Ahem and love: making time

Nice take Swasthi. It was really heartwarming to see Ahem wanting to spend some time with Gopi. Actually with both boys wanting to spend some time with their other halfs. But here you see the bane of most marriages. Wifey is so intent on being a perfect home maker, mother (not in Rashi's case, I hasten to add) that being the perfect wife, soul mate is neglected. I was sad at today's scene though. When Meera cried today she took it upon herself to quieten her, thereby pushing back any thoughts of what Ahem wanted. Meera belongs to both of them. She should not consider herself as having sole rights to pacify their child.

Originally posted by: Xarina

Nice take Swasthi. It was really heartwarming to see Ahem wanting to spend some time with Gopi. Actually with both boys wanting to spend some time with their other halfs. But here you see the bane of most marriages. Wifey is so intent on being a perfect home maker, mother (not in Rashi's case, I hasten to add) that being the perfect wife, soul mate is neglected. I was sad at today's scene though. When Meera cried today she took it upon herself to quieten her, thereby pushing back any thoughts of what Ahem wanted. Meera belongs to both of them. She should not consider herself as having sole rights to pacify their child.

You can tell that I am disappointed 😆

Beautiful post Swasthi😛

Until Xarina mentioned it, I never thought of the scene ending as it did as anything other than a normal occurrence but your take with Xari's makes it more than just a disappointment.

It was a natural scene though. Ahem has done something similar when Gopi was pregnant. He came home to find her alone in the room and hugged her from behind only for her to face morning sickness. He was disappointed then and he was disappointed now but the father in him made him look at his daughter who cried very fondly😳

Now that I read and look back, I see what was missing. Maybe if Ahem had been a little more involved in making Meera quiet and Gopi had been a little more of a wife.. There were numerous possibilities😳 Hopefully all this adds to something better in the coming days..😛

That was great everyone ... But I wish ahem would have done what jigar did to rashi ... Ahem should have behind gopi and grabed her from the back and held her ... to bad gopi was sitting on the bed.

Nice one Swasthi todays the way Ahem desired to spend his time with his wife Gopi was very cute and he reason Meera for that to Jigar was so lovely he miss Gopi so much but as always Gopi is busy in her chores 😛 like to see this kind of scenes more loved Ahem

awesome post swasthi... 😃

Ahem's any romantic scene was incomplete without ur beautiful post.. 😊

Ahem desire to spend some time with his Gopi n the way he said today we got few time can u dont sit with me awww 😳 Ahem missing his wife love attention n yes romance he statisfy himself just on that nop his wife time n attention is much needed for his daughter.. Todays scene was totally naural most of couples are gone through with the same situation i love Ahem dissapointed face when his princess breaks his all planing of romance 😆 wht an timing 😉 as Xar said yes Ahem should take part in pacify Meera so then he spend some more time with Gopi but itseem Ahem want some private time though 😳

aah...a gohem scene is incomplete without your post Swasthi! 😃...Inspite of the interruption, I still found the gohem moment very cute 😳...i loved that the CVs showed that Ahem desires to spend time with Gopi...they are a young couple and just because they are parents now does not mean that romance flies out of the window! However, yes I wish Ahem had not escaped when Meera started crying 😆..but atleast they dont run to Rashi now when she cries 😛...still it gave way to a cute Jihem scene! I always wanted to see the Modi boys behave like normal brothers and not just talk about office presentations!😆

I loved the Gohem scene...the p[leading longing desperartion in ahem for gopi was so apparent in the way he asked her to be with him...Gopi's pleasant surprise then blushing smile..and the best...the disappointment in ahem when gopi got busy with meera...
I feel when ahem walked in and saw meera quiet in her cradle...he longe to have some loving moments with gopi...there was something different in him today...sinc emeera was born ..he has been the doting father...but he is a young man in love with his wife...now that Meera is growing up...Ahem wants to claim gopi as his wife...
today's scenereminded me of the time when Ahem got insecure and jealous in the beginning of pregnancy and Koki took gopi away..and how ahem longed and desperately wanted gopi...
I just loved gohem today..
great to see Ahem the hubby and lover back...hope CVs give us a wnderful gohemilicious track.