WHY ARE MEN EMOTIONALLY CHALLENGED!? (Not Asya) - Page 2

same cmmnt posted twice..sry.

Point blank:
The guy ignored u when u opened up to him about ur feelings but now that u've moved on he's getting annoyed. Seems like he's a child that had a toy he never appreciated and now that it's gone he wants it back. Although u may not agree: move on. You can do way better than carry on wait another 4 - odd years for a guy that just might be trailing u along. :) and the reason u felt something when he asked about is coz u can't turn ur feelings off like a switch. Do you really want to be with someone that only wants u so as to boost his ego ? You can do far better :)

Originally posted by: Ilhamez

But did he ever mention That he loves ? Did u were behaving Like bf gf
Or just u Had crush on each other
Ok for me if a man is interresed of woman he find Time to meet her to talk with her
When i read ur post i felt Like u Like him and he Like u but there is nothing serious, ur relationship is not fond
U Many Times take the adventage to improv ur relationship to make it more serious but he was less interessed than u , he didnt take it seriously
As u Said he is complicated ,
His reaction after u delet him from skype fb... Prove That he is not attracted so much to u
And being together for 4years but nothing is serious why????
What u feel after u saw his pic and when he return and ask u why, is normal
Ofcourse u Will care because u felt for him someday , ofcourse u Will ask urself alot think alot
Why he return now what he want, its logical
About his act i think he used to u , most of men love to feel They have effect of women and women are so interessed about them
But when u get him out of ur Life maybe he felt That he was in some points wrong, and he didnt want to accept That u throw him from ur Life Like That
My advice first of all its u who should decide because its u who know him not me and u understand the situation more than me
But based if what i read , being with him since 4 years and nothing special
So just forget all this and move on and live ur lifeif he is really interessed he Will meet u and talk to u and and then u CAN think of what to do and from his tone u CAN take decision

Originally posted by: Kaya13

I had to cum online wen I saw this..babes I totally feel for you..not that i hv ever been in such a situation, the only guys I ever fall in love wid are not even real LOL..anyways..dude if you haven't seen jab we met..see it now..

Take his photo burn it and flush him OUT of ur life...I mean seriously only we gals care abt emotions.

Actually the real prob is that boys mature way later than gals so they don't really respect feelings and undrstand them the way we do...so they take it lightly whereas we..well we take them seriously.

Try to forget abt him...let him be a jerk if he wants to. If you want you can explain in a nyc, courteous manner why you really did what you did..and if you have taken a decision syick to it...I am pretty sure that guys like him don't even deserve ur attention!

U are way too good babes..Don't gv a damn to him..enjoy life fall in love with the right man at the right time..after all life is so short~!

And remember whateva happens happens for good..who knows what tmrw mrning wl bring to you!

Take care sweetheart and remember U are less than no one..don't let other people make decisions for u, don't let them undermine YOUR FEELINGS!!!

ALL THE BEST!!!

Kaya( btw I totally LOVE YOU!!!)

Originally posted by: Ta33iiE

Point blank:
The guy ignored u when u opened up to him about ur feelings but now that u've moved on he's getting annoyed. Seems like he's a child that had a toy he never appreciated and now that it's gone he wants it back. Although u may not agree: move on. You can do way better than carry on wait another 4 - odd years for a guy that just might be trailing u along. :) and the reason u felt something when he asked about is coz u can't turn ur feelings off like a switch. Do you really want to be with someone that only wants u so as to boost his ego ? You can do far better :)

Originally posted by: delena90

Your friends are there exactly for you to talk about stuff like this.