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Posted: 12 years ago
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There is one question that has been coming up in this forum about madhav. A concern has been risen asking why does Madhav has a complex when he is so well read, educated, intelligent, hard working and owner of a successful radio station.

Here I would like to mention about human fear and psychology. We all are afraid of something or other. It may be fear of water, height, darkness, crossing road or even as small a thing as getting down an escalator. For some of us it might sound weird but for those who face it all this matter a lot to them and affect them a lot. They may be laughed off or even rebuked because of something which is beyond their control.

Same is there with the fear of "Facing Public" or "Being low on confidence" due to any reason for that matter -- a simple fear of public, low confidence about one's own looks etc etc.

Here in case of Madhav its low confidence due to "not being so good looking". Well, this fear is deep seated in his mind and comes out every time he faces a different bunch of people (people he is not so familiar with). Like we have seen earlier too and even in today's episode he's so comfortable with Gupta jee and gets conscious the moment he knows about Gupta jee's absence from the room.

It's not in his hands inspite of being self sufficient and successful in life.
Its JUST NOT IN HIS HANDS... HE IS SO DEEPLY AFFECTED AND COCCONED BY THIS FEAR..😭..
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Posted: 12 years ago
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superb post..agree wid u 👍🏼
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Posted: 12 years ago
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aww...tat ws too touching dear...nd i understand him,,,,agree wid u totally...nd knw wat u proved to b d best fan 😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: anyadiv96

aww...tat ws too touching dear...nd i understand him,,,,agree wid u totally...nd knw wat u proved to b d best fan 😃


This compliment makes me so happy 😳 thanks!!!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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wonderfully said.. Coming to beauty or smartness, more than all the factors, we fear or feel inferior more if itz d case of beauty... itz d fact...Even if we r well educated or moneyed or gud with humble nature or ny other qualities within us and absence of beauty, den we feel lost...
Madhav is quite confident and skilled in all the matters but wen it comes to looks, he lose ground...At the end, he will be respected and loved more coz of his good nature without concerning looks i guess
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: rashvin

wonderfully said.. Coming to beauty or smartness, more than all the factors, we fear or feel inferior more if itz d case of beauty... itz d fact...Even if we r well educated or moneyed or gud with humble nature or ny other qualities within us and absence of beauty, den we feel lost...

Madhav is quite confident and skilled in all the matters but wen it comes to looks, he lose ground...At the end, he will be respected and loved more coz of his good nature without concerning looks i guess


well said. of all the factors beauty / looks takes a prominent place when it comes to feeling inferior about one's ownself. the sad part is 99% of the time we are attracted towards a person's looks. and then we approach him or her. Nature takes the second place sadly.

we can only know about a person's nature, his thinking, his heart only when we talk to them; give them time; try to know them. unfortunately humans are restricted to looks most of the time. 😲
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Ah neha, you beat me . I wanted to make similar post but you have expressed much more beutifully.
Madhav has long lasting wounds. A big situation or a healing source only can heal his lasting insecurities and low self confidence.
Some times, a major incident in life leaves a big scar.By any chance the event happened at Play, I mean the way Aaradhya ran away accusing his complexion on a big stage in the school drama is the reason for his introvert behaviour?
If that incident is shown as the crux of this behaviour, then Aaradhya holds some responsibility to instill confidencein him. I am thinking CVs will mould this that way.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ApoorvaFan

Ah neha, you beat me . I wanted to make similar post but you have expressed much more beutifully.

Madhav has long lasting wounds. A big situation or a healing source only can heal his lasting insecurities and low self confidence.
Some times, a major incident in life leaves a big scar.By any chance the event happened at Play, I mean the way Aaradhya ran away accusing his complexion on a big stage in the school drama is the reason for his introvert behaviour?
If that incident is shown as the crux of this behaviour, then Aaradhya holds some responsibility to instill confidencein him. I am thinking CVs will mould this that way.


thank u so much :)

yes , u are totally right. madhav is unwillingly suffering from this complex within him which is there since long. it won't be easy for him or anyone else to make him get rid of this. truly some major incident has to occur or may be gradual love and attention would make him understand that he too is worth all the love and care ; he too can get the love and care he yearns for.

there could be so many incidents leading to madhav's insecurities. That play could surely be one of them... may be as the story progresses we will get to know about these incidents as well
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Posted: 12 years ago
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He is carrying huge baggage so it will take lots of time and a big motivation to come out of this low self confidence situation. Very interesting to watch the progress of this role
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Very well said 👏
Superb analysis of Madhav's character..
Completely agree wid u..!!

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