Think Twice............

Hello Everyone,

I've always been a silent member but today i can't resist myself from posting this msg.

I've read almost all the msgs that r posted over here regarding the current track of KAA.To me its utterly a crap. Infact i'm very dissapointed with it as many of u here. Its a complete insult to womanhood and to love. I've never been in love myself, but this is not wat i think Love is. If true love is the relationship between Shiv- Ipshita well then i'm thankful that i'm not in love coz i'm btr being a human and not God to decide or manipulate some1's fate to just improve mine. Shiv is guilty and he can't blame his mom for it. remember Nikhila told him that if he really wanted to say her the truth he should hv told her the entire truth. How conviniently he blamed his Mom!!! Half truth is more dangerous then a plain lie. Now Ipshita whoa wat to say abt her..... she was asking Shiv to keep Gauri happy as she's gonna die........ how fake it was!!! Initially u all throw a innocent girl in well and then u say u can't c her drowning!!! way to go you shameless creatures i don't think they r even worthy of being humans. its a shame to Humanity!!!!!!!

Now Gauri...... Well if this is what ppl get in true love i'm again happy that i'm not in love. Gauri is shown to be a simple girl who wanted to challenge her destiny when she married Shiv but then she fells for Shiv and now she's ready to die for a man who lied to her right from the beginning. To me in any relationship whether love or friendship one thing that cannot be tolerated is forgery. One small lie is enuf for breaking the relationship based on trust for years. How can one love some1 more than their parents? She's a girl of 21st century. Why can't she stand on her own feet. She's not an animal who can be sacrified or slautered to remove some kundali dosh!

I was really dissapointed to see that some of the members were still supporting Shiv. I believe in love but the love which demands one's self-respect is not worthy. We are girls belonging to 21st century, unfortunately right from the beginning women have been given inferior status in Indian Society. Barring cities there are still women who live in complete control of the male members of the family. They are considered as tamed and submissive. Now when the time for revolution has come, when women demand for equalty status what are these soaps doing? these soaps are watched mainly by women and many of us here are also females, some r even teenagers, what impact this leaves on us? what are we suppose to take from these soaps? How are we suppose to interpret what love is? What are we to think of ourselves some tamed goats ready for sacrifice?

Sacrificing for others is one thing but its also important to think whether for whom we r sacrificing even deserves it or not. True love is the one that can take a person to immense heights of liveliness and not that will bring disgrace to one's very existence and being.

I'm really sorry if I've hurt anyone over here. But thot of sharing my feelings with you guys.

Bye Cya TC &nbs p; &nbs p; &nbs p; &nbs p; &nbs p; &nbs p; &nbs p; &nbs p; Sonia 😊

i completely agree with u!!!! i think they have portrayed gauris character as weak and an insult to 21st century women!!! i just hope now that there is a change in gauris character, cuz so far she is shown as an insecure, bimbo of a wimp!!! im sorry but its true

i completely agree with you dear and poor gauri clean that stupid picture of that woman everyday i think ekta should kill here 😡

i completely agree with you dear and poor gauri clean that stupid picture of that woman everyday i think ekta should kill here 😡 [/QUOTEthat would be sooo cooooooool if ekta do that i would love KAA so much !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 😃

hunnii.. i absolutely agree.. and i find no where in your post have you said
something wrong!

We belong to the 21st century and yet we are still treated as the ones to
sacrifice.. i ask why??? i want to know.. why should a man be allowed to
commit infidelity and the woman have to forgive..

i want to know.. why are we always shown to be the inferior person.. today
when around the world.. people's ideas are changing and are starting to
accept that woman and man are equal.. ekta turns the tide once more by
showing that no woman can ever be equal to a man because women are and
always will be inferior!

Love takes on many dimensions... The way you love your parents is totally different from the way you love ur sweetheart (for lack of a better word encompassing husbands, bfs, lovers, whatever you want to call it). People run away from home when they don't get parental approval to be with the ones they love. Its not that they love their parents any less, but its bcoz at that time love of that person, the dream of spending your life with that person is what drives you. So Gauri wanting to live out the remainder of her life with Shiv does not make her weak, or inconsiderate of her familys love...

I agree the soaps of today are demeaning- but more so to society than women in general. If you look carefully, most of the serials are female oriented, the protagonist is a woman, they show women rising from the ashes. What is demeaning is the total lack of commitment shown to any relationship, the million-kazillion marriages and remarriages, the affairs, the total lack of respect for life that are shown are more disturbing than the so-called weak protagonists...

As for KAA, I agree that this track is full of crap. And it highlights just what I was saying, the lack of value for a life. Every single person in on the conspiracy is guilty to varying extents. Ipshita, Sugna for being ready to sacrifice a life for their happiness. Shiv for killing Gauri (by default), so that he can have his love as his wife. And more than anyone, Nikhila for picking Gauri as the victim... They all deserve to be crucified...

i agree wid u sweety and very well said 👏 , and i know i support shiv but as u said u havent experienced luv i have and been hurt rly badly...for me shiv is not evil becoz i have seen worse 😭 ...trust me there r worse ppl than him 😡 , and as just4coll said luv for parents is totally diff. from the luv u feel for ur sweethearts and as for gauri i think this is how most of us(women) behave when in luv and sumhow thru this show we can learn how its foolish for women to fall head over heels over sum1 , when they dont rly deserve ur love or ur sacrifice, most women feel that they can change sum1 thru their gud deeds but in the end they r the ones who change....(sry became too senti, hope u understand me)nehow nice post sweety! 😊