Shiv's reaction - Page 3

Originally posted by: nniks

i hav seen ppl posting posts tht shiv shld behave like a "normal" husband...wat is normal?
a dominating suspicious control freak is normal ???
its scary to see tht a understanding n loving husband like shiv is considered a freak ...as if he is an anomaly among the mcps
Why do ppl hav such low expectations frm men n high expectations frm woman...there was a thread on shiv helping anandi in kitchen...was it such a big deal ???
why is it even a small gesture by men is considered his greatness...n for woman well she has to be good all the time...Shiv's giving time to anandi for intimacy is considered his sacrifice his greatness.
Its sad such double standards still exist in society.

People were saying this?  But given the way some people are on this forum, I guess it's not that surprising. Edited by Shivandi - 11 years ago

Originally posted by: nniks

i hav seen ppl posting posts tht shiv shld behave like a "normal" husband...wat is normal?
a dominating suspicious control freak is normal ???
its scary to see tht a understanding n loving husband like shiv is considered a freak ...as if he is an anomaly among the mcps
Why do ppl hav such low expectations frm men n high expectations frm woman...there was a thread on shiv helping anandi in kitchen...was it such a big deal ???
why is it even a small gesture by men is considered his greatness...n for woman well she has to be good all the time...Shiv's giving time to anandi for intimacy is considered his sacrifice his greatness.
Its sad such double standards still exist in society.

You are right I was thinking the same. Even in 2days society it is thought that men who helps in household work and understanding to their wives are not manly. Whreas guys like jagya are absolutely ok. It is very sad that women themselves says so , leave men. When my husband helps me in household, not only men but women also gives derogatory comments jokingly as if this is not the position of men in house (they should be like ratan or jagya. )

Originally posted by: umam

Appy - Shiv does not conform to the so called typical telly 'hero'. So, it will take time for folks to understand and relate to him 😉

Agree with you Appy and I dont think there is any reasonable point to be angry with Anandi.Singhs and her relation is just like a daughter-parent relation and this is the right as well as duty to help her parents when they are in denger or in problem even after her marriage.If a man is free to keep his relation with his family even after his marriage then why cant a daughter keep her relation.If today Shiv's family face any denger shiv will also do the same...he will also forgets everything untill his family overcome from their problem and Anandi will also support him so this is Shiv's duty to support her and I dont think he did something unusual and that is what make him special 😳

Anandi is changing, so with time she will make everyone quiet. Shiv's understanding have no bounds, I was watching some old episode, where DS was telling him Anandi is the beendni, the way Shiv responded shows his maturity and openness to a great extent. So i do not think he can misunderstand without knowing facts. What I like in him, when he has work. the romance goes out of the window. May be the only problem Ajee will have with him is his hubby being a work alchoholic.

Originally posted by: smriti81

All these people r so anti-Anandi & her innate goodness (which is constantly mocked as Mahaanta) that they wud rather see her suffering at the hands of another abusive, tyrant of a husband. I can't figure out why they hate her so much😡! Almost feels like they are waiting with bated breaths for Shiv to grow fangs!

And Shiv pbbly was worried if all was ok at the haveli...did they get mad at her, did J come bk etc. he had been apprehensive abt her visit as it is. Guess he will call her as soon as he is out of the fuel station & then she will go into her dreamland...after they reassure each other that all is well.

Originally posted by: nniks

i hav seen ppl posting posts tht shiv shld behave like a "normal" husband...wat is normal?
a dominating suspicious control freak is normal ???
its scary to see tht a understanding n loving husband like shiv is considered a freak ...as if he is an anomaly among the mcps
Why do ppl hav such low expectations frm men n high expectations frm woman...there was a thread on shiv helping anandi in kitchen...was it such a big deal ???
why is it even a small gesture by men is considered his greatness...n for woman well she has to be good all the time...Shiv's giving time to anandi for intimacy is considered his sacrifice his greatness.
Its sad such double standards still exist in society.