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Posted: 12 years ago
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Agree with you.would be happier if they showed Ganga trying to be self sustaining and charting a proper future for her and her child.The path BV is taking these days ,i think the CV themselves are clueless where to go on
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: libsrocks

i have met few unmarried women and from what they shared with me i feel somewhere every person needs a life partner (good)...the loneliness in their life makes them quiet lifeless unless they adopt a child and try to open about relationships...relatives will never be forever with you and neither will they make you feel so special...such things are not related to attam nibharta but it's more about making your life feel better by sharing it with someone you feel is worth for you and not a burden in your life...it really helps in emotionally specially when they have no close relatives and parents...if not marriage then unmarried girls now adopt children to fulfill that vacumm without many complications (like sushmita sen)...some are open about relationships and go in and out of relations until they find the special one...now in case of ganga anandi or many such village girls it's not possible to have on/off relation like city girls and adopting kid without being married is something they are not familiar with...so the only option left for them is marriages...but they way this point is shown is terrible...they have made it look like marriage can happen only till certain age and the girl/boy should not be left alone even for a second...this is absolutely wrong...second marriage is a second and golden chance...the way shiv-anandi was got married was really wrong...anandi should have been left alone to first make sense of her life...she was made someone's responsibility when she herself was not able to understand anything...the way they showed shiv's understanding is quiet impossible for any normal human to do...when the girl is not herself able to make sense of her life then what will boy understand?

anandi should have been left alone and after few years out of loneliness she herself would have automatically got interested in marriage...and shiv got selected as a groom just after two months is also wrong...i have heard about many IAS officer being good in their work but pathetic in married life(NO OFFENCE TO IAS) ...they did not even knew how his family was...now was even once Shiv was able to guess that Jagya was related to Singhs during their first meeting (he was in fact shocked to know such person is related to Singhs and is their son)...so you can only guess how shiv's family would have been but not confirmed that they would have been really good...same with ganga and jagya...they both should not be forced to do anything...let them regain confidence and then show them what they can do for their future...it will be justice to both the girl/boy with second chance and their life partners

@bold above, agree, the serial has not shown second marriage correctly. @blue above, this applies to Anandi, but Ganga already has a cute child, she has a reason to live and should not feel lonely. For me, perhaps the resentment to Jagya-Ganaga marriage is becuase of the way it is being shown. Perhaps the things would have looked different if Ganga was shown living seperately and both Jagya and Ganga wanted to marry on their own.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: shankythebest

Its not at all only about women,both man and woman needs companion to lead their lives.Loneliness is a very dangerous thing.Not all has the ability to face it.Getting married is not at all a thing that you can't do anything alone so you should get married.Its needed to lead a life with a person whom you love and who loves you.Its important.

Ganga needs a person who will love her.Cvs are not giving a message that ganga jaisi ladkiyo ko kisi aurki jarurat hai,here they are showing that a person who got married at an early age,never got love,only molestation is getting love from a family and if she gets married she will get the love of her husband that she never got.

Gauri was never at fault alone but the problem is she hasn't realize that she was wrong till now.But jagya has realized it so jagya is definitely the better person between the two so why he don't deserve happiness!If the girl knows about all his past life and ready to get married and jagya proves to be a better person then he surely deserves to marry even if it is for the third time.

Messages lena apne upar depend karta hai.For example some people thinks jagya's third marriage is a wrong message that a man can do so many wrongs and after realiazing his mistakes he can marry another girl.It will give a wrong message so he should stick to gauri as they loved each other once upon a time.But on the contrary people like me are highly against jagya gauri reunion because in my opinion making them a couple once again will be a bad mess as their relation affected lots of people.So they should not get together.Thousands of people takes hundreds of messages from a scene or a story.So it cant be right to think that what we think is right and what others think is wrong.Cvs have to take a path which is safe and will give a good mess.

even i don't agree with Gauri-Jagya getting together...they just bring out their negatives points in each other and compete within their relation rather than try to set things right...i support Ganga-Jagya bonding but not by force like AnSh...they should first try strengthen their career and be stable both professionally and emotionally and when they feel they need a partner they should try for someone and not because elders told them...Dadisa is going absolutely wrong and all this is because of AnSh...since Singhs can see Shiv-Anandi living a happy married life they feel every person will be happy in second marriage no matter how it is done so they are going the same way they went with Anandi without realizing that AnSh's stable relation is more because of Shiv's patience and understanding which not many can have...hope they realize it soon or else we can only hope that no one in our society tries to learn this method of getting remarriages done 😲 😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: shankythebest

Its not at all only about women,both man and woman needs companion to lead their lives.Loneliness is a very dangerous thing.Not all has the ability to face it.Getting married is not at all a thing that you can't do anything alone so you should get married.Its needed to lead a life with a person whom you love and who loves you.Its important.

