Anandi, the wife - Page 10

Originally posted by: JuhiRockz

Hello Leaves,

So much brouhaha about a simple well-meaning post! Even I can't resist the temptation to join the bandwagon.

I don't think you meant that Anandi should stay home forever. Perhaps you meant that let her enjoy her newly married life for sometime. I can't understand what is this to fight about. Unless people are practicing for debates on feminism, social justice and equality of genders.

I must say I am enjoying Anandi in her new Avatar. Trying out recipes from internet, trying to please her hubby and in-laws, being sooo much in love with her husband, and occasionally making mistakes. Why should not she enjoy life? Why cannot she be a proud and supportive wife? What's wrong in that? If Shiv was a loving, caring, proud and supportive husband, so can she. Just because she is paying attention to her family and husband it does that mean that she will never have a career again!

Anandi is doing great. We should all take a chill pill and enjoy her journey. A woman's life is an interesting journey of balancing work and home, family and friends. Anandi is endowed with leadership skills, that does not mean she has no right to enjoy few months of marital bliss! She can choose what she wants to do as and when she feels appropriate. Specially this is her second marriage, this is the time to build her personal relationships, and these relationships will take her a long way. What is the hurry to go to work? Work will be there all her life.

This is my POV - the POV of a working girl, with a supportive family, raised by parents who believes in education and equal rights for all, the POV of a girl who enjoys wearing Indian and western clothes😊

@bold:cannot agree with this for the life of me. it may appear so now coz the TM is eating his/her own words.

Originally posted by: Rkalpana

I could not agree more - let the woman choose what she wants. We cannot say a working woman will always neglect her family or a housewife has not contribution towards society. I was very happy when Anandi chose that she does not want to become a doctor - she chose teaching because she wanted to. Even now I think, she will not remain a housewife, but there is nothing wrong if she delays her career, but she should choose the career herself, nobody even with good intention should decide it for her. Like CVs show about Ganga (I know this topic is about Anandi, but I am writing this to make clear my point), she did not chose to become a nurse herself. Jagya suggested and she accepted - CVs thought this way they can easily show Jagya Ganga together, but the reason why Jagya suggested her to become nurse was not convincing- just because she was good at destracting a patient to bear the pain of medical procedure is not a sound reason to become a nurse, CVs should research about the profession of their charecters to make it look convincing.

One more thing I noticed about the career of women in this serial- they show women lower in career hierachy - Anandi was just a surpanch and Shiv was District Collector, now Jagya is doctor while Ganga will only be a nurse. Only Gauri was exception- she had better career and they made her negative and Jagya eventually left her. Considering this track record of CVs about women's career, I want Anandi to choose a career unrelated to District Administration - she should be independent in her career and not like earlier - sitting in Shiv's office frequently.

you took the words out of my mouth 😊

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Too much feminism means , I explained already. And I never said that feminism destroys homes. Life is not black and white. It is more grey most of the time.

leavesandwaves, Are your pants on fire?

i'm really sorry for quoting so many ppl... I just wasn't there when so many things were said n when i was quoted... so i'm just clearing the air...

Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Toral is too good. she reminds me of meena kumari.

Meenakumariji ki ek alag jagah hai. par as a Anandi Pratyusha ki jagah koi nahi le shakta. mujhe kabhi kabhi lagta hai ki Cvs ne Toral ko hamare maththe madh diya hai. she's good actrss but not as a Anandi. Anandi akka Pratyusha hi hi BV ki jaan thi aur jaan rahegi. i'll hope cvs use wapas le aaye.

Woooh! What a debate! Enjoyed reading through the whole thread. It is indeed more interesting to follow the show by going through forum discussions and written updates than the show in itself. I wish the creatives had the time to sit down and debate and discuss before scripting the dialogues and episodes, we would have much better quality content and people like me would actually think of sitting thru the show and watching it realtime rather than just read a WU for 5 mins and be done with that. I personally think across indian television the fiction format shows have to undergo a Sea change to show some level of quality content in them. Reducing number of days it is telecasted in a week, showing more dialogues than just camera work and special effects, including genuine funny lines in dialogues and humorous tracks along the lines of the show. All this would only be possible if creatives, script writers and dialogue writers actually had enough time to put thought into the show and characters and move the storyline logically. Given the kind of daily formats airing consecutively all year around, all these seem a distant possibility!

Originally posted by: Teeya

<div></div>Meenakumariji ki ek alag jagah hai. par as a Anandi Pratyusha ki jagah koi nahi le shakta. mujhe kabhi kabhi lagta hai ki Cvs ne Toral ko hamare maththe madh diya hai. she's good actrss but not as a Anandi. Anandi akka Pratyusha hi hi BV ki jaan thi aur jaan rahegi. i'll hope cvs use wapas le aaye.

now after showing ansh confession and HM in Kashmir they will not get prats back. bv team waited for new actress and that why they dragged ansh love for few months with unnessary drama.

I am accused of eating my words as if I dont have food in the kitchen.😉

My points.

I dont have any problem if anandi spends all her life in the kitchen. But then CVs will not allow it to happen. Their main protaganist has to do something more than baking some cake. As Udaipur is fairly advanced with lots of schools, anandi has to do something else other than teaching.

Anandi will have only one kid and I am sure she will be a great mom.

What happened to devarji?

Devarji or shiv's brother can fall in love with ganga.

So that we can have ganga with shiv's brother as a pair. Sanchi and Jagya. If gauri wants to return, it will be fun to watch Sanchi confronting Gauri than Ganga confronting Gauri.