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Posted: 12 years ago
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When Asad shouts at our dear Zoya and accuses her of being a human who doesn't value human relationships, why do we think bad of him? How can we not think of what he says in another light?

Asad knows that what he feels for Zoya is strong. In the beginning, it was natural to spite the girl who wore jeans but as the days passed he got to know the girl underneath the western clothes. He doesn't know it's called Love, but he wants none of it. He knows he will hurt Zoya and it is rational for him to believe all the bad things that were previously in his mind.

His thoughts about her have drastically changed, but he can't accept it! He doesn't want to love her. He is protecting the two of them.

This is no misunderstanding, it is just the way his mind functions to defend itself.

And how do we always forget that we hurt the ones we love most?

I know it gets a bit tedious... but think about it! 😊

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Posted: 12 years ago
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this isn't asad mu its his thinking.
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Well why is he stringing her along then? If, like you said, he doesn't want this 'love', he should TELL HER.

He should have let her LEAVE when DB had taken her to the airport. He is being SELFISH, IMO. He wants her near him, but doesn't want to commit ANYTHING to her.

Asshole 😔
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: KulfiBai

Well why is he stringing her along then? If, like you said, he doesn't want this 'love', he should TELL HER.


He should have let her LEAVE when DB had taken her to the airport. He is being SELFISH, IMO. He wants her near him, but doesn't want to commit ANYTHING to her.

Asshole😔



I agree with you, but i can also understand him. I DO NOT condone his behavior in this particular incident, but i can understand his dilemma. Hes afraid to love, and knows very well thats where he's headed, but his mind keeps telling him he'll hurt her. What he's neglecting to realize is that his inner war is hurting her already and more than any other thing he could do because the poor girl gets her hops up only to have them crushed by him
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: KulfiBai

Well why is he stringing her along then? If, like you said, he doesn't want this 'love', he should TELL HER.


He should have let her LEAVE when DB had taken her to the airport. He is being SELFISH, IMO. He wants her near him, but doesn't want to commit ANYTHING to her.

Asshole 😔



How will he tell her when he doesn't know? And as far as I can see, he is clearly as selfish as each and every one of us. He can't be selfless and let her go! He's hurting her, but he can't fathom the depth of the scars he's creating. For a business man and a guy who has clearly never been around men he does an astoundingly good job in respecting them. He might be opinionated, but he never got the time to mature emotionally... he got hurt and he closed himself off from the experiences of life.

Emotionally he's still an erratic teenager who does things at a whim.

If love isn't selfish then I don't know what is... It's still so beautiful.

And he has been committed to her! Just because they haven't named their relationship doesn't mean that they aren't committed. 😊
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I agree with you, but i can also understand him. I DO NOT condone his behavior in this particular incident, but i can understand his dilemma. Hes afraid to love, and knows very well thats where he's headed, but his mind keeps telling him he'll hurt her. What he's neglecting to realize is that his inner war is hurting her already and more than any other thing he could do because the poor girl gets her hops up only to have them crushed by him



Exactly! 😃 His behavior in the last episode was uncalled for... but what can we do? Asad is the way he is and he was just in character. I hope one day he will realize how much damage he's causing the poor girl... *sigh*

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