Ganga needs a person who will love her.Cvs are not giving a message that ganga jaisi ladkiyo ko kisi aurki jarurat hai,here they are showing that a person who got married at an early age,never got love,only molestation is getting love from a family and if she gets married she will get the love of her husband that she never got.

Gauri was never at fault alone but the problem is she hasn't realize that she was wrong till now.But jagya has realized it so jagya is definitely the better person between the two so why he don't deserve happiness!If the girl knows about all his past life and ready to get married and jagya proves to be a better person then he surely deserves to marry even if it is for the third time.

Messages lena apne upar depend karta hai.For example some people thinks jagya's third marriage is a wrong message that a man can do so many wrongs and after realiazing his mistakes he can marry another girl.It will give a wrong message so he should stick to gauri as they loved each other once upon a time.But on the contrary people like me are highly against jagya gauri reunion because in my opinion making them a couple once again will be a bad mess as their relation affected lots of people.So they should not get together.Thousands of people takes hundreds of messages from a scene or a story.So it cant be right to think that what we think is right and what others think is wrong.Cvs have to take a path which is safe and will give a good mess.

@bold above, so far Ganga does not know complete truth of Jagya. It will be better if the girl marrying Jagya knows everything before marriage.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja



@bold above, so far Ganga does not know complete truth of Jagya. It will be better if the girl marrying Jagya knows everything before marriage.


I think she knows what she has to know. That Jagya loved Anand and is still trying to move on. That J cheated on Anandi and left her. And that he would have been a father by now if his girlfriend didn't get aborted. So all is well!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: samvi.


I think she knows what she has to know. That Jagya loved Anand and is still trying to move on. That J cheated on Anandi and left her. And that he would have been a father by now if his girlfriend didn't get aborted. So all is well!

She does not know about Jagya's brush with law, that there are two court cases against him and he can be implicated in contempt of court if his marriage certificate with Gauri is probed etc.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: SPuja

She does not know about Jagya's brush with law, that there are two court cases against him and he can be implicated in contempt of court if his marriage certificate with Gauri is probed etc.


Do u really think these legality/illegality issues would matter to Ganga? In fact , looking at her present devotion to J, i i think she will fight for him in all those cases, if at all he is found guilty!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Samvi, Ganga may be devoted, but it will be wrong (especially for such a preachy serial) to show Ganga fighting for Jagya in legal cases where he was guilty, it was not that he was falsly implicated. People should not think that the case is over when they got bail, becuase in future, they can get jail term on finalisation of case.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: libsrocks

i have met few unmarried women and from what they shared with me i feel somewhere every person needs a life partner (good)...the loneliness in their life makes them quiet lifeless unless they adopt a child and try to open about relationships...relatives will never be forever with you and neither will they make you feel so special...such things are not related to attam nibharta but it's more about making your life feel better by sharing it with someone you feel is worth for you and not a burden in your life...it really helps in emotionally specially when they have no close relatives and parents...if not marriage then unmarried girls now adopt children to fulfill that vacumm without many complications (like sushmita sen)...some are open about relationships and go in and out of relations until they find the special one...now in case of ganga anandi or many such village girls it's not possible to have on/off relation like city girls and adopting kid without being married is something they are not familiar with...so the only option left for them is marriages...but they way this point is shown is terrible...they have made it look like marriage can happen only till certain age and the girl/boy should not be left alone even for a second...this is absolutely wrong...second marriage is a second and golden chance...the way shiv-anandi was got married was really wrong...anandi should have been left alone to first make sense of her life...she was made someone's responsibility when she herself was not able to understand anything...the way they showed shiv's understanding is quiet impossible for any normal human to do...when the girl is not herself able to make sense of her life then what will boy understand?

anandi should have been left alone and after few years out of loneliness she herself would have automatically got interested in marriage...and shiv got selected as a groom just after two months is also wrong...i have heard about many IAS officer being good in their work but pathetic in married life(NO OFFENCE TO IAS) ...they did not even knew how his family was...now was even once Shiv was able to guess that Jagya was related to Singhs during their first meeting (he was in fact shocked to know such person is related to Singhs and is their son)...so you can only guess how shiv's family would have been but not confirmed that they would have been really good...same with ganga and jagya...they both should not be forced to do anything...let them regain confidence and then show them what they can do for their future...it will be justice to both the girl/boy with second chance and their life partners




I didn't get ur msg? canbu b little more specific?😉

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