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Posted: 12 years ago
#61

Originally posted by: mahi12

samvi There are no legal procedures for Jagaya Gauri's relation so what should Singhs think of ?Anandi and Jagaya's marriage was legal so divorce was important and here there is no divorce case as the marriage is legally null and void so Gauri cannot do anything .Secondly Jagaya went to Gauri recently Its been almost 7 months to their break up now enough time for even court to allow them divorce and Gauri left him waiting outside neither she replied to his letter so its been crystal clear to them she don't wish to continue with him neither they can dream of child as they know Gauri's nature pretty well if there was any such case she would have come to claim her rights a long ago so they cannot expect any surprises from her .All they know is there is nothing left in Jagaya Gauri's relation ,Gauri don't wish to continue with him , she hasn't changed any iota of , she has proved their view for her right that she wasn't right life partner for Jagaya by her these worst kind of actions and her recent behavior by continuously rejecting Jagaya knowing the fact she isn't innocent at all so think from their point of view they are right not to think about this lady when she has proven them very well neither she cares for them neither Jagaya


I agree with you about this ethical part. Neither the Singh's nor Jagya owe Gauri anything. They don't have to care for her ... just as Gauri and her parents never cared for them. But being elders i still think they have to check and clear off all the legal issues, if any, before thinking of J's marriage. They have to consult a lawyer..and check with him because J lived with her long enough to make her pregnant twice.Though they don't know about her pregnancy, they are supposed to verify it because there is every chance for her to come back and cause trouble to the Singh's depending on her moods. This would bring problems in Jagya's next marriage again!

On a lighter note, i think the cV's purposely left this thread open to bring back Gauri just when some spice is needed in the show. 🤔
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Posted: 12 years ago
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one thing I am glad is that , we are finally back on track with the Balika Vadhu theme.

Jagya realizing that he is the main problem in all of his failed relationships and being afraid of doing the same to another girl is very valid.

Bhairav well like a good father he tried to put him at ease but I do not think he is right.
The problem was Jagya and thats how I see it. It was his ego. It was his selfishness and his wants, desires.

The singhs mistake was the bal vivah. Which was a crime but looking at the environment and the way they were brought up it was the norm for them. So I do blame them but I don't too. cause none of the marriages that they saw, with Bal vivah were a failure.

Its only after Jagya and Anandi's marriage did they realize how big of a blunder it is.

They not only gave him a supporting family but also fulfilled everyone of his wishes. I would have said that other factors were involved in the failure if Anandi was not a good wife. But that was not the case too. The whole situation as Ganga rightly put it..."aapki lagayi hui aag " the sole culprit remains Jagya.

He needs to think hard before he marries Ganga (which ofcourse we know he will ). And that will help him in the process of his true redemption. As ganga is everything that he once despised. She is good person a lovely caring human being but not educated (like Anandi was). She is what he used to call gawar types and that is why i think Sanchi is here. So that Jagya would choose so called 'gawar' Ganga over 'maaardarn' sanchi.

Which will be a big confidence boost to Ganga and a slap on Sanchi that no she is not the most fairest of them all in the land.



Edited by Suchi-Virmanian - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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In the talks of Jagaya Ganga here I will put my two pieces in it .Seeing Jagaya's emotional state he won't be able to love and marry any girl .His despair , lack of hope and confidence in him can only be removed by a girl to whom his past doesn't matter , she accepts him with his past , be understanding enough to understand him , gently pull him towards her , proving to him yes you can be my life partner , I know I will be happy with you .Someone who can hold his hand at this threshold of his life and lead him to a better future by rebuilding confidence in him , someone with whom he can share his happiness and sorrows without hesitating ,someone who brings the very best out of him .And if we take a look at Ganga she will be perfect for this .Because she has accepted him with his past . She is understanding enough to understand his past and present . She doesn't care what was his past , all she cares she has to make his present better by bringing him out of his past sorrows so he can lead to a happy future . With her he developed a special bond , he opens up to her and discloses his heart to her what he cannot do with any other .She is patient enough to even handle his anger because she understands his emotional state what he is going through and why he is going through that and she is not the one who will lose hope , she will keep trying and pull him out of his misery , So ideally she is the girl whom Shiv was talking about , the one who is mature , sensible enough to bring the very best out of Jagaya and give him eternal happiness . A perfect life partner for him having all qualities of a perfect life partner for him .What no one else can do she will do and she won't suffer because of his past because she is understanding towards it and mature enough in how to handle It and she will handle it

Coming to Ganga herself . She has also developed an emotional bond with him How much he has done for her or is doing she trusts him and respect him the most ,Opens her heart out to him , listens to him , act on his words , find her peace and soothe in his kindness , get courage from his words . He loves her child. How much he will love her child no one else will because he connects the child with his own lost child ,She has found her soul healer in him and from where she will find better than him ?when all she needs is present In him .She won't be this much happy with anyone else the way she finds her happiness with him because of the bond developing between these two where there is trust , respect , understanding , sharing , caring , they can put smile on each other'fs faces so these both are perfect for each other .These two wounded souls have found a bandage for each other's wounds in each other's company and they try to heal each other up and try their level's best to make each other happy so isn't it a match made in heaven ?,In every aspect perfect for each other who will bring very best out of each other and keep each other always happy .They don't need anyone else they are enough for each other and will always be happy with each other

