Episode 258 Discussion: 29th April 2013 - Page 6

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Posted: 12 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: lovehappiness

If Radhajee was supporting RK in all his antics then it would have made sense. But being so disrespectful to Radhajee for something she has no control on does not make sense.

I always found only Shamsher to be the sensible Mallick in all this Mallick clan. Though he tried killing RK multiple times you could see that his intention was only his daughters happiness. But incase of Paddy I never understand her


Oh Please! Paddy is a nut-case. 🤪 Never seen a mother like her in real and reel life. I still can't understand why she paid huge sum as the respect saving cash-reimbursement to RK, and how on earth did it save her daughter's respect? 🤔 🤪
She has inadvertently pushed Madhu towards all wrong men. First Mukund, then RK and now she is all set to crown gangster as her new SIL, with no qualms whatsoever. 😲 🥱 If Paddy gives her blessing to Sulabala, we can be rest assured that Madhu is headed for another disastrous relationship.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ananya05


Oh Please! Paddy is a nut-case. 🤪 Never seen a mother like her in real and reel life. I still can't understand why she paid huge sum as the respect saving cash-reimbursement to RK, and how on earth did it save her daughter's respect? 🤔 🤪
She has inadvertently pushed Madhu towards all wrong men. First Mukund, then RK and now she is all set to crown gangster as her new SIL, with no qualms whatsoever. 😲 🥱 If Paddy gives her blessing to Sulabala, we can be rest assured that Madhu is headed for another disastrous relationship.


It is pride/ego... But she chose to cloak it in the name of self-respect...
Sab ke paas ego hai and everyone in this show thinks that they are the most righteous of the lot and the others are all bekaar...

If she would have kept that ego aside and thought shaanti se, she would have realized that giving the money would only go on to consolidate RK's insinuation of an association of her daughter with Sultan...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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It is pride/ego... But she chose to cloak it in the name of self-respect...
Sab ke paas ego hai and everyone in this show thinks that they are the most righteous of the lot and the others are all bekaar...

If she would have kept that ego aside and thought shaanti se, she would have realized that giving the money would only go on to consolidate RK's insinuation of an association of her daughter with Sultan...


Exactly. I had made the same point when that episode had aired.



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Ananya05


Exactly. I had made the same point when that episode had aired.



Just one question when we are talking about Paddy, did she accept the lodging and boarding charges that were given by Sultan's Khari kamaai piggybank?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: lovehappiness

If Radhajee was supporting RK in all his antics then it would have made sense. But being so disrespectful to Radhajee for something she has no control on does not make sense.


At any point, I didn't feel Padmini was being disrespectful towards Radha...infact, after what RK did with Madhu, she let her in, let her talk, let her apologize.. (Radha came to the chawl to ask Madhu to break RK ) where Padmini had full right to shut the door on her face...However, Padmini didn't like it when Radha asked her about Sultan Madhu friendship and did she really move on? Radha had no business to pass judgement on Madhu, it's obvious that Padmini got irked...when Padmini came to RK mansion, she asked Radha to not interfere b/w her and daughter, which was understandable...i think Padmini can see that Radha never supported RK blindly...there is mutual respect between the two mothers and I like it...they bond over concern for their children but as a MIL, Radha has more responsibilities towards Madhu ..somewhere Radha failed as a mother and MIL both...but it's not her fault since RK never listen to her n Padmini understands...therez very little that Radha can do, coz she always want RK and Madhu together but she's always called a spade a spade !

if anybody could notice, Radha was not happy when Madhu was brought forcibly to RK mansion..may be now she's better bec. she thought that Madhu has forgiven RK...

yes, on all other points, i agree with you, ananya and Zoya...she was abs wrong in paying compensation on behalf of Sultan , accepting money from him and letting him in their lives..can't she see the implications of it? heard about maintaining a safe distance? 😕
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_


