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Posted: 12 years ago
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Nandini don't forget that Meera wanted to leave many times you didn't let her, I know you're hurt but she isn't the one at fault it's your husband who is at fault
she isn't the "bazaloo orath"
Please try to remember the day when you forcefully bought her to this house
she was leaving for her home

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Exactly. And I hope Meera doesn't keep quiet either. It's one thing to try to be respectful and understanding of the shock and hurt the family is going through. But if the relationship is out, she might as well make it clear he cheated her as well, and she wanted to leave the house many times--but they kept stopping her.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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True, and he never told her he was married - so she did not knowingly have an affair with a married man. When she found out he was married she tried to leave .. in fact she felt so much compassion for Nandani .. she always thought of her first before expressing anything
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Both nandini and meera are right...nandini being a kind women brought meera as ani's friend, she wanted someone who knew him, little did she know he had a relationship with her...nandini is not wrong, meera told her that Ni told her about nandini...so she obviously believes that meera despite knowing went ahead with the relationship...nandini is hurt and will be more hurt when she gets to know about meeras pregnancy...she is innocent and a victim...so is meera but she is not innocent enough in the terms of Indian traditions...she is pregnant before marriage and will always be looked down upon, it is better if she goes to London at least she won't have to face societies questions...why doesn't she get an abortion, living in the same house does she want nandini to get more hurt...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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exactly i agree its neither of them fault...anniruddh was living a double life
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Posted: 12 years ago
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i guess nandini is intelligent girl, she needs some time to understand this that this isn't meera's fault...she hurt by what her husband did to her...i know she will understand👍🏼
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Posted: 12 years ago
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meera should of tell nandini the truth from the beginning and tell her that she did not know that ani was marry and she is sorry nandini did bring meera home thinking she is ani friend meera no she is more then a friend to ani if meera did not want to go with nandini she should of make it clear that she dont want to go so dont say nandini should remember that bring meera home if nandini no that meera is the other woman you think she would of bring meera home THINK
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rhtpkcm

Both nandini and meera are right...nandini being a kind women brought meera as ani's friend, she wanted someone who knew him, little did she know he had a relationship with her...nandini is not wrong, meera told her that Ni told her about nandini...so she obviously believes that meera despite knowing went ahead with the relationship...nandini is hurt and will be more hurt when she gets to know about meeras pregnancy...she is innocent and a victim...so is meera but she is not innocent enough in the terms of Indian traditions...she is pregnant before marriage and will always be looked down upon, it is better if she goes to London at least she won't have to face societies questions...why doesn't she get an abortion, living in the same house does she want nandini to get more hurt...


No offence but abortion is nothing less than a crime its murder and considering she is not hating her child she wants to give birth to her child then abortion is no happy option for her.. its far worse an option than giving birth to a child out of wedlock. There are single moms who are living normal life even in India. I am totally against any women facing the brunt of a man's wrong deed. Even if she faces societies question it will eventually one day die down... people will talk for some days then move on after some days but for the sake of societies' taunts for some days killing a child is a heinous act especially when she herself wants her child to live.



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rhtpkcm

Both nandini and meera are right...nandini being a kind women brought meera as ani's friend, she wanted someone who knew him, little did she know he had a relationship with her...nandini is not wrong, meera told her that Ni told her about nandini...so she obviously believes that meera despite knowing went ahead with the relationship...nandini is hurt and will be more hurt when she gets to know about meeras pregnancy...she is innocent and a victim...so is meera but she is not innocent enough in the terms of Indian traditions...she is pregnant before marriage and will always be looked down upon, it is better if she goes to London at least she won't have to face societies questions...why doesn't she get an abortion, living in the same house does she want nandini to get more hurt...



I know what you mean love , but see that's why I don't sympathize meera as much as I sympathize nandini
I want meera to leave I really do
But I don't want meera to be accused of something or be taunted when she did try to leave.
It's not her fault the poor girl tried to leave before
But meera doesn't want abortion
Meera wants the baby I don't know why she would want a cheaters baby
Agreed she loved him but doesn't she have any values ?
I don't think anyone should have a baby before marriage be it meera or anyone
Especially when the father cheated on the mother , why ?
But I am just very conservative when it comes to these things
I would be rather shocked if Balraj keeps meera in this house without a proper title
An unwed mother should not be there according to his paramparas
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: 098a

meera should of tell nandini the truth from the beginning and tell her that she did not know that ani was marry and she is sorry nandini did bring meera home thinking she is ani friend meera no she is more then a friend to ani if meera did not want to go with nandini she should of make it clear that she dont want to go so dont say nandini should remember that bring meera home if nandini no that meera is the other woman you think she would of bring meera home THINK



I know but she didn't want to cause problems in the house
She is emotional
And I would probably do the same if I were her
Except I wouldn't go to nandini's house no matter how much she insisted me
I would abort the baby and not keep a single mark of a cheater in my life

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