- Asad's character. - Page 2

Originally posted by: eshasrk

Tanveer the cat has eaten the Asad, the chicken , his brains

And yes, something should be done with Zoya, coz I cannot believe this is the same spunky, independent Zoya, who would never keep quiet after being insulted without giving it back...is she the same ???
She has become a crybaby only becoz she's bitten by yhe love bug 🤪my gosh is this what Gul calls progressive ???
Falling in love is nice, adjusting to your partner is even nicer, but getting humiliated and hurt over and over again by the one who so-called loves you...what kind of love is that anyways ?????
Asad was / is and will always be a mentally challenged coward...don't have too much hope that this guy will ever change, unless something drastic happens

Originally posted by: eshasrk

Tanveer the cat has eaten the Asad, the chicken , his brains

And yes, something should be done with Zoya, coz I cannot believe this is the same spunky, independent Zoya, who would never keep quiet after being insulted without giving it back...is she the same ???
She has become a crybaby only becoz she's bitten by yhe love bug 🤪my gosh is this what Gul calls progressive ???
Falling in love is nice, adjusting to your partner is even nicer, but getting humiliated and hurt over and over again by the one who so-called loves you...what kind of love is that anyways ?????
Asad was / is and will always be a mentally challenged coward...don't have too much hope that this guy will ever change, unless something drastic happens

Originally posted by: Jayne

That is the problem isn't it?

I have seen post after post describing true love as being 'unconditional', 'selfless', 'sacrificing', etc.

Rubbish!
True love needs none of that if it is true.

Several 'un-conditionals' come to mind:
- he/she wants to kill you
- he/she has numerous other lovers with numerous other children
- he/she wants you to engage in same
- he/she expects unpalatable things from you
- he/she uses you, squeezing every drop of life out of you
- he/ she makes you completely dependent on them
- he/she constantly puts you down and still says, 'Sorry', and 'I Love You' in the next breath
- he/she convinces you only they love you and nobody else ever will
etc.

Yeah.

And the woman on the other hand, is also not showing true love on her end.
It is nothing but a dependent, junkie-dealer relationship.

If self-respect, dignity, self-esteem, and independence are maintained in a love-relationship, then that is true love.

Jayne