Confused...how has Arjun betrayed Ovi???

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Posted: 12 years ago
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He and Purvi did not get together while he was married to Ovi.and a big AND Arjun was supposed to marry Purvi- she was his Fiancee until his wedding day (poor sod) whilst being married to Ovi, he was not unfaithful to Ovi, at least not with Purvi as far as we know

Arjun made it very clear to all including Ovi that he loved Purvi- yet Ovi got married to him knowing this
Arjun only just found out about his baby same time as everyone
I really think he is being treated very unfairly
I think Purvi continues to screw up people's lives for matyrdom
I think Ovi has been very selfish, self centred and spoilt and throws tantrums at will.she always was insecure in her marriage - and she should be, after all Arjun was upfront with her
Arjun should grow some balls and drop these two ladies and move on with Punni's Sister or someone else

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Posted: 12 years ago
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I think where Arjun betrayed Ovi was that he tried to tell her that they are going to work things out and he wants to make their relationship work where in reality he never stopped loving and thinking about Purvi ..
Even today he was about to lie and tell manav that he loved Ovi but the way Manav asked him , he just could not gather enough strength to lie completely ..Arjun understood that Manav was right and he has been playing this game of acting as if he is happy in his life with Ovi but all along he is only interested in Purvi ...
Manav was also in a situation when he was forced to marry someone he did not love but right from the point of proposal till they broke up before getting married , Manav was very very firm on one thing that he will only love Archana and Shravani is only his responsibility ..He never changed that stand ...
But this was not the case with Arjun who even was going to have a baby with Ovi ..When he found out that Pari was Purvi's baby then his reaction was so different . He was so much more in love with the baby because she was Purvi's child ...I wish Arjun had the guts to openly say that he will love Purvi and only Purvi and just cannot love Ovi .He doesn't do that .He says one thing and does another ...
Not once he has been shown to be crying for Ovi's baby .He wants to play happy marriage with Ovi ( have kids , have sex all of that ) and on the other side give Purvi loving glances ( like he did while naming Pari ) when her husband is not looking ...
Very difficult to respect someone like him .I used to like him a lot before but the writers of this show have turned him into a puppet that just dances on Purvi's tunes ...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tanyaz

I think where Arjun betrayed Ovi was that he tried to tell her that they are going to work things out and he wants to make their relationship work where in reality he never stopped loving and thinking about Purvi ..

Even today he was about to lie and tell manav that he loved Ovi but the way Manav asked him , he just could not gather enough strength to lie completely ..Arjun understood that Manav was right and he has been playing this game of acting as if he is happy in his life with Ovi but all along he is only interested in Purvi ...
Manav was also in a situation when he was forced to marry someone he did not love but right from the point of proposal till they broke up before getting married , Manav was very very firm on one thing that he will only love Archana and Shravani is only his responsibility ..He never changed that stand ...
But this was not the case with Arjun who even was going to have a baby with Ovi ..When he found out that Pari was Purvi's baby then his reaction was so different . He was so much more in love with the baby because she was Purvi's child ...I wish Arjun had the guts to openly say that he will love Purvi and only Purvi and just cannot love Ovi .He doesn't do that .He says one thing and does another ...
Not once he has been shown to be crying for Ovi's baby .He wants to play happy marriage with Ovi ( have kids , have sex all of that ) and on the other side give Purvi loving glances ( like he did while naming Pari ) when her husband is not looking ...
Very difficult to respect someone like him .I used to like him a lot before but the writers of this show have turned him into a puppet that just dances on Purvi's tunes ...

