My take on Roli - Sid - Naina

Finally after so many episodes i am able to gather few words around what i feel about it.

Naina - Everyone knows i have had soft spot her character since long time.. but the whole conference night scene had disturbed and shattered my feelings about her.. I couldnt see naina who was so shy to go to this extreme.. Till yesterday i felt like her character is completely changed from the time they introduced her but todays episode changed my thinking.. I now get how Naina is transitioned from that little, shy and timid girl to person who can fight for her rights. So when I see things only and only from Naina's perspective, i see that for her Sid is getting away from his wife, he is the person who changed her and she fell in love with him.. And then those drinks took her to next level.. She has been trying to be supportive from since that day towards sid, giving him time to sort his thoughts.. Because he hasnt called her back since then, she is worried.. and seeing that he is with his wife the night she finally able to reach on his cell phone, is last straw.. (Though i cant help but say that whoever she is talking on the phone about Sid, those phone calls seem so so artificial... i would say worst scene in the episode) So finally she is here and talking to Sid. She reacted exactly like she would... The way first she thought that Sid is saying all this just because he is trying to save his marriage... i liked the acting, script and direction there... (in fact i liked the Sid - Naina scene today.. it wasn't cheesy, over the top that it could have been if not paid enough attention but it was perfect.. infact it was this scene that changed things for me and brought back me to this show which i was loosing interest from) .. As she realised that Sid really doesnt love her, what is it she would do.. think about she being so much in love with him that she can do anything.. so the article about she climbing off cliff seems reasonable.. (never had thought before today, if i could see why would naina jump off cliff and all.. but as i said earlier its todays scene that changed my thoughts)

Sid - Now i am so mad at him for not telling Roli about what he has done and not talking things out with Naina.. But then i put myself in his shoes.. He is so ashamed of himself for that evening.. he was drunk (thought that scene could have shot little better and i am sick of seeing those flash backs all the time.. not because its his mistake that they are showing but its poorly edited flashback ever and has already been so overly used already) On one side he finally sees that Roli still loves him infact more than he ever imagined... He is ashamed of himself for not trusting her, her love, his own love enough... That guilt is eating him away and i am so happy manish is able to show that so nicely that we all can get mad at Sid for behaving the way he is.. The way he is dreading naina's call, that fear of things getting out of control with just one mistake (it isnt a small mistake in any way though... he was drunk and thought he was having time with Roli doesnt change the fact that it was wrong... But that happened after that .. how he acted after that makes it bigger mistake.. He should have talked to naina, conveyed to her what his thoughts are.. even before he knew about Roli's sacrifice and the whole drama with veeru.. how coul he just leave and not call her back? i think that he told her that he loves only Roli when she came by finally to see Sid at his house makes the situation worse.. May be, if he had himself told her in right words she wouldnt feel so betrayed and played with.. Right now his first few words pretty much sucked when he tells naina that i am fine cant you see i am happy etc.. He didnt do anything to set right expectations for Naina.. or change her thinking.. Also i do believe whatever happened .. its both their mistake.. They both were equally responsible for this mistake.. there is no side taking here.. Sid is equally responsible for whatever happened.. And i think he correctly realises his mistakes.. its just he isnt handling it well...

Roli - Now I really feel for her.. That girl sacrificed everything just to set things right for simar and bw family because she loves them whole heartedly and loves Sid so much.. trusts him so much..as she said today mistakes are understandable but only if you are not running from them.. Sid had been running away from her like she is the one who is resposible for everything.. May be in a way she is , but its not her fault that he didnt believe in their love.. so as i said sid is not doing right by not telling her anything yet.. he should have told her first thing when they got time in their room.. he rather ran out instead... and here roli is doing everything in her power to set things right between them and sid isnt meeting her even half way.. i think roli shouldnt easily forgive Sid.. not because he committed that mistake.. offcourse its hard to forgive that kind of mistake and it would take her long time to come to terms with it.. but also because he didnt confess things to her.. As sid said, their love is friendship, trust... They were the ones who could share anything and everything with each other.. even when noone understood thm they did.. and supported each other..

nice post. you narrate the epi and the emotions of rosid exactly.So sad to see such a potential and dramatic scene again nd again...daily they wil show atleast 1 r 2 times ..Dont think anyone is interested in it..how roli tolarate that ???😭 lost her pretty life

Well written...but i have no sympathy with naina what so ever. ROSID are the ones that i feel for...their beautiful relationship destroyed by naina. And more than ROSID it's roli who i sympathise with the most, poor girl doesn't have the faintest idea what storm is on the way 'her most anmol rishta' destroyed by sid's silly mistake!!