At any point, I didn't feel Padmini was being disrespectful towards Radha...infact, after what RK did with Madhu, she let her in, let her talk, let her apologize.. (Radha came to the chawl to ask Madhu to break RK ) where Padmini had full right to shut the door on her face...However, Padmini didn't like it when Radha asked her about Sultan Madhu friendship and did she really move on? Radha had no business to pass judgement on Madhu, it's obvious that Padmini got irked...when Padmini came to RK mansion, she asked Radha to not interfere b/w her and daughter, which was understandable...i think Padmini can see that Radha never supported RK blindly...there is mutual respect between the two mothers and I like it...they bond over concern for their children but as a MIL, Radha has more responsibilities towards Madhu ..somewhere Radha failed as a mother and MIL both...but it's not her fault since RK never listen to her n Padmini understands...itherez very little that Radha can do, coz she always want RK and Madhu together but she's always called a spade a spade !

if anybody could notice, Radha was not happy when Madhu was brought forcibly to RK mansion..may be now she's better bec. she thought that Madhu has forgiven RK...

yes, on all other points, i agree with you, ananya and Zoya...she was abs wrong in paying compensation on behalf of Sultan , accepting money from him and letting him in their lives..can't she see the implications of it? heard about maintaining a safe distance? 😕

I always found her to be disrespectful. Might be her tone or her looking with that disgust/ big eyes. But something in that always shouted disrespect for me. Or might be just that I find all her behaviour slightly alienish😆 I have never seen a mother like her. I liked her only in a few instances. When she was standing between Madhu and RK after the 4- phera wedding and then after the unwedding her initial reaction. Rest everything she does I can never understand😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: _charu_


At any point, I didn't feel Padmini was being disrespectful towards Radha...infact, after what RK did with Madhu, she let her in, let her talk, let her apologize.. (Radha came to the chawl to ask Madhu to break RK ) where Padmini had full right to shut the door on her face...However, Padmini didn't like it when Radha asked her about Sultan Madhu friendship and did she really move on? Radha had no business to pass judgement on Madhu, it's obvious that Padmini got irked...when Padmini came to RK mansion, she asked Radha to not interfere b/w her and daughter, which was understandable...i think Padmini can see that Radha never supported RK blindly...there is mutual respect between the two mothers and I like it...they bond over concern for their children but as a MIL, Radha has more responsibilities towards Madhu ..somewhere Radha failed as a mother and MIL both...but it's not her fault since RK never listen to her n Padmini understands...therez very little that Radha can do, coz she always want RK and Madhu together but she's always called a spade a spade !

if anybody could notice, Radha was not happy when Madhu was brought forcibly to RK mansion..may be now she's better bec. she thought that Madhu has forgiven RK...

yes, on all other points, i agree with you, ananya and Zoya...she was abs wrong in paying compensation on behalf of Sultan , accepting money from him and letting him in their lives..can't she see the implications of it? heard about maintaining a safe distance? 😕

I agree with you...Charu. She is not disrespectful...however she is judgemental, emotional and her kids are her blind spot...a fact that her kids tend to take advantage of. She is also oddly disconnected from her kids ...sometimes I wonder if her failed marraige to abusive Ballu stunted her emotional growth and her awareness of surroundings somehow. She stayed in her comfort zone with her kids oblivious of the world around her because that made her secure...a bubble that was strongly maintained by Shamsher and Roma.
My mother can sense my mood on a phone call and she is unaware of Madhu's feelings for RK. The sad part is even if she knew, she would have judged instead of understanding them. her reaction to Shamsher, her easy acceptance for Sultan (does she know he almost killed Madhu on his first meeting?), her guidance and easy forgiveness for her daughters all go against the grain of a wise and strong woman.
On a different note...I don't understand why Radha is always apologizing on someone's behalf...it makes her look silly. Both her son and daughter-in-law are out of control and they rarely listen to her on many things...instead of counselling them to solve thier problems on thier own...she ends up in front of Paddy with folded hands much to my frustation.
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