Coming to Gauri she was never perfect for Jagaya . Had she been , had she fulfilled one responsibility of being a wife sincerely today her relation would be saved but she don't care ,Her love for him was only her obsession of revenge on Singhs. The day she lost she don't care for him .And there is limit and capacity in every person for something .Feelings and emotions are not some joke keep wounding them mercilessly then one day come I am sorry lets get back to everything we will live happily now .Impossible This cannot happen so Gauri even if she realizes her mistakes and come to apologize she can be forgiven but they don't have strength including Jagaya too now to accept her and give her everything so its better she move on because neither anyone can keep her happy now after what she did neither she can be happy with anyone because no one can keep her happy by forcing themselves to accept her back


so Jagaya Ganga match made in heaven Perfect for each other and will remain always happy with each other Lets see how they realize they are made for each other and become each other's true life partners from the true friends they are becoming In between Sanchi is kabab mein haddi😆but this haddi will be removed no worries 😆Cvs are going very good with the track of Jagaya Ganga They are going realistically and very validly with these two and finally i am so happy they are back to their track and original story

Edited by mahi12 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: samvi.


I agree with you about this ethical part. Neither the Singh's nor Jagya owe Gauri anything. They don't have to care for her ... just as Gauri and her parents never cared for them. But being elders i still think they have to check and clear off all the legal issues, if any, before thinking of J's marriage. They have to consult a lawyer..and check with him because J lived with her long enough to make her pregnant twice.Though they don't know about her pregnancy, they are supposed to verify it because there is every chance for her to come back and cause trouble to the Singh's depending on her moods. This would bring problems in Jagya's next marriage again!

On a lighter note, i think the cV's purposely left this thread open to bring back Gauri just when some spice is needed in the show. 🤔

Samvi like I said before they are behaving like this seeing her works ,her nature pretty well to which limit she went to make Jagaya only hers , have her rights on their house , for her revenge she is not the one who can stay quiet for such a long time so when she is not doing anything for such a long time now its clear to them she is not interested to do anything so they are not thinking she can do anything and Yes cvs have left her character in suspense but I do think she won't be causing any much trouble Even if they made her come back she will be shown some sense , redeem and move on
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: vidya0000



Thanks for the written update

She continued her lecture i don't find anything wrong . Her lecture was sensible too that would help him to find anandhi on ganga.😆😉

I loved the way shashank stepped (acting) to show the way her out i watched that scene 5-6 times.⭐️

Vidyaa her words were not wrong neither her attempts to help him but her way was wrong when he stopped her once she didn't stop but went on with her lecture She should not over burden him with lectures Take things smoothly and understanding his emotional state where a part of him is going through self hatred so she seriously cannot bombard him with lectures and disturb him so much emotionally.Its double torture on him first she is asking him to do something which he don't have strength to do anymore then emotionally disturb him so much by her on going lecture even when he asked her to stop once politely but she didn't and she emotionally broke him so much that he has to yell at her to stop and make her leave from room Her helping him is not wrong but very good but she needs to find some proper way for it as well Give him some space like Bhairo did as soon as he requested please don't force him Bhairo rested the conversation Its not like Bhairo won't try to convince him later but for current time enough Give him space then next lecture some other day 😆in this way they can emotionally prepare him for marriage not in this way within one night they ponder all lecture on him , its forcing him and emotionally torture him so much that he has to scream to stop This way only his pain will be increased first this torture then guilt that he behaved like this and hurt them so they all have to take things smoothly and with patience including Ganga too .They all are helping him not emotionally breaking him more

Yes Shashank was awesome in the episode ⭐️he acted superb in all scenes ⭐️ and looking so handsome in white kurta ☺️

Edited by sidra08 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sidra08

Vidyaa her words were not wrong neither her attempts to help him but her way was wrong when he stopped her once she didn't stop but went on with her lecture She should not over burden him with lectures Take things smoothly and understanding his emotional state where a part of him is going through self hatred so she seriously cannot bombard him with lectures and disturb him so much emotionally.Its double torture on him first she is asking him to do something which he don't have strength to do anymore then emotionally disturb him so much by her on going lecture even when he asked her to stop once politely but she didn't and she emotionally broke him so much that he has to yell at her to stop and make her leave from room Her helping him is not wrong but very good but she needs to find some proper way for it as well Give him some space like Bhairo did as soon as he requested please don't force him Bhairo rested the conversation Its not like Bhairo won't try to convince him later but for current time enough Give him space then next lecture some other day 😆in this way they can emotionally prepare him for marriage not in this way within one night they ponder all lecture on him , its forcing him and emotionally torture him so much that he has to scream to stop This way only his pain will be increased first this torture then guilt that he behaved like this and hurt them so they all have to take things smoothly and with patience including Ganga too .They all are helping him not emotionally breaking him more

Yes Shashank was awesome in the episode ⭐️he acted superb in all scenes ⭐️ and looking so handsome in white kurta ☺️


Thanks for ur brief explanation😆 i thought ganga tried her level best to save him and us from having one more lecture. 😉 So that story will also move on. Can't escape.😕

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