-E-Afta like him?

I've always maintained that it does not go with his character to be so touchy-feely with a woman he does feel any romantic inclination towards. Or does he -___-


character or no character the only thing i'm trying to say here is Asad and tanveer cannot be labeled as FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS!

yes getting all touchy touchy is against his character and i hate watching it but it aint friends wid benefits kinda relationship going on between them!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: --starstruck--



character or no character the only thing i'm trying to say here is Asad and tanveer cannot be labeled as FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS!

yes getting all touchy touchy is against his character and i hate watching it but it aint friends wid benefits kinda relationship going on between them!



I don't think the TM literally meant that 😆 Jaanu definitely don't have no-strings-attached sex with each other lol.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: KulfiBai



I don't think the TM literally meant that 😆 Jaanu definitely don't have no-strings-attached sex with each other lol.


Haha i really hope not😉😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I am sure we would not say that if Tanveer was just another character and wasn't evil :\ LOL. Then the friendship would seem fine to us. What benefits is Asad even getting out of the friendship anyway, he just takes care of Tanveer like he looks out for Nikhat/Nuzhat (I don't mention Najma coz she is much more closer)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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friends with benifits means no commitments no emotions except for having physical intimacy and calling each other friends in front of society...Asad is full of social values , decent and a strict business person who is helping tannu out of sympathy to her...

can u call zoya and ayaan friends with benifits when she didnt care about asad's repo and his hatred towards the family and went there to make ayaan happy ??
no right? they r frnds and they care for each other than y not asad cant have sympathy to tannu who is in pain according to him ? 😲

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