Sid has committed a mistake but i don't hate him, there are times where i'm angry at him but the siddhant i fell in love with and i think we all did was that strong, cheeky sid that loved his wife without her reciprocating her love for him until later. Sid loved roli unconditionally and even when she was all rude to him because of veeru he couldn't love her less. He was intoxicated and pictured Roli in naina so i can't be mad at him.

Just to add that i agree sid should've cleared things with naina the morning in which he left her but he was too shocked at that time.

Agreed on Rosid front but as Maliha says I totally disagree with your take on Naina's character.

I have to agree with Maliha. yes sid made mistake and it ruined 3 lives.

i have to agree with maliha,upra and sandra i dont knw wht the hell u saw in that hopeless girl naina but i dont like her!she knew well before how much sid loved roli!there was not a single convo were roli name didnt slipped out from sid mouth so from which angle does she have the right to come in and ask sid to leave his wife!i feel sad for sid but i dont feel sympathy for her wht so ever!naina is as much as a psycho as veru is who just doesnt want to believe that wht they fall for wht they assumed to be love!naina was only attracted towards sid its not love!before she was saying all those mahan dialogues like at A TIME like this sid sir needs my love!if u truly love someone u dont try to force that person into being in a relationship that they wont ever be in love with!i am sorry but we rosidians will never ever like naina!she destroyed rosid life!

You know what I actually agree with you. Naina is a women who's honour has been taken away just by a silly mistake. Ok it does take two to tangle so its Sid's and Naina's fault and I get that. But me being a woman I can never ever justify Sid's actions because they can't be justified. I've been symphatising with Sid along time even when he slept with Naina and I blamed Naina for the whole encounter but now when I look at it is Naina really to be blamed for this.

Originally posted by: Nisbahx

You know what I actually agree with you. Naina is a women who's honour has been taken away just by a silly mistake. Ok it does take two to tangle so its Sid's and Naina's fault and I get that. But me being a woman I can never ever justify Sid's actions because they can't be justified. I've been symphatising with Sid along time even when he slept with Naina and I blamed Naina for the whole encounter but now when I look at it is Naina really to be blamed for this.

So Sid sleeps with Naina and he just leaves her like it was a mistake and doesnt even phone her nor attends her calls then she finds out that he is happy living with his wife. How will she feel and guy just slept with you and leaves you. Her whole life is destroyed who is going to want to marry a women who has slept with another guy, No one is!!

Sorry for the rant lol please dont throw chappals at me I just think that Naina should not be blamed for the whole thing.

NIsu!!!! She wanted to tangle herself into this mess, naina knew from the start that Sid loves his Roli and she didn't even try once to clarify if he is divorced or whatever. As a woman i can understand why you are feeling this but that's why pre marital sex is wrong...she could've proposed and asked sid to marry her instead of sleeping with him first.

Sid was intoxicated and naina wasn't that drunk she knew what she was doing and still decided to do it. Her actions cannot be justified at all. I can understand that yes sid is wrong for not clarifying with naina that what he did was a mistake and ignored her calls but put yourself in sid's shoes, he was mentally stressed and with all that drama unveiling in front of him that whatever roli did was for the property really made him feel guilty and he doesn't want to lose his roli.

Yes naina decided to give everything to sid willingly which shows she has no shame and she still doesn't feel that it was wrong she calls it the 'most beautiful moment of her life' and she threatens sid that i'm going to commit suicide if u don't marry me.. can't she kill herself at home without letting anyone know 😡

I still love u nisu don't worry no one will throw chappals at you 😆

yes nishi sid before the trip never did or showed anything like that would express he likes naina!naina knew before hand that sid is going through marritial problems she said at that time that sid needs her love right now!now if her love was true she wouldnt have thought about confessing her love to a married man in a office trip!she should have known better having intercourse when ur drunk could never mean an eternal relationship specially if he is a married man!sid was drunk but naina was still conscious!so its her fault for going into this mess so instead of running after a guy who doesnt love her its better she get an abortion and move on with her life!