The Worst thing about Balika Vadhu

The whole show is as close to reality as possible. Hence there are no happy endings, no love stories neatly packaged up with songs and dances,no hero wading into save the gorgeous heroine from the evil dragon

Nothing

Here the hero turns villain , the heroine does not suffer just till the climax, heck there are no climaxes. The whole story is a life story about the changing times and the changing people too

Today as Jagya shared the whole story with Ganga, I sat and cried.

The childhood scenes-who can forget the adorable Anandi and Jagya. Do you guys remember how they used to fight together-so incredibly cute-how they always used to stand up for each other?

And then the grown up Jagya-Anandi. I remember watching those scenes and marvelling at how cute the couple was. The tube well scene was my favourite followed by the payals he gifted her

And then the whole separation thing. Anandi's face as Jagya left for Mumbai is and has always been one of my worst memories from the show right behind the scene before the divorce where she opens up her wedding chest and clears through her memories. Every time I even think of it, my eyes well up

Gauri's entry, the affair, that horribly cruel marriage-these are scenes I have hated but sadly these are scenes that I have to accept happened because real life too always runs out something like this

Jagya was right when he said that some times you realize too late what you ended up losing. I would like to correct that to most of the time

So here it is BV-I both hate you and love you for giving me the best and worst memories possible.And also for reminding me that life is no bed of roses, but something you have to face with grat courage

At least Anandi got her happy ending. I hope when this show finally ends so will the other characters

J will get one - When he Deserves it...Hopefully he is on the right path towards that goal.

Gouri - When J can be made deserving., why can't she...? - and here is my question to the CV's...

Ganga - She deserves that life should treat her well now., after all the pains she endured till now...Its only JUST...😊

J will get when he deserves it agreed.The CVs have made his character that can be moulded so it is much easier to redeem him.Because his main fault was taking relationships for granted which he has realised.He went through phases first he blamed the other person in the relationship then he shifted the blame on to Gauri and finally put the blame on himself.So he is definitely redeeming himself and becoming a better person.

G is unhappy because she chooses to see the bitter side of life and reacts in that manner.

Here she chose to ignore the role of her parents and DS in that fiasco of BV and chose to resent A and BS who actually helped her get of BV and later on helped her get on with her life.She had no reasons to harbour resentment against them yet she chose to do so.

The insecurity was the excuse for her cruelty towards Anandi and Singhs.

So i don't think it is easy to show her redeemed.It may take her entire life to realise what kind of person she is.