Nandini don't forget - Page 2

Originally posted by: rhtpkcm

Both nandini and meera are right...nandini being a kind women brought meera as ani's friend, she wanted someone who knew him, little did she know he had a relationship with her...nandini is not wrong, meera told her that Ni told her about nandini...so she obviously believes that meera despite knowing went ahead with the relationship...nandini is hurt and will be more hurt when she gets to know about meeras pregnancy...she is innocent and a victim...so is meera but she is not innocent enough in the terms of Indian traditions...she is pregnant before marriage and will always be looked down upon, it is better if she goes to London at least she won't have to face societies questions...why doesn't she get an abortion, living in the same house does she want nandini to get more hurt...

Originally posted by: rhtpkcm

does she want nandini to get more hurt[/quote]

The reason for which she stayed in the house
the reason she wanted to leave the house
and the reason she lied about Ani telling her about Nandini saying he loves Nandini
was all because Meera does not want to hurt Nandini

If she wanted to hurt her then she wouldn't have done those for Nandini.

That lie she made to make Nandini feel good will affect her because they'll think she knew about Ani's marriage. But if she wanted to hurt Nandini she wouldn't have done so.

even if she stays there it would be because of circumstances or Balraj's trick not and never because she would have any intention to purposely hurt Nandini

Edited by Quietude - 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Quietude

The contention here is Why should Anirudh's name go unscathed

Nandini's coping cannot be healed by making Meera suffer.

Nandini had a more traditional life but it does not mean Meera has to suffer for Nandini's traditional life. Just its not right to make Nandini suffer then iska matlab ye nahi Meera ke liye okay hai suffer karwalo usko

Make her suffer for not having a traditional life is not good

Why should any body at all suffer if the person is not at fault thats not an answer to any of the cheating Anirudh did to two women

I dont Nandini or Meera to suffer because of Anirudh whats their fault

Why kill Meera's child that child didnt make any mistake the father Anirudh shouldn't cost him his murder. The child is not just cheater Anirudh's its equally and more of Meera's and she does not want to kill the child.

Abortion is legalized murder. Many women from higher socio-economic
class even does it but it is wrong. Anirudh duped her into believing
he will marry her. He fake promised her he will take her to meet his
family next time. She was made to believe this man will marry her and he
is the one for her.

Meera is supposed to be a liberal and
independent girl of today her taking a step like abortion in fear of
societal pressure will be out of character. It would show she is a coward who
got scared of society. She is so far shown as anything but that then
abortion and she dont go hand in hand.

Sure first few days Nandini will be pain all the way seeing Meera around in the house but its better to have pain for some months than having pain all life for Nandini by not having a closure of Anirudh




I know what you mean I am not a big fan of abortion either. But why limit your life to a child when she can clearly move on ? This child will always be a reminder of anirudh's betrayal. This will also limit meera in one way or the other.
Meera will be free from all her responsibilities if she snorts this child
The child would obviously want to know of their father , of their paternal family
What will she say ? He or she is illegitimate?
It's better to be dead than be illegitimate and face the many questions of society.
If she goes to London and goes away from India that's another thing
Abortion is killing a baby true , but this baby wasn't planned and no one should kill their life because of one unplanned child
What if meera doesn't want this child later ? Do you know how many people get swayed in emotions and have the baby ? Later they are unae to care for it hence they give them to a foster home or up for adoption
That's why abortion is legal because it stops people from ruining a life
And anirudh's child's life will be ruined anyway unless meera leaves to London and goes away from Asthanas

Originally posted by: ablazedmelody

No offence but abortion is nothing less than a crime its murder and considering she is not hating her child she wants to give birth to her child then abortion is no happy option for her.. its far worse an option than giving birth to a child out of wedlock. There are single moms who are living normal life even in India. I am totally against any women facing the brunt of a man's wrong deed. Even if she faces societies question it will eventually one day die down... people will talk for some days then move on after some days but for the sake of societies' taunts for some days killing a child is a heinous act especially when she herself wants her child to live.

Originally posted by: rhtpkcm

Both nandini and meera are right...nandini being a kind women brought meera as ani's friend, she wanted someone who knew him, little did she know he had a relationship with her...nandini is not wrong, meera told her that Ni told her about nandini...so she obviously believes that meera despite knowing went ahead with the relationship...nandini is hurt and will be more hurt when she gets to know about meeras pregnancy...she is innocent and a victim...so is meera but she is not innocent enough in the terms of Indian traditions...she is pregnant before marriage and will always be looked down upon, it is better if she goes to London at least she won't have to face societies questions...why doesn't she get an abortion, living in the same house does she want nandini to get more hurt...