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Posted: 12 years ago
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When will Manav change his attitude towards Soham? I am wondering if Soham is really Manav's child. Manav does not have one bit of feelings for Soham. In my opinion, soham seem to have more feelings for his father than his father has for him.

Whatever happens to forgiveness? Has Manav never done anything wrong in his life and asked for forgiveness? Savita separated him so many years from his LOVE archana and yet he forgive her actions easily. Yes, I understand soham did many wrong stuff but he is repenting. What Manav wants from him- blood?

In archana's case why is manav behaving like a fool? Cant he understand that there are no guarantee on life. Doctors can only try. At least give it a try, and pray that all will go well. He feel that taking the risk to get archana out of coma can cause her death but she is in coma (almost dead) so wouldn't it worth giving it try? any foolish person can understand that.

Manav is really a behaving in an uncalled for manner these days. I simply dont understand his rationale.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Manav has readily forgiven his wife who had pulled a court case on him, given away their child to a mentally unstable sister despite his warnings and even forgiven purvi for hastily wanting to marry his ex-son-in-law when his daughter was committing suicide...no father would be so pally with a woman who did that to his child...please don't start bashing me...I am simply stating facts...i don't care if he forgave purvi and even gave him all his wealth...all I am saying is when he forgave so many people for so many things...soham is a victim of circumstances caused by his saali and his wife...he should show more maturity than his current tirade of foolish reasons against soham
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Manav forgave his mother who cheated and lied to him for 18 years .Because of Savita , Ovi and Teju lived without their mother for 18 years ...he forgave Sachin who was his lawyer but was backstabbing him and lying to him ...
he himself shot Soham by accident so why can't he forgive Soham ...
Manav never said anything to Ovi when she shattered Purvi's happiness when she used their mother to get Arjun ...so why is he doing this to Purvi ..It was sad that today Purvi was not even called with the rest of the family to help her mother ..
I hope Archana will ask Manav to give some answers as to how could he treat Soham and Purvi the way he is treating them .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Pari, I feel the same way in terms of Soham. I really cannot come to terms with Manav attitude towards his only son (by blood). He is elder here and should show some maturity. He very well know the circumstances surrounding Soham's upbringing and how he was lured into the wrong path. Why be so harsh when you at least now make up for the lost times and help guide him on the right track. At least you owe him this much as a father. Its better you try with him and fail rather than failing to try.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yep Manav forgave VRMD Varsha, Rassi, Manju, & Dharmesh when ArMan lost their first unborn
Manav forgave Vinod-Manju who threw Sulo out of K home
Manav forgave Archu and blamed Savita for their 18 yrs separation
Manav forgave Archu for taking him to court, defame him ad his partner professionally and personally calling him ambitious...For what? Random people
Manav forgave Archu for handing their 3 yrs youg son to her psychotic sister against his many warnings...Varsha the same sister ended up kidnpping Soham...For 19 yrs Manav did not have SOham in his life due to Archana and her sister.
Manav forgave Purvi and Arjun both for breaking up hs daughter's engagement and continuing their romance..
Soham is innocent being a goon or raised by a goon...It was not his fault in being kidnapped by Varsha..It was Archana the aai and Varsha the mausi who did this..I even blame Manav for being so weak in front of his wife..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

Manav forgave his mother who cheated and lied to him for 18 years .Because of Savita , Ovi and Teju lived without their mother for 18 years ...he forgave Sachin who was his lawyer but was backstabbing him and lying to him ...

he myself shot Soham by accident so why can't he forgive Soham ...
Manav never said anything to Ovi when she shattered Purvi's happiness when she used their mother to get Arjun ...so why is he doing this to Purvi ..It was sad that today Purvi was not even called with the rest of the family to help her mother ..
I hope Archana will ask Manav to give some answers as to how could he treat Soham and Purvi the way he is treating them .

And soham forgive manav (his father) for shooting him. Manav is behaving like the kid and soham the father.

Its really sad that purvi was left out the picture. She was treated like a stranger in all of this. They totally ignored the fact that she was archu's support for 18 yrs during the separation.She should have been involved. They should not decide what archu's reaction would be about purvi and soham, they should allow her to react, if she recovers safely. There is more to life that holding a grudge.

Purvi loved her mother a lot. her sacrifices are questionable but she did it with good intentions. she wanted her mother's happiness.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Any normal father would have been so relieved to get his son back after 18 yrs! He would have been shocked at the son's transformation into a criminal but then any normal father would have tried his best to rehabilitate his son.
Its true in the beginning Soham rudely rejected all the love and affection of his real mother because he had been brainwashed by his kidnapping mausi. But after he reformed, hes trying his best to be a good guy, but Manav doesnt appreciate the efforts. He still holds a grudge against Soham for shooting Archana and sending her into a coma.
A mother's heart is always forgiving and gives a hundred chances to her kids to make amends. But a father is generally more unforgiving and accusing in such circumstances...thats a real fact.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Very good Ovi Teju did NOT grow up with Archana or they would be unwed moms with destructive screwed up tendencies , so THANK GOD for that...she is NOT fit to raise any kid, she should have not been allowed in their life even after 18 years

Archana is NOBODY to ask him any answers when her own deeds and suspiciously adoptive daughter r very very questionable and if she does she should be told to leave the house and stay in the jhopadpatti with her parakrami foster daughter

Other than that i agree that his treatment of Soham is unfair . Same thoughts .

I agree word to word with pari's post .
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I may be in the minority here but for Manav he thinks Soham is responsible for Archana's condition .. So maybe that's why
He loves his children dearly
I think it's unfair to point a finger at his love for his children

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ilovedhanjanird

I may be in the minority here but for Manav he thinks Soham is responsible for Archana's condition .. So maybe that's why

He loves his children dearly
I think it's unfair to point a finger at his love for his children


Manav thinks it is Soham who is responsible Okay but its not in Manav's nature to hold grudges like this, or it has not been. When Savita separated him from Archana for 18 years he was not mad like this at Savita,
Manav needs to use his head more, Soham was raised by a goon he was a goon he was put into these circumstances he didn't place himself in them.

Manav and his love for his children. In my POV I don't think the love for his children has never been equal I mean Sachin still needs to get married!!!! HES like 30 or something.. Not saying he loves him any less but love isn't everything you have responsibilities toward your children. Instead of just tlaking to Soham like this 24/7 use some of the money you have and send him to school to learn how to read and write!

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