Originally posted by: Dabulls23
haha di i'm one of them who got married at 19 and had my son at 20- right before i graduated from LSE. my aazuba was ill and wanted to see me settled so i said yes. haha but my husband was 24 and working in the family business. and honestly i had a lot of trouble in the beginning. im only 22 going 23 soon. i havent seen life but honestly even a homeschooled cave person isn't as stupid as these characters. but ya young marriages should NOT be encouraged!
im good and the morning sickness has passed di. i have help for the kids but in america so night duty only i'll have to do. but its cool. aai helps a bit.
Teju dear even I was married at 19 1/2 and graduated with Bcom 6 mo after my marriage..During those days girls did get married at young age...But not 19 1/2...May be 22-23 😳 I read you are very young mother too...I was done having both my sons by 23...Sounds familiar? 😉 I feel you are extremely mature for your young age..and i read it..😃👍🏼
your Aajoba being ill and wanted you to be settled...But honestly is that a good or a right reason for a young person to be married? One should only get married when they have all their ducks in a row...Marriages not childs play...and one has to be sure before they jump into it...
I have the wisdom now because everything is perfect in hindsight...Learned some from my own mistakes dear to so I can write it...Its a lot of uncalled struggles we have to go thru for being married and parent at a young age...But if one is determined they can do it...All power to them..I survived so can any one...😃
Honestly young (19-25) Indian kids in India are not equippped or ready mentally, emotionally or financially to be married, having kids and be independent on their own...Living with parents and off of them is not the right thing to do...
These young adults in serials are making so many silly decisions and parents are sitting there not saying a word...Slap them silly or kick them to the curb if they dont listen..First communicate than get tough love to help them understand yaar..
What is this BS abt tyaag and balidaan or bhalaai 😡
haha. 23 second kid...yes di! di i agree with the underlined bit the most. in hindsight things kind of worked out but i was not ready. i had a very difficult childhood/adolescence with my parents living on two different parts of the world and constantly being juggled between them and boarding schools. it took years for my parents to resolve their issues and reach a peaceful post divorce stage. as soon as i started to mature out of that phase i was pushed into a difficult marriage.
i wish my parents did slap me silly. my dad is english so it was very difficult for him to digest all this but he didn't put up much of a resistance either.
all this bhalaai and tyaag is ridiculous. in todays world its hard enough to do bhalaai for oneself why involve everyone around you in personal bad decisions. thats totally senseless.
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