If Asad was wrong...why not Razia Note PG 2

Well I knw this forum has witnessed so many big post when Asad slapped Zoya..
but no such anger for razia...
Who was more wrong...ASAD...who was unaware of the facts but his true love for his mother tempted him to hit zoya...
or Raziya who even after knowing that zoya is innocent slapped her...
When u care for a person don't u have ri8 over her...cant u even scold her...cant u even express ur fears over her...was it soo wrong?? or was It wrong just coz ASAD WAS A MAN... nd a MAN should nt hit WOMAN...
If asad's slap could eave scars on zoya's heart... then raziya's slap nd insult would have not counted over scars... think abt it...
Was Asad reallly wrong when he did that in his position... wasn't that instantanous??
scars r scars...no matter if it comes from a woman or man... the man atleast tried to lessen them...
the man cared for the girl...n came running... then don't u think he has got this much of ri8 over her..?

I didn't nor will I ever support either slap. Also, I don't think we should raise The Slap issue again because last time things didn't go down too well...just sayin' 😛

Originally posted by: Katy_AZ

Well I knw this forum has witnessed so many big post when Asad slapped Zoya..
but no such anger for razia...
Who was more wrong...ASAD...who was unaware of the facts but his true love for his mother tempted him to hit zoya...
or Raziya who even after knowing that zoya is innocent slapped her...
When u care for a person don't u have ri8 over her...cant u even scold her...cant u even express ur fears over her...was it soo wrong?? or was It wrong just coz ASAD WAS A MAN... nd a MAN should nt hit WOMAN...
If asad's slap could eave scars on zoya's heart... then raziya's slap nd insult would have not counted over scars... think abt it...
Was Asad reallly wrong when he did that in his position... wasn't that instantanous??
scars r scars...no matter if it comes from a woman or man... the man atleast tried to lessen them...
the man cared for the girl...n came running... then don't u think he has got this much of ri8 over her..?

Originally posted by: KulfiBai

I didn't nor will I ever support either slap. Also, I don't think we should raise The Slap issue again because last time things didn't go down too well...just sayin' 😛

It's a diffrent topic... Justified slap!...it really annoys me hw ppl talk abt ASADs reaction...

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Evidently you do not understand why people were infuriated by the slap by Asad towards Zoya; therefore, explaining it would take a lifetime. When you care about someone, you do not ls slap them or mistreat them - it's wrong. Razia did not care about Zoya and what she did was wrong and no-one here is trying to justify it that it was acceptable. People tried to justify what Asad did and him saying sorry afterwards does not lessen it or make it romantic. We've discussed this matter at length but if you want to argue this again, be prepared.

When ur whole world is on stake...u don't luk over wts ri8 nd wats wrong...Alll I KNW IS THIS!
I'm not talking about Asad's all time mistreats... but this particular one was justified...

Originally posted by: Laila2009

Evidently you do not understand why people were infuriated by the slap by Asad towards Zoya; therefore, explaining it would take a lifetime. When you care about someone, you do not ls slap them or mistreat them - it's wrong. Razia did not care about Zoya and what she did was wrong and no-one here is trying to justify it that it was acceptable. People tried to justify what Asad did and him saying sorry afterwards does not lessen it or make it romantic. We've discussed this matter at length but if you want to argue this again, be prepared.

I have always been a fan of ur writing...I personally want to mention this..ur presence worths on QH forum...
But then I have to disagree with u over this particular thing... cz it'sss sooo preettyyy hard to be in the situation n then SPEAK the same
He was on the verge of loosing his voice <his mom> the man who finds it sooo hard to communicate with his own inner voice all he has got is his own mom...
when u see ur fears coming true... its sooo hard to be stiiff over ur fingers

we get to see zoya slapped so many times now. and it may continue in future.

Originally posted by: GeetMaanfanz

we get to see zoya slapped so many times now. and it may continue in future.

I think Some of us got accustomed by now.

But I don't support any form of violence against women.

Its no VOILENCE against Woman Miss... Y r we viewing it that way/... this is my QUESTION!

Why do we view everything with a perspective of a woman... y not as ZOYA...
be zoya n then say... was it so wrong... kya koi haq nai hota kisi insaan ka dusre insaan pe when that person loves u... inspite of broadening the meaning of slap why are we not trying to broaden the meaning of LOVE... Do u also open the same sort of anger if ur dad slaps u... if our parents have ri8 over us because they love us... can't the slap us... n if they can... every person who love us HAVE THE RI8... cz LOVE is same only the form of LOVE changes... shayad usse pehle kabhi zoya ko kisine thappad mara bhi hoga ya nai... he showed his RI8 over her... If Asad was wrong THEN then zoya is wrong today by interfering in ASAD's personal matter...his family problem... If zoya would have revolted then...she wud have been wrong today by revolting against Asad's pains...
We women are not soo low nd weak that we can not tolerate...
the ZERO TOLERANCE level only leads to ruining of relationships...sometimes...we need to live it with a bit of tolerance..that's the beauty of relations...It's not women voilence... it's the situation of Man's Life wrenching circumstance😭
zindagi me...har baar... sahee sahee nahee hota... situation ke hisab se sahee galat decide krna chaiye... ye WOMAN VOILENCE nai tha.. ye reflex nd Instant reaction tha...jo gussa Zoya pe utar gaya...
Wen we cant stand with a person's worst how an we ever expect him to hold us in our worsts?😳

Because now we know that even if we scream from the top of our lungs how violence is wrong, people are going to think and do what they want, and I am not about to waste my breath again. And if you remember this forum had divided into two parts because of this whole slap issue, I don't think anyone wants that again.