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Posted: 12 years ago
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Note- This is a purely personal post. It encapsulates my feelings on motherhood. They are not necessarily the norm nor am I even trying to say that they are. I offer this clarification upfront with a view to avoding unnecessary debate!


This is one of my most favourite songs! Couldn't think of more approporiate an occasion for this song on this forum!

Mother of mine
You gave to me all of my life
To do as I please
I owe everything I have to you
Mother, sweet mother of mine
Mother of mine when
I was young
You showed me
The right way things
Should be done
Without your love,
Where would I be?
Mother, sweet mother of mine

Mother, you gave me
Happiness much more
Than words can say
I pray the Lord that
He may bless you
Every night and every day

Mother of mine
Now I am grown
And I can walk straight
All on my own
I'd like to give you
What you gave to me
Mother, sweet mother of mine


Life is a continuum. And a woman is at the centre of this continuum. For without her, there can be no continuum. God constructed her that way. Maybe, in the time to come, an artificial womb will be developed. Maybe women will be relieved of this task that some regard a burden. Maybe men and women will be truly similar in a biological sense too!

Till then, revel in this power within you to nurture life! Conceiving life, nurturing it and delivering it back to the world is no ordinary miracle. It is a blessing. Please treat it as such!

Thank you Mother for giving me this life to live. Thank you for housing me in your womb and nurturing me with your blood. Thank you Mother for this gift of womanhood! Thank you for this blessing of life that I pass on!

Call me regressive, Call me a traditionalist. Call me any names that you will. But I proudly declare that I never felt as blessed all my life as on the day when I knew my womb housed another life.

God bless you, Nidhi! May you enjoy the experience of motherhood in all its entirety. Congratulations and good luck, woman to woman!




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Posted: 12 years ago
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Being a mother is a great gift...! Congratulations to Nidhi... !!

But i dun consider it the greatest thing.. for a woman.. its one of the aspects.. to her personality..!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Armu4eva

Being a mother is a great gift...! Congratulations to Nidhi... !!


But i dun consider it the greatest thing.. for a woman.. its one of the aspects.. to her personality..!



Tanu...I did not say that it was the greatest thing for a woman..or in fact the only thing...there are many facets to human life, be they men or women...however, there are certain special moments, certain special joys that will remain unparalleled...of coruse, it is a matter of perspective...for me, it is my greatest joy...not that it has to be the same for you or anyone else!



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao



Tanu...I did not say that it was the greatest thing for a woman..or in fact the only thing...there are many facets to human life, be they men or women...however, there are certain special moments, certain special joys that will remain unparalleled...of coruse, it is a matter of perspective...for me, it is my greatest joy...not that it has to be the same for you or anyone else!



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Yep.. its a matter of perspectives... !! I always encourage my mom to follow her dreams.. n it feels so good to see her happy face when she get recognised for that..! 😊


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Armu4eva


Yep.. its a matter of perspectives... !! I always encourage my mom to follow her dreams.. n it feels so good to see her happy face when she get recognised for that..! 😊



Tanu, I am not a career mom...I do have an extremely succcesful career...and my children are my biggest support in achieving my dreams...but the fact remains that not one of my achievements can hold a candle to the joy I felt when I became a mother...

This post has to do with my personal emotions and experience...I hope they will be treated as such...and not as an attempt to generalize...beyond that, I merely asked for motherhood to be treated as a blessing..but even that was a reqyest!


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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao

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Tanu, I am not a career mom...I do have an extremely succcesful career...and my children are my biggest support in achieving my dreams...but the fact remains that not one of my achievements can hold a candle to the joy I felt when I became a mother...

This post has to do with my personal emotions and experience...I hope they will be treated as such...and not as an attempt to generalize...beyond that, I merely asked for motherhood to be treated as a blessing..but even that was a reqyest!



Ofcourse.. even i m sharing my personal view.. on the subject..! 😊



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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Armu4eva


Ofcourse.. even i m sharing my personal view.. on the subject..! 😊





Thanks for sharing your views...so long as this is not turned into an ugly debate...that was not the purpose of this post...so long as that is respected, I am good!

Secondly, I don't think my post ever indicated that motherhood is the be all and end all of a woman's existence. Your response made me wonder if such an inference could in fact be drawn from what I said. Hence the clarification!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao



Secondly, I don't think my post ever indicated that motherhood is the be all and end all of a woman's existence. Your response made me wonder if such an inference could in fact be drawn from what I said. Hence the clarification!


yh it sort of did.. 😊

for now m very happy for Nidhi n AshNi ... its finally going to b a complete family portrait..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Armu4eva


yh it sort of did.. 😊

for now m very happy for Nidhi n AshNi ... its finally going to b a complete family portrait..



Lol...even you echo the view that the portrait is somewhat incomplete without the child...!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sujatha.rao



Lol...even you echo the view that the portrait is somewhat incomplete without the child...!


thats what the show wishes to convey.. .hence i said.. [i used their words only ..not mine] πŸ˜†

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