Shiv's goodness is a quite a good luck for singhs

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Posted: 12 years ago
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i find Shiv's perfection as a husband more of a sheer luck of Anandi
How a person behaves in public and professionally and how he is in personal life is many times quit different
When Singhs got AnsSh's proposal of marriage to Bhago they knew him for only two months...its odd that a family who know the good and bad of the world so well and struggled so much in life trusted Shiv so easily and so early to give Anandi to him...even though they knew how stubborn Anandi is about marriage and what marriage is all about... i find it odd that they were ready to believe that Shiv can tolerate anything from Anandi...did not Singhs (or at least Sumitra. Gehna, Basant and Bhairon) once thought that since Gehna was not ready for intimacy due to forced marriage it may be the same case for Anandi and who knows whether Shiv would be patient enough to tolerate it when Basant wasn't...
One thing has always been constant about Singhs
Dadisa never cared about her Saamdhees (whether DIL's parents or SIL's parents)
Singhs never thought that maybe Shiv has dreams of normal marriage and just because Shiv can keep Anandi happy does not mean the same can be said for Anandi
And yet again they are just thinking of only Jagya's happiness...yes a new partner can keep Jagya happy but what gurantee do they give to the girl that Jagya will also keep her happy and give her a normal martial life
why make one person struggle to keep your own child happy when they are fully aware that time heals everything and if things are meant to happen than no one can stop them
Yet they behave impatiently with everyone... why not wait for the person to heal enough to at least think over such decisions

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Yes, Anandi is lucky to have got such a good person. I know a lot of members will not agree, but I believe that in Shiv, the creatives have introduced a gem, that is difficult to find in real world (in some other thread, a lot of members said that they know someone just like Shiv). If a person loves his wife too much, he may have some other shortcoming like bad temper or he may not have an understanding family etc. DS decided to marry Anandi even before meeting Shiv's family.
As for Anandi keeping Shiv happy, DS seems to be very selfish, and Singh family will follow what DS want. They do not think about other's happiness (like DS and Singh family never thought about Shiv during Jagya amnesia drama). Even now they dont think about Shiv's happiness or about his family. It is surprising that they dont remember Sugna but say that they cannot live without Anandi.
Forgive my harsh words but I feel that they dont think about others - like they never thought about Anandi's parents, but went to meet them when DS thought that her parents can make Anandi agree for marriage. Creatives made this fault in the charecterisation of Singh family.
The story is being repeated for Jagya's another marriage. If DS has decided that Jagya has to marry now - he will have to marry even when he does not want to, how his wife will deal with an unwilling partner is not DS's concern. And involving Anandi in making Jagya agree for marriage is another injustice to Shiv.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Shiv is the perfect man.. A man of dreams.. And he has everything, actually everything...

But the way he is sometimes treated makes me sad.. It just goes to show that nice men finish last.. He allows people to be their normal self around him, behave without inhibitions or pretensions.. But that normal self is just so selfish on others' part.. The Singhs run to him for every single problem.. Anandi still places her family (read Singhs) above him.. While he's happy with whatever he gets, keeping his droolicious smile intact.. This man certainly deserves more..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: anamika84

Shiv is the perfect man.. A man of dreams.. And he has everything, actually everything...


But the way he is sometimes treated makes me sad.. It just goes to show that nice men finish last.. He allows people to be their normal self around him, behave without inhibitions or pretensions.. But that normal self is just so selfish on others' part.. The Singhs run to him for every single problem.. Anandi still places her family (read Singhs) above him.. While he's happy with whatever he gets, keeping his droolicious smile intact.. This man certainly deserves more..


Yes, he is the perfect man. But if he lets anandi go live with singh's, then he will be officially a sick man not a perfect man anymore...
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Both singhs and anandi r lucky to get shiv and his family too. Shekhars r so understanding of anandi situation. But if anandi stays back in haveli for sometime I really want shekhars to feel bad and voice their disgust on Singh family. Worse will be their own daughter falling for jagya. Atleast after this they keep distance from Singh family.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I do not think Anandi will go back to Haveli. She is resigning from the post of sarpanch shows that she is going to leave Jetsar.

How and when is to be decided.
But its very soon.

she is in love with Shiv and wants to spend time with him. ANd I think the CVs perhaps want to show Jagya that. That Anandi has moved on and is in love with someone else :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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shiv is the perfect man a man every woman dreams to have as her husband.shiv brought a very balance goodness to the show and anandi's life
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: anamika84

Shiv is the perfect man.. A man of dreams.. And he has everything, actually everything...


But the way he is sometimes treated makes me sad.. It just goes to show that nice men finish last.. He allows people to be their normal self around him, behave without inhibitions or pretensions.. But that normal self is just so selfish on others' part.. The Singhs run to him for every single problem.. Anandi still places her family (read Singhs) above him.. While he's happy with whatever he gets, keeping his droolicious smile intact.. This man certainly deserves more..

your words made my heart bleed for shiv 😭 😭 😭...poor guy
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: libsrocks

your words made my heart bleed for shiv 😭 😭 😭...poor guy


Please don't be sad.. We can always show our heartiest support for our favourite character and make the CVs aware that we expect Shiv to put his foot down sometime.. He can't always go on being the Mr Goody good and get trodden upon in return!!

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