Agreed he is playing puppet but I bet Manav didn't have Archana say to him 'if you really love me you will marry Shravi' like Purvi did...the poor guy loves Purvi, he never said otherwise but due to the situation that he was placed in, he really tried to make his marriage work, even when he was being falsely accused of cheating courtesy of Punni...Ovi knew what she was getting into
Quite frankly, he is the only one I feel sorry for in this scenario, to some extent Onir. H eis only human but I still dont see betrayal.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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No, he did not betray Ovi in any way! He cannot stop his heart from loving Purvi but still he tried his best to make his marriage work, even when Ovi was behaving so badly. drinking alcohol in her pregnancy, throwing jealous tantrums etc.
Ovi knew all along he loved Purvi still she snatched him from Purvi. She wanted to possess him so she did, but only his body, not his heart and soul which will always belong to Purvi! That is not betrayal but frailty of human heart.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ovi's own dicision,her obssession for arjun betrayed herself.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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OVI HAS MADE ARJUN AND PURVI'S LIFE HELL FOR 1 YEAR( not to mention the fans😉), good riddens that she is gone. Noone cared when purvi left, why this concern anout the spoiled brat , who is responsible for creating mess in everyone's life. IF ANYTHING, I THINK ARJUN BETRAYED PURVI BY SLEEPING WITH OVI, NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND( and i am aware that purvi in her mahaan avatar asked him to do so too...but still...)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Arjun did the mistake of marrying Ovi. Instead he should have slapped Purvi and left India.

Purvi did the mistake by accepting Ovi's deal even after having physical contact with Arjun.

otherwise Arjun and Purvi always loyal in their decision and tried to keep Ovi happy. Arjun and Purvi struggled to move on forgetting their love.

but no one respected their feeling everytime they are blamed for each and everything.

Ovi the initiator of all these problem claims she has been cheated by Arjun and Purvi. this family supports her stupid claim and giving punishment to Arjun and Purvi. thankless family.

now Manav is blaming Purvi and Arjun for spoiling Ovi's life.

D & K members lost their brain. they proved they never considered Purvi as their daughter.

Savita and Sulo are selfish ladies in PR.

now the entire family decided to destroy Pari's life to save Ovi.

Hope Archu wakes up soon to supports Purvi.

CVs destroyed Manav's character. the one who have been symbol of understanding love is now totally taking wrong decision on Arjun Purvi's relationship.



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Posted: 12 years ago
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how can be manav blame only arjun & purvi for cheat with ovi. while he ignore all mistake of ovi. how could he accept the marriage of ovi and arjun while he clear knew that arjun only loves purvi.infact it is true that manav never accepted purvi as a daughter like ovi & teju only pretend in front of archana. he doesn't care of purvi whether she alive or die,he only cared of ovi. in the other hand ovi also cheated with his childhood friend arjun by forcefully marriage and with her sister by snaching her would be husband. it is also true ovi never loved arjun because she never try to understood arjun emotions. she only wanted to get arjun at any cost. then she used purvi's love toward archana.

purvi & ovi arjun ko apni apni taraf keech(pull) kar rahe the arjun ro raha tha arjun ka kachumar nikal gaya tha ath mein purvi ne arjun ko chod diya aur ovi ne kheech liya aab ovi pathe hue arjun ko lekar ro rahi h.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: newt2007

Arjun did the mistake of marrying Ovi. Instead he should have slapped Purvi and left India.

Purvi did the mistake by accepting Ovi's deal even after having physical contact with Arjun.

otherwise Arjun and Purvi always loyal in their decision and tried to keep Ovi happy. Arjun and Purvi struggled to move on forgetting their love.

but no one respected their feeling everytime they are blamed for each and everything.

Ovi the initiator of all these problem claims she has been cheated by Arjun and Purvi. this family supports her stupid claim and giving punishment to Arjun and Purvi. thankless family.

now Manav is blaming Purvi and Arjun for spoiling Ovi's life.

D & K members lost their brain. they proved they never considered Purvi as their daughter.

Savita and Sulo are selfish ladies in PR.

now the entire family decided to destroy Pari's life to save Ovi.

Hope Archu wakes up soon to supports Purvi.

CVs destroyed Manav's character. the one who have been symbol of understanding love is now totally taking wrong decision on Arjun Purvi's relationship.





Good post I agree wit veerything EXCEPT that Purvi has most blame in this scenario...she proved that being great in the family's eyes more important than her love for Arjun, same thing she did with Onir, yes the guys are weak but she spoilt their lives.she and Purvi are both selfish and self centred!


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