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smeenakshi76

@smeenakshi76

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Posted: 12 years ago

After all this is a SERIAL, NOT REALITY… Director, Producer, Story writer ko jo dikhana hai, wo dikhate rahe…Jagya has to be redeemed, so be it. Buth problem is not this.Whatever they are showing as Kahani mein twist, this is very bad from social point of view. A's second maariage was justified but y Jagya's? Did CVs ever show concern towards Gauri's POV. If Js coudn't have maaried Gauri he wouldn't have faced what he is facing now. Does only Gauri is at fault? There was no need to show Saanchi in J's life.but this is a serial…kahani me TWIST. There are so many girls like Ganga. Is second marriage necessary for those girls? Kya Ganga jaisi ladakiya AATMA-NIRBHAR nahi ban sakati…dusari shadi karana jaruri hai. It's not that second marriage is bad or else but whatever they r showing is giving this msg only that "Ganga jaisi ladkiyo ko dusaro ki jarurat hamesha padegi. " After all this is a serial.

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tanvismile

@tanvismile

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Posted: 12 years ago

i know he is the creator of everything,cvs in the twist are just ruining the serial,its turned into crap.

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Bubi

@Bubi

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: tanvismile
i know he is the creator of everything,cvs in the twist are just ruining the serial,its turned into crap.

You are absolutely right.

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Nandita

@Nandita_Siddian

Stunner

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

@tm you are absolutely right...hum log bol bol ke thak gaye...CV walo ko koi dimag nehi aya...😡

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Alina

@PhoenixRainbow

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

Yeah Sab TRP ki ka liya hora 🤣

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SPuja

@SPuja

Rocker

Posted: 12 years ago

Ganga will not become independent, she will be Anandi No. 2 doing sewa and 'taking care' of the great Singh family. The once strong charecter will be reduced to just a housewife. But she may complete her education superfast defying every logic.

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Divya

@dkmystery

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: smeenakshi76
After all this is a SERIAL, NOT REALITY' Director, Producer, Story writer ko jo dikhana hai, wo dikhate rahe'Jagya has to be redeemed, so be it. Buth problem is not this.Whatever they are showing as Kahani mein twist, this is very bad from social point of view. A's second maariage was justified but y Jagya's? Did CVs ever show concern towards Gauri's POV. If Js coudn't have maaried Gauri he wouldn't have faced what he is facing now. Does only Gauri is at fault? There was no need to show Saanchi in J's life.but this is a serial'kahani me TWIST. There are so many girls like Ganga. Is second marriage necessary for those girls? Kya Ganga jaisi ladakiya AATMA-NIRBHAR nahi ban sakati'dusari shadi karana jaruri hai. It's not that second marriage is bad or else but whatever they r showing is giving this msg only that "Ganga jaisi ladkiyo ko dusaro ki jarurat hamesha padegi. " After all this is a serial.

kitna sahi likha hai 👏
this is the issue with every desi show. every show deals only with marriage, each story revolves only around marriage as if there is nothing else to show 🥱
BV only harps that ppl who choose to live single are wrong and lonely can someone knock some sense in the CVs, make them realize the day and age we live in and how even family members need to respect someone's wish not to marry and be happy?

I haven't seen loads of epi in between so have little idea about Gauri, but from what you've written I can safely say that in such shows, it is the girl's mistake since she isn't the lead of the show and is easily written off

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libsrocks

@libsrocks

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Posted: 12 years ago

i have met few unmarried women and from what they shared with me i feel somewhere every person needs a life partner (good)...the loneliness in their life makes them quiet lifeless unless they adopt a child and try to open about relationships...relatives will never be forever with you and neither will they make you feel so special...such things are not related to attam nibharta but it's more about making your life feel better by sharing it with someone you feel is worth for you and not a burden in your life...it really helps in emotionally specially when they have no close relatives and parents...if not marriage then unmarried girls now adopt children to fulfill that vacumm without many complications (like sushmita sen)...some are open about relationships and go in and out of relations until they find the special one...now in case of ganga anandi or many such village girls it's not possible to have on/off relation like city girls and adopting kid without being married is something they are not familiar with...so the only option left for them is marriages...but they way this point is shown is terrible...they have made it look like marriage can happen only till certain age and the girl/boy should not be left alone even for a second...this is absolutely wrong...second marriage is a second and golden chance...the way shiv-anandi was got married was really wrong...anandi should have been left alone to first make sense of her life...she was made someone's responsibility when she herself was not able to understand anything...the way they showed shiv's understanding is quiet impossible for any normal human to do...when the girl is not herself able to make sense of her life then what will boy understand?

anandi should have been left alone and after few years out of loneliness she herself would have automatically got interested in marriage...and shiv got selected as a groom just after two months is also wrong...i have heard about many IAS officer being good in their work but pathetic in married life(NO OFFENCE TO IAS) ...they did not even knew how his family was...now was even once Shiv was able to guess that Jagya was related to Singhs during their first meeting (he was in fact shocked to know such person is related to Singhs and is their son)...so you can only guess how shiv's family would have been but not confirmed that they would have been really good...same with ganga and jagya...they both should not be forced to do anything...let them regain confidence and then show them what they can do for their future...it will be justice to both the girl/boy with second chance and their life partners

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ExcuseMePlz

@ExcuseMePlz

Trailblazer

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

Its not at all only about women,both man and woman needs companion to lead their lives.Loneliness is a very dangerous thing.Not all has the ability to face it.Getting married is not at all a thing that you can't do anything alone so you should get married.Its needed to lead a life with a person whom you love and who loves you.Its important.

Ganga needs a person who will love her.Cvs are not giving a message that ganga jaisi ladkiyo ko kisi aurki jarurat hai,here they are showing that a person who got married at an early age,never got love,only molestation is getting love from a family and if she gets married she will get the love of her husband that she never got.

Gauri was never at fault alone but the problem is she hasn't realize that she was wrong till now.But jagya has realized it so jagya is definitely the better person between the two so why he don't deserve happiness!If the girl knows about all his past life and ready to get married and jagya proves to be a better person then he surely deserves to marry even if it is for the third time.

Messages lena apne upar depend karta hai.For example some people thinks jagya's third marriage is a wrong message that a man can do so many wrongs and after realiazing his mistakes he can marry another girl.It will give a wrong message so he should stick to gauri as they loved each other once upon a time.But on the contrary people like me are highly against jagya gauri reunion because in my opinion making them a couple once again will be a bad mess as their relation affected lots of people.So they should not get together.Thousands of people takes hundreds of messages from a scene or a story.So it cant be right to think that what we think is right and what others think is wrong.Cvs have to take a path which is safe and will give a good mess.

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753037

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Posted: 12 years ago

#10

Yes Both men and women need company to live. Else we would become saints!

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