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Tejaswini Wenham

@tejaswiniwenham

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: arshi_arvi

I believe Arjun was actually thinking of his baby's mother rather than his saali. Arjun and the baby has a mental connection with Purvi that is why both can't live without her. Arjun can't stop thinking about her, and the baby can't stop crying without her. If Arjun was thinking of Ovi when he was giving his baby's name, then he would actually be thinking of the baby's aunt. Therefore, Arjun did the right thing. Arjun and Purvi will be the best parents and Ovi the worst mom!!!😃

can you explain why ovi is a bad mother to this child? a logical explanation. not a biased fan's pov but an actual realistic logical explanation pointing to what ovi as a mother to this child is doing wrong. i will acknowledge then that the mother who gave her baby away like a toy is better than the mum who is raising her the best she knows how to.

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Afsara Afia

@Afss_94

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#22

Till now Ovi didn't do anything that can prove that Ovi is the worst mom. But Purvi did everything that can prove Purvi is the worst mom. Giving away the baby! What kind of mom she is! Only for hiding her Paap she gave up her baby! This time Ovi didn't come with a deal na? And no doctor told that Ovi can never be a mom. So what is the need of baby donation? Purvi is not a good daughter, good lover, good wife and obviously not a good mother. Even she doesn't let her daughter live in peace. She is trying to nurse the baby! Can u imagine what effect this act on a baby? Once you give up then give up. No need to fake maa ki mamta. Where was your maa ki mamta when you decided to give it up?
PS. Nothing is wrong to love a couple emotionaly. But one should think with brain not with emotion na?

Edited by Afss - 12 years ago

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nelum

@manan_virika

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

can you explain why ovi is a bad mother to this child? a logical explanation. not a biased fan's pov but an actual realistic logical explanation pointing to what ovi as a mother to this child is doing wrong. i will acknowledge then that the mother who gave her baby away like a toy is better than the mum who is raising her the best she knows how to.

Sweetie, you misquoted me. I said she will be. C'mon even you know she will spoil the child. She is an immature person. God knows how she will handle the baby. It would be like a baby raising a baby...lol.😆😆😆

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nelum

@manan_virika

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: Afss
Till now Ovi didn't do anything that can prove that Ovi is the worst mom. But Purvi did everything that can prove Purvi is the worst mom. Giving away the baby! What kind of mom she is! Only for hiding her Paap she gave up her baby! This time Ovi didn't come with a deal na? And no doctor told that Ovi can never be a mom. So what is the need of baby donation? Purvi is not a good daughter, good lover, good wife and obviously not a good mother. Even she doesn't let her daughter live in peace. She is trying to nurse the baby! Can u imagine what effect this act on a baby? Once you give up then give up. No need to fake maa ki mamta. Where was your maa ki mamta when you decided to give it up?
PS. Nothing is wrong to love a couple emotionaly. But one should think with brain not with emotion na?

I hear you. Ovi didn't do anything bad yet. But based on her past records she will pretty soon. I am saying that she will be a bad mom not that she is now. You can just tell by her behavior.

PS. One should also try to read properly before saying anything na?

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Tejaswini Wenham

@tejaswiniwenham

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: arshi_arvi

Sweetie, you misquoted me. I said she will be. C'mon even you know she will spoil the child. She is an immature person. God knows how she will handle the baby. It would be like a baby raising a baby...lol.😆😆😆

i've read it properly. but the past is the past. she is a mother now its a job that forces you to fill in shoes twice your size. you have to grow up and mature. let me rephrase can you explain why ovi will be a bad mother to this child based on current facts? today when arjun got more toys for pari ovi said-'what is the need for more toys. she has so much already and she is so young.' that didnt sound like a mother out to spoil her child, she sounded mature. and as far as her behavior goes she apologised to purvi for having overreacted which i dont think she did. any mother who finds her infant missing after looking everywhere will panic. as long as she doesnt announce that pari is her baby, purvi absolutely needs inform ovi that she is taking pari. as far as how she may react when she finds out that purvi has been feeding her baby- any mum would freak if someone did that to their kid without permission- to her pari is her baby.

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naava

@naava

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#26

😆 I guess i tend to agree with Nelum on this one. Except I am not at all sure that Ovi will become a bad mother or go back to her ways...maybe. Especially now that she knows Purvi was nursing the baby. But let's enjoy her good ways for now. It's nice to see someone be pleasant and fair minded who was once a shrew. Even it it's temporary...but maybe it won't be.. Maybe Ovi will turn out to be the real star of the show, when she finds out all the truths... who knows? only Ekta.

But...i think that Arjun and Purvi are the parents, whether Arjun knows it in his brain, his instinct knows it, and naming the baby Pari was good.

Look, i certainly dislike how the CV's wrote this love story...and it 's clear they will flip back and forth with ARVI and Rovi but...it's what it is. It's how they intend to do it.

Purvi was 100% wrong to give up the baby.. but i understand why she did even if i don't agree with it.

But she and Arjun i think will someday be the jodi they were supposed to be, and shame on Ekta for making it so stupid.

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esha

@blueocean_787

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

#27

Thank for the update. So we hv Arvi scene today.

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Tejaswini Wenham

@tejaswiniwenham

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: naava
😆 I guess i tend to agree with Nelum on this one. Except I am not at all sure that Ovi will become a bad mother or go back to her ways...maybe. Especially now that she knows Purvi was nursing the baby. But let's enjoy her good ways for now. It's nice to see someone be pleasant and fair minded who was once a shrew. Even it it's temporary...but maybe it won't be.. Maybe Ovi will turn out to be the real star of the show, when she finds out all the truths... who knows? only Ekta.

But...i think that Arjun and Purvi are the parents, whether Arjun knows it in his brain, his instinct knows it, and naming the baby Pari was good.

Look, i certainly dislike how the CV's wrote this love story...and it 's clear they will flip back and forth with ARVI and Rovi but...it's what it is. It's how they intend to do it.

Purvi was 100% wrong to give up the baby.. but i understand why she did even if i don't agree with it.

But she and Arjun i think will someday be the jodi they were supposed to be, and shame on Ekta for making it so stupid.

Naava i respect a fan who can look past prejudices and give other characters a chance. i do disagree on the parental rights issue. i pretty much raised my stepson from day 1 as his mother couldnt keep him past weekends at most- she gave him to me as did purvi. now if she comes and decides to take him from me, she better think twice. i've even told her this before. ovi is raising pari as her own and purvi gave her away for no good reason. in that case people would lose faith in adoption if every mother suddenly decided to take her baby back due to a sudden burst of mamta. i respect mothers who make this decision and stick to it. but once you madethis decision you cant go disrespect another mother's care and affection.