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naava

@naava

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Posted: 12 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

Naava i respect a fan who can look past prejudices and give other characters a chance. i do disagree on the parental rights issue. i pretty much raised my stepson from day 1 as his mother couldnt keep him past weekends at most- she gave him to me as did purvi. now if she comes and decides to take him from me, she better think twice. i've even told her this before. ovi is raising pari as her own and purvi gave her away for no good reason. in that case people would lose faith in adoption if every mother suddenly decided to take her baby back due to a sudden burst of mamta. i respect mothers who make this decision and stick to it. but once you madethis decision you cant go disrespect another mother's care and affection.

Oh i didn't mean that Purvi should take the baby back...although i suspect in the end that's how the story will be..or not that she will take her but that she and Arjun will be together with the baby...but again..who knows ..it's Ekta. I agree that adoption needs to be respected, but sometimes mother's make impulsive decisions, and their pain is also deep. You have to admit it's a volatile issue, and both mothers have legitimate and deep emotions. Not an easy dilemma.

Yes i was a stepmother, a mother, and everything in between. 😆 So i understand...I was just saying that in another realm, Purvi and Arjun are the parents and that's the realm that Arjun was acting on. I m sure he doesn't know that is what caused his naming...

I think some things we do and don't understand why we do them

Actually, i don't like Arjun-Ovi as a couple at all, but Ovi has turned out to be a good person at the moment. She was correct to panic when her baby was missing and right to tell Purvi she should ask before taking. Ovi responded like any mother would and should. She was also good to apologize. Purvi was clearly wrong to take the baby without permission. As to Purvi nursing her, as her real natural mother, there is no way she could hold that baby in her arms and NOT nurse her. It was very sweet. But obviously...now a big problem for her and for Ovi.

Punni will see to that !😉

But maybe Ovi will become the most mature PR character in the end...and ..everyone will respect her. Anyway, i seldom watch it any more but i think Shruti is great !!!

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miadelrosario

@miadelrosario

Inactive

Posted: 12 years ago

#32

I think arjun looked at purvi because he felt awkward and ashamed for naming his daughter pari as it was purvi's choice of name. When he saw Purvi outside, arjun even apologized to her and explained that it was the only name that came to his mind.

Secondly, Arjun wasn't totally over purvi yet and obviously he still feels something for her, which i understand because they had a beautiful relationship and wonderful dreams together until purvi forced him to marry ovi. It's not easy to forget a relationship like the one they had, not to mention their dream of having a daughter that they will name "Pari".

As long as Arjun doesn't show ovi anything offensive like praising purvi or bluntly staring at purvi while ovi is around making her feel insecure, then arjun is fine with me.

Note: To those who disagree with my pov. We have different views so let's respect and not question each other's opinion.

Edited by miadelrosario - 12 years ago

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Tanyaz

@Tanyaz

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+ 5

Posted: 12 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: arshi_arvi
I don't know why yo ufeel that Ovi will be the worst mom ..
She has not done anything ( after Pari's birth ) but of course if she hits the bottle again then yes I will call her the worst ever mom ...

For now she is doing a good job .At least today she seemed fine when I saw the show ..

As for Arjun, he does not know that the baby is Purvi's .For him Ovi is the mother of the child and that is wh yI feel that it was wrong of him to be looking romantically at Purvi right in front of his little daughter ...

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zonan

@zonan

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: arshi_arvi

I believe Arjun was actually thinking of his baby's mother rather than his saali. Arjun and the baby has a mental connection with Purvi that is why both can't live without her. Arjun can't stop thinking about her, and the baby can't stop crying without her. If Arjun was thinking of Ovi when he was giving his baby's name, then he would actually be thinking of the baby's aunt. Therefore, Arjun did the right thing. Arjun and Purvi will be the best parents and Ovi the worst mom!!!😃

i hope you're joking about arjun purvi best parents and ovi worst mom.
we can see clearly how ovi love the baby..how she cares about her..and panic when she did not found her.
we also can clearly see..how purvi gave her baby just like that..is that what you call best?
i call it worst..no, worstier..if you know what i mean.

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indiansoap

@indiansoap

Inactive

Posted: 12 years ago

#35

Thank you for the update

Nice episode. Baby's name is so beautiful. After a while got to see a simple ceremony, the last time it was Arjun-Purvi's engagement. As opposed to big parties with slapping spree.

Didn't see DK, maybe I missed him but he should have been there at his first grandkids naming ceremony. No wonder Arjun is always confused, no parental guidance, if only Ashna were around...

I dont find any of the characters in PR behaving like a normal family let alone moral/ethical. Except perhaps Vinod and so far his daughter Ruchi. Vinod is a good husband, respectful to his mom, and is brave enough to reprimand his daughters.

