I am not going to play the blame game..I pity both Kohem and Gopi...
Kohem because they have been cruel to Gopi in the first year of Gohem marriage and since then they have been bending backwards to make up for it...Gopi is not the same Gopi as she was when she came to MM as a bride. She has made her place as the eldest DIL and everyone trusts her implicitly. Trust is very hard to earn but very easy to lose. Gopi has earned both trust and love the hard way. It's ok and understandable to defend Urshi upto some point as they were the only family she knew and she feels indebted to them. I understand that. In the past there are many kks where she may not even be aware that Urshi were behind it all as she was too naive and trusting then. But during the Sonal track itself, when Koki found out that Gopi knew the truth yet chose to remain quiet, she had warned Gopi that what she did was wrong and she had no right to hide the truth from the familly elders. She warned her again when Alka was in MM during the Vansh track. During the Vansh track itself, Gopi actually saw to what extent Urmi could go to get what she wants. Yet she chose to hide the truth. This time I was totally baffled with Gopi's behaviour. She came to know the truth and did say she will tell Ahem and even went to Baa and Hetal to tell the truth..but did neither 😕. She chose to go along with Urmi's kk to free Koki. What if that had failed? would anyone then believe her if she turned around and said that actually it was all Urmi's fault? She took a huge risk then..even though she had told Urmi earlier that she cannot take that risk 😕. I know this time she actually meant to tell the truth, but the fact is she should have done it when she came to know and not allowed Urmi to play her kk. Ahem will surely ask her why did she hide the truth from him too. They even had spent some time alone so she cannot say that she did not get the chance. At some point, Gopi decided that only Koki will know the truth, so indirectly she did give a chance to Urmi again. She may have done it all with best intentions at heart, but hiding the truth amounts to lying...Koki does not forgive Ahem easily so Gopi will have to go through Koki's saas reborn avatar for a while now 😕. I feel sorry for Gopi as she gets crucified for her one mistake and Urshi with their countless sins are still enjoying life 🤢😭.
I hope Gopi realizes her mistake and Ahem supports her. I hope he is on her side, though I think he will be hurt in the beginning 😭😭😭. This Holi too ends in tears for Gopi 😭😭😭.
On a lighter note, I think the CVs are reviving the "Gopi's tears=high TRPs" mantra to combat the coming IPL season 😆...it hasnt failed for them so far 😆..I am sure Urshi will be back together in no time so I hope Gopi is not made to suffer too much too