I HATE THIS SHOW - Page 2

Originally posted by: pine-apple

the topic should have been 'i hate randhir'. the show is the best on tv so far.

You are right Pine👏 ... I was being sarcastic that's all 😭... we have nothing to complain about the show and Gaurav that's for sure.😳..

You know Shahnaz ....if they would have continued this show I would have loved to see this character of Roma brought back...they should have chosen a good a perfect match for Samay, somebody as beautiful as Rusty but with more brain ,as romantic as our GC ...Then we would have enjoyed the show even more... but looks like the way they are ending Rusty is a winner , she got 😡 her papa back and doesnt care a bit for Samay 😭 😭 😭 . It s so sad for Samay ....

😕 I'm sad too the way everyone's deserted Samay his family n now Rusty the dumb woman can't give him time.Just has to run off with papa dear.It's not the guy's fault he wants her to work in a safe environment , cudn't she tell him about the puja? All her fault so engrossed in papa n the vineyard.I hope the inspector takes n locks papaji away for good.That'll knock some brains in him n some valid sense in Rusty for treating poor Sam this way.

well the show is ending or we would have loved to see samay ignoring rusty.

Originally posted by: pine-apple

well the show is ending or we would have loved to see samay ignoring rusty.

Yes I agree with you too. Before the show ends I want to see a changed Samay and not going after his mad wife . 😡

The way he said she is taken everything for granted because he loves her. It s true.

If she is always right and a saint , how come Samay was not aware of the Puja? 😡😡😡. She is wrong.

I have seen a similar type of relationship with my own friend. Because she never grew up even after she had kids. It s sad.

no... not like that... i hope it is happy end

As much I don't like the idea that father taking revenge with daughter but I must say kanwaljeet is doing good acting his expression are good.

Can I please play the devil's advocate again?
What is happening in the Samay Rusty relationship is very natural... except that Randhir is deliberately instigating it further.
In any relationship, the shift from the honeymoond period is always difficult.... the honeymoon period (and i do not mean that this exists/occurs only during one's official honeymoon) is when two people are completely lost in each other.... and lost to the world. They surface for air from time to time but thats about it.... when the other person's time, attention, indulgence, everything is only for you.... the best period of love perhaps... sigh sigh.....
This is followed by the intrusion of reality... the real world brings its own realities... other commitments demand time and attention... and while both may get busy with other things, both will also notice the changes and feel uncomfortable.... usually here one partner will accuse the other of changing.
This does not mean that love doesnt come back.... you settle into different ways of loving...sometimes certain looks and smiles do what hours of communication used to do earlier.... sometimes you make time for one message in that busy day.... sometimes you laugh together on a joke and rediscover that magic.... but the shift to this new kind of intimacy is difficult for every couple..... it takes time and patience on the part of both people... it takes simple things like both not being angry at the same time.... perhaps it takes being friends.... sometimes you have to be able to say "I hate this fight and i pretty much hate you right now but i'm not going to hapng up this phone".
ok ab yeh lecture thoda lamba ho gaya hai 😃.... but I've missed posting all of last week....so to sum up, the different thing in Rusty and Samay's case is that Randhir is making a difficult phase of a relationship more fraught with tension... he's adding to the tension but its not an unnatural tension in a new marriage.... for all that you say about love, living with someone, even if you love that person completely, can be really difficult

Of course, the above post doesn't mean that i dont believe in love.... i'm just enjoying whats happening in the show right now....these are all phases that every relationship goes through.
I'm really happy that they're not showing the usual galafahmi stuff... these are two people who love each other, talk to each other and have usual problems.
Also Shahnaz dear yes Rusty had said that she had forgiven Samay, but what she's doing is very human dont you think. I mean, i may have forgiven people for mean things they did but to sometimes to not get angry or not maaro a taana is very very difficult to resist ..... and Rusty is hardly a saint.... she's as short tempered as Samay is. 😛

Oh and finally yes Kanwaljeet is doing a great job.... i love the scenes of conflict between Gaurav and him.... both are actors who work well without dialogues, so Gaurav has this "I know what you're doing but i cant stop it so lets see where its going" kind of look on his face. At times it changes when he's looking at Rusty since then it becomes "Can you not see what he is doing kind of look" with mixed hurt and anger.... thats one of his most appealing looks.
Kanwaljeet on the other hand has this "i'm beginnig to discover that i enjoy this genial undermining of your life and love as much as open war.... just you wait and watch" kind of look.... he too is very suave in his own way.....the way they both use the power they have over Rusty and manipulate for her affection is very intersting.... partly also because it is so natural and real.... even without dushmanis, its difficult for lovers/husbands to completely reconcile to their wife's affection for their fathers.... we all keep going back to Freud far more frequently than we realise 😃