Edited by indiansoap - 12 years ago

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Orchid

@_OrChiD_

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Posted: 12 years ago

#36

ewww what a father !!!!! thinks about salli for name selection 🤢 and what a wife purvi is !!!!!! thinks about jiju instead of husband 😆

what a unfortunate baby it is !!!!!!!!

next sohom and sachin soul this baby for sure .🤢

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naava

@naava

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: miadelrosario
I think arjun looked at purvi because he felt awkward and ashamed for naming his daughter pari as it was purvi's choice of name. When he saw Purvi outside, arjun even apologized to her and explained that it was the only name that came to his mind.

Secondly, Arjun wasn't totally over purvi yet and obviously he still feels something for her, which i understand because they had a beautiful relationship and wonderful dreams together until purvi forced him to marry ovi. It's not easy to forget a relationship like the one they had, not to mention their dream of having a daughter that they will name "Pari".

As long as Arjun doesn't show ovi anything offensive like praising purvi or bluntly staring at purvi while ovi is around making her feel insecure, then arjun is fine with me.

Note: To those who disagree with my pov. We have different views so let's respect and not question each other's opinion.

I liked your post. I also don't quite understand why everyone gets so mad at Arjun. 😆 He loves Purvi, will always love Purvi - forever. Yes yes yes, he was stupid, wrong, crazy, brainless, spineless etc etc to agree to marry Ovi but that doesn't have any thing to do with emotions that will always be there.

You can't stop loving someone with whom your love is forever, the deepest soul connection. It will always be there. Always.

So when the person you love eternally is standing right next to you and this is the most important event of your life so far, any human being would want to just look at the other to connect for just that tiny moment to share that deep and important event with the other. It WAS their dream together, after all. Because both their actions robbed them of fulfilling this dream doesn't mean the dream isn't there.

Personally, i would hold Arjun in low esteem if he DIDN'T want to share - for one tiny moment - that special dream with Purvi.

. Why can't we allow Arjun to be a human being? 😕 He's not sleeping with Purvi, he's not trying to break up her and Onir - quite the opposite. He's trying his best to do what is supposed to be the right thing. At least what everyone wants from him. Telling Purvi to move on. Trying to make a life with someone he doesn't love. Wanting to be a good father.

He just simply loves her and always will. And see THAT to me is a mark of a really good human being, a person whom i can hold in high esteem. His love and his soul are trustworthy. Yet, for the sake of the world, for the sake of his family, he is trying to walk another path, and do what is right in society.

Edited by naava - 12 years ago

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Gagori Chatterjee

@jyoti06

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+ 8

Posted: 12 years ago

#38

Can everyone stop using abusive language or get into heated discussions in a Written updt thread at least ... you can create discussion posts in forum to vent out your frustrations on the track or the character but at least dont do it in written Updt thread since the updater needs to b appreciated here for her efforts rather than turning her updt into a heated debate zone which ends up in fights and name calling later on ..

You can discuss the episode in updt thread ..no harm in it .. but plss tone down your language a bit so that the written updt thread which we daily put in sticky remains clean at least

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Ashlaika

@Ashlaika

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 12 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: naava

I liked your post. I also don't quite understand why everyone gets so mad at Arjun. 😆 He loves Purvi, will always love Purvi - forever. Yes yes yes, he was stupid, wrong, crazy, brainless, spineless etc etc to agree to marry Ovi but that doesn't have any thing to do with emotions that will always be there.

You can't stop loving someone with whom your love is forever, the deepest soul connection. It will always be there. Always.

So when the person you love eternally is standing right next to you and this is the most important event of your life so far, any human being would want to just look at the other to connect for just that tiny moment to share that deep and important event with the other. It WAS their dream together, after all. Because both their actions robbed them of fulfilling this dream doesn't mean the dream isn't there.

Personally, i would hold Arjun in low esteem if he DIDN'T want to share - for one tiny moment - that special dream with Purvi.
. Why can't we allow Arjun to be a human being? 😕 He's not sleeping with Purvi, he's not trying to break up her and Onir - quite the opposite. He's trying his best to do what is supposed to be the right thing. At least what everyone wants from him. Telling Purvi to move on. Trying to make a life with someone he doesn't love. Wanting to be a good father.

He just simply loves her and always will. And see THAT to me is a mark of a really good human being, a person whom i can hold in high esteem. His love and his soul are trustworthy. Yet, for the sake of the world, for the sake of his family, he is trying to walk another path, and do what is right in society.

I absolutely love this as I share the sentiments 👏 👏 👏