How are you? I am in a sad mood right now.đ I was bored, so I searched my nameđ To look at my old posts at the Kaisa Ye Pyar Hai section. And it made me feel really sad. Not just because KYPH ended. To think what happened to this forum. Look at these posts:
https://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=152620&K W=nitica%5F82
https://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=284823&K W=DesiChocolate
https://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=286764&K W=DesiChocolate
This post isnt a new rule . I am expressing my feelings to you guys. Believe it or not, when I first joined India-Forums the Kaisa Ye Pyar Hai section was the most active sections at India-Forums. Now? You can say its dead compared to how it used to be!
So many members have left. And why? Because of fights. Fights. So many members are fighting for people they dont even know. Members are fighting WITH people they dont know.
KYPH used to be one parivaar. One member used to be a bua or bhabhi to another member. But now? We dont even have ONE parivaar. So I can not even say "we have 2- one neha and one iqbal" I cannot close a topic without getting bashed. I cannot say "please do not chat" without a member saying a rude comment sarcastically. I try my hardest each day to keep this forum going. To get the happiness back in this forum. You know why? Because I know , there is still hope that the Kaisa Ye Pyar Hai forum will go back to how it used to be. I know it will never be the EXACT same. But theres nothing wrong with hoping..
But let me ask you guys one thing. Why did you guys start to seperate? Why did you guys go into 2 groups? And you cannot blame it one person.(whom I know who your going to say).
And I am so happy when members reply "nooo- please dont archive this forum". I get extermly happy, knowing I am not the only member who loves this forum dearly.And I also got happy when I FINALLY saw some discussing at this topic:
https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/kaisa-yeh-pyaar-hai/498257/mahi
But , yet , I know a lot of members who do want this forum to get archived. So they continue to fight and make rude comments. So now I need your help me fellow members. Help me to stop this madness. Help me in getting back OUR REAL KAISA YE PYAR HAI FORUM! If you detect a fight or a comment which shouldnt be there stop the fight before it starts. Do not involve yourselfs.
And do you know whats extermly hurtful? I had made a topic "Knock Knock" too see why this forum got so inactive. And at another forum- a member from here posted the link there and said somthing like "go ruin that topic" or somthing like that. How horrible is THAT?
I was talking to my I-F friend on MSN couple nights ago. And do you know what she told me? She's scared to read topics at the Kaisa Ye Pyar Hai forum in fright that she might get mad and start fighting. And that hurts. It hurts because knowing a member is scared to read a topic is just --im running out of words.
When I send a warning PM, they reply to start fighting with. Saying I am always on the iqbal fans sides. And they say- "well its all her fault. ..Well she said that first...What was the reason of saying that.....She started it!" And I don't want to say its childish...Why can't members accpet- its everyones fault equally?Its everyones fault that the KYPH forum is in this condition right now. Not jjust one person. Not just iqbal fans. Not just neha fans. But its NEHA AND IQBAL FANS FAULT EQUALLY! And its both fault that this forum is getting CLOSER AND CLOSER to getting archived each day.
So let me finish my sentence I started in the subject..
All I want for Christmas is the old Kaisa Ye Pyar Hai forum.
Thank you for reading.
Priyađ
P.S: This BETTER not become a fighting topic!