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Posted: 12 years ago

#51

Originally posted by: Missscarlett

Are u saying dat u would do the same if u were in Ovi's place? Majority of us wouldnt. I love my mother more then myself and no matter wot phase i am going through i wouldnt overshadow my concern for my mother!
And who is Ovi to complain about the best in her life? Its her own doing. Karma is coming back to bite her!

Personally I wouldn't, and I am not saying that Ovi is completely right in her decision. But Ovi's upbringing was much different than any of ours, we never had to stay away from our mother for 18years hating her. Ovi's bond with Archana is different than majority of ours to our parents. As for Ovi putting the deal forward, she faced the consequences of that by never having a happy marriage and always being lonely despite having Arjun. But her loosing her baby and not being able to see it is not karma for her earlier deeds. That was just a misfortune which she needed time to deal with, because in this situation she was a mother who lost her baby and that loss is grave. Just my opinion, to each their own.

Edited by MayurSidma - 12 years ago

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Ruchika Sen

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Posted: 12 years ago

#52

Originally posted by: punirashakti

c ovi leave arjun house n stay with her dad in her mayaka bt der shamless arjun follow her n force to accept his inligal child instead of keep mourning for ovi's dead child jst disgusted ok...

she left for canada for her self respect n wen archu also came out of come she will also agree her decision bcs she knw hw hard to tolarate husband n his ex means liyer sister betrayal fact n also der inligal child...too...

i advise u if not agree with my pov so plz ignore n scroll ur screen bt don quote me...😃

Its my decision of quoting whom or not..

Well, Ovi knows it very well that the deshmukhs will always support her as according to Manav, he loves only one of his all 5 children, which is ovi.. Manav always try to prove Arjun wrong abd Ovi always right, So I think if Ovi would have asked Manav not to allow Arjun to visit D house , may be he would have agreed and would have done the same. But Ovi never asked such things. She found modelling much more important than her Aayi's ill-health.

And if we agree that there was so much happenings in her life that she had been forced to go to Canada, then can't she even call and ask about her Aayi? Or ISD calls cost so much that she can't afford it 😆 We should not forget that she is the one who made a deal of her own Aayi and changed whole upside - down overnight from a spoled rich girl into a sanskaari beti! 😆

So saying that Ovi loves her Aayi is not justified, I think... 😊

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Shweta laxman

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Posted: 12 years ago

#53

Originally posted by: MayurSidma

Personally I wouldn't, and I am not saying that Ovi is completely right in her decision. But Ovi's upbringing was much different than any of ours, we never had to stay away from our mother for 18years hating her. Ovi's bond with Archana is different than majority of ours to our parents. As for Ovi putting the deal forward, she faced the consequences of that by never having a happy marriage and always being lonely despite having Arjun. But her loosing her baby and not being able to see it is not karma for her earlier deeds. That was just a misfortune which she needed time to deal with, because in this situation she was a mother who lost her baby and that loss is grave. Just my opinion, to each their own.

Yes, i agree with ua post. The conclusion is dat Ovi doesnt really love and care for Archana enough. We agree on dat.
It was really a tradegy that Ovi lost her child but given her exterme carelessness during her early stages of preganancy i honestly didnt expect her child to survive. But anyways i agree that it was a great misfortune. I guess itz the Gods way of paying Ovi back. She didnt really expect that she could be happy after ruining two people's happiness ( yes, arjun and purvi are at fault too and they are suffering as well). I guess we have to pay for our sins in this world itself.
If i were Ovi, i would accept my past mistakes, divorce Arjun and move on with my life and redeem myself. I guess Ovi needs to learn to value relationshios and she should start by loving and caring about her mother first.

Edited by Missscarlett - 12 years ago

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-purvideshmukh-

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Posted: 12 years ago

#54

Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird
Would you leave India if your mom was in Coma?
What sort of a daughter is Ovi? 😕

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Hillylove

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Posted: 12 years ago

#55

So Archana wakes up and who does she reach for? Purvi

Who does she not ask for? Ovi

So, what was the need for Ovi to be in India by her Mom's bedside again?

So, Ovi is chastised for not being in India, but as I said, there is no need because Archana was never a Mother to her, never loved her, only Purvi.

No one should have a Bio parent like Archana, it is a curse upon them.

I am so glad Ovi is in Canada, she must stay where she is.

I rest my case.

Edited by hillydee - 12 years ago

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ameilia

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Posted: 12 years ago

#56

I would have never ever leave my mom if God forbid she is ever in a coma.

I wont let my problems and my worries overshadow my duties as a daughter to her and my dad.

Sure Archana didnt raise Ovi but Ovi could have been there to give the man who raised her emotional support.What did she do instead??Created more problems for him by high tailing to Canada.I would never let a man come before my mother.EVER

If Ovi hated Arjun and Purvi so much then all she had to do was ignore them.Dnt give them any importance in her life.

Her mother could be on her death bed but as always Ovi's problems are more important than any others.

Sure life doesnt stop because Archana is in a coma but for her grieving father's sake she could have been there to give him a shoulder to cry on,lend him an ear.

Ovi has said she accepted Archana as her Aai but it looks like Archana only holds importance when its only convenient for Ovi.

Even if she is in Canada.Did she even called to find out about her Mom?Also when Archana was in the hospital Ovi only visited her when she had problems.

As a daughter one has to learn to fulfil one's responsibilities even if the Mother couldnt do hers then why should we follow suit if we hated what the mother did in the first place?Be the better person...no need for an eye for an eye.

Edited by ameilia - 12 years ago

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Simran Ramphal

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Posted: 12 years ago

#57

What can we say. Nothing but she's the most perfect daughter in the world😃

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Dabulls23

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Posted: 12 years ago

#58

Originally posted by: m_masti
this is PR land yaar...anything can happen...there can be so many other questions that can be raised...can a mom enjoy her fav daughter wedding when other daughter attempted suicide...can a mom leave her daughter to dad for some junk reason which can satisfy only her ego...if archu can do those things then what ovi did is perfect...and ovi left country for good reason and in her sarrow also she was so happy to know improvements of archu...
after coming back from coma, if archu supports Ovi and makes arjun-purvi realize what mess they did to the family then also I would not say Ovi did wrong by leaving country when her mom is in coma...

and whatever ovi did is perfect...otherwise she has to suffer so much while arjun goes behind purvi-pari ki balaayi...

Great answer Masti..

Its not like Ovi left the country to have fun or for her modeling career...SHe left for Canada due to what happened with her marriage, the betrayal, losing her baby and more..It was tooo much for her to handle so left..If Archana was in her shoes she prolly would have done the same...Any one would have done the same..

Ovi has grown to love and care for her mother...I think she has put out more efforts towards mending with Archana than the other way around..Ovi has only one mother and she can't replace her with someone else...while Archana replaced her bio kids with her one and only favorite Purvi...I rest my case..

I dont get the questioning of Ovi leaving for Canada while mother in coma...😕😳

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xxxnm

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Posted: 12 years ago

#59

i may actually be on ovi side for the first time. i dont blame ovi for leaving archana because who knows how long archana would be in a coma. it could be 10 or 20 yrs before she wakes up. ovi or anyone for that matter should not be expected to wait around for a maybe. she can come visit but its essentially a functioning body without a soul to be human properly. besides i think ovi would have come back if needed for the experiment, but no one called her. strange

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