VC getting hurt and angry is handled so brilliantly! He's not shown as a shouting egotistic partriarch. But rather a man who feels a lot for his family and someone who felt hurt that his family did not trust him enough to tell him to the truth and felt perhaps he was too weak or not in a state to handle the truth.
His ego is hurt as a man but more serious is his pain and a certain sense of failure he felt as a man for his family not considering him a pillar of strength and trying to shelter him from truth lest it hurts him.
A man is conditioned to be strong and literally the karta dharta and solid rock of the family. He cannot tolerate being perceived as weak. (I remember once I tried to hold my grandfather's hand while he was descending down the stairs and he instantly told me he did not need it though he has great difficulty in walking and taking each step.)
VC's portrayal with slight tears in his eyes is a brilliant insight into a man and a householder's mind. He is angry both at his wife and daughter but also at himself for being unable to provide feeling of a rock solid support and for coming across as vulnerable to his own wife and kids.
SC team of writers and actors and wonderfully shown VC's bruised self respect as a father whose daughter's rishta has been broken, his burden for not being able to do something quickly for Yash and bearing taunts of his bhabhi, his hurt ego as a husband whose wife did not trust him enough to confide such a big truth to him about their own child and his sense of heightened guilt and failure as a father whose kids have probably grown more and feel the need to take care of him rather than him taking care of them (emotionally). Worse for him are taunts of Guman, silence of Saras in hiding the truth and his inability to react angrily to both of them due to friendship with LN and consideration of ghar ki izzat.
The various burdens of society, family and self that a man carries and tries to carry perfectly (due to expectations from him in a partriarchal culture) are shown so finely in SC via VC's troubles, held back tears and angry yet choking voice when he speaks and that piercing silence which is silence to others but indicates a volcano of emotions raging inside him.
It is also utter finesse that Guniyal does not go hysterical at this. Rather she advises her own daughter to observe what she is going through and learn from her mistake of hiding the truth from someone you love.
It is totally touching to see how the daughters try their best to cheer up their mother, manao their father and normalise relations between them even as Kumud has her own pain to grapple with (that of her rishta going off).
Equally happy to see Dugba trying her best to calm the situation, infuse positivity for all including Saras. And she stands like a shield against Guman, keeping a hawk's eye on every slimy move the vamp tries to make to hurt her family.
SARAS!!!! Is he a darling or what?! Which man does so much for a girl's family even when she is not engaged to him or has confessed love for him?
I LOVE his qualities!
He is himself planning with Kumari to help correct the situation. Most including Kumud, Guniyal et al are giving him a cold shoulder yet he soldiers on! All for the sake of making up for his mistake and making the family happy.
Whereas in other serials men even get away with adultery and rape yet never realise their follies let alone go out of their way to make others happy.
I loved Gautam's expressions when he put the chair out for Kumud to stand but turned his back, kept standing there so that she could take his support to climb up the stool. So sweet! I love such gestures in which nothing is said or asked for or expected but a person shows his concern and care for the other!
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Gautam's expressions were so cute and innocent! Hai Allah! He just stood there, time to time gazing at the door to see if Kumud had managed to put up that decoration piece; offering support silently till her work was done. That MOMENT and way of conveying a feeling of "I am there for you" was so touching! Visual and emotional DELIGHT! đ
Kumud's reluctance yet finally taking his support was an indication of an invisible yet undeniable bond between the two! So romantic!
I love how Saras reads everyone's minds and talks to himself analysing each situation and deciding his future course of action! Where in the WORLD are SUCH perceptive MEN???!!!!! He is way above IDEAL!
I loved how he brought the sari for Guniyal and gave it to VC and wished him Happy Wedding Anniversary with a smile. Gautam looked like a kid! Aww!! He lends such PURITY to Saraswatichandra! Kudos to him and the team!
I was so delighted and touched to see him stop Kumari and giving her a reassuring look when she was about to say that their plan flopped! Sadke jauon aise Jijaji par!
This level of support and care for others? Jug jug jiyo Saras babu! We need men like you in reality!
The other moments I fell for are; Saras looking in alarm at Guman when she invited others. He sensed trouble but still maintained his limits and did not act in a haste. He does keep respectful behaviour towards Guman despite knowing her evil intentions.
Saras observing VC's unrelenting anger and saying to himself now he understood why Kumud is so ziddi. And concluding how he would have to work hard on both of them. (Which MAN thinks like that and is so sensitive?! Wow!)
And last but not the least - MAIN TUMHE HAARNE NAHIN DUNGA KUMUD!
SO awesome.!! Both of them are so sensitive to each others' troubles and would do anything to help each other! PURE LOVE!! Not mere glances or physical chipkoopan!
BTW Kumud is more vocal and was lecturing Saras when she wanted to make him receptive to her help. Whereas Saras is mostly silent and conveys his message and support in quiet actions or few sentences rather than lecturing around. He is equally mature yet equally childlike and vulnerable. But his childlike innocence is PURE and not mischievous or cheap. I LOVE the characterisation of Saraswatichandra!
WHAT A MAN!!! Never seen before on Indian telly!
SLB is master of creating moments in which characters say nothing yet their actions convey much more than what any dialogue could convey! I LOVE these moments and they make a LASTING IMPRESSION STRAIGHT ON THE HEART!
Rare quality and pure visual ART on television in decades!
This is another episode that has won me over completely! (No wonder I can't help expressing myself and am going on about it!)
This is a show to be seen with not just eyes but also felt with the heart and absorbed in the mind!
Sorry for the lebgthy post but I just can't get over tonight's episode! Salute to team SC!