Regarding anandi intimacy issues

I think anandi needs a marriage counsellor or a sex therapist to deal with her physical relationship with shiv. There is something she is afraid to take the next level with shiv. One of friend had the similar issue that her husband used very hard to take their physical relationship to the next level, but was unsuccessful in it. Both wife and husband dragged the issue by making them busy with other things. The wife got frustrated after few months and started showing frustration on different things and matters became worse btw the couple. The husband was a nice, understanding and care guy but he never was able to express his problem about the intimacy issue. Things became worse when parents came and stayed with the couple for few months. The mother of the girl will figure out the problem btw the couple. Instead of helping the couple things became bad btw the inlaws as both the parents started blaming each other for their children unhappiness. At last after 2 years the couple got divorced.

We don't want her pressurized but one thing CM will make a mature step to this issue. ANANDI needs to realise and feel Shiv's love for herself. It doesn't make sense or humanity for her to just sleep with him like that. she doesn't realise herself that she loves him and she wouldn't insult Shiv for anyone's happiness besides Shiv.
PLUS,Shiv would never do anything with her until she is totally ready and he completely understands her. At least they are not moving at goat pace..

I agree with you, in fact I was just discussing this with a friend last night that if CV's want they could show CM talking to Anandi about her fears and hesitancy instead of her being mad at Anandi and misunderstanding her. CM is a very sensible woman and I'm really hoping that she will handle this matter maturely and also help Anandi deal with her intimacy issues.

Originally posted by: _naksh_raz

We don't want her pressurized but one thing CM will make a mature step to this issue. ANANDI needs to realise and feel Shiv's love for herself. It doesn't make sense or humanity for her to just sleep with him like that. she doesn't realise herself that she loves him and she wouldn't insult Shiv for anyone's happiness besides Shiv.
PLUS,Shiv would never do anything with her until she is totally ready and he completely understands her. At least they are not moving at goat pace..

@ bold : U said it ! Shiv is a sort of guy that would never take their relationship to the next level until he is absolutely sure Anandi is ready for it ! As for Anandi, she could have forced herself into being physically intimate, but she respects Shiv and his love for her too much to insult him and his love in such a manner.

This will be a good track...Instead of being mad and pressurizing the girl they shld be taken to counsellors...I personally knw such cases...n its not incurable.
I dont like CM's CIDgiri but if she helps nandi in sorting out her issue in a sensitive way i will be happy

I could understand Anand's reluctance in the beginning because things happened fast and she was still feeling raw after due to her divorce, unhappy past etc. But She keeps saying that she knows Shiv, she respects him, she even loves him (though she has not declared yet). It is now natural for her to feel free with the physical side of her relationship with him. If not going the full length, she should atleast start feeling more comfortable when he holds her hands, he tries to come close to her. Yesterday's episode ended with a stone faced Anandi when Shiv held her hand !!!!😲

Originally posted by: annie2212

I could understand Anand's reluctance in the beginning because things happened fast and she was still feeling raw after due to her divorce, unhappy past etc. But She keeps saying that she knows Shiv, she respects him, she even loves him (though she has not declared yet). It is now natural for her to feel free with the physical side of her relationship with him. If not going the full length, she should atleast start feeling more comfortable when he holds her hands, he tries to come close to her. Yesterday's episode ended with a stone faced Anandi when Shiv held her hand !!!!😲

Her expressions should now show that she is slowly changing inside too...

frigidness is a psycatric problem...sometime even normal ppl get it due to some trauma or fear...I hav read abt ppl who get frigid just at the thought of intimacy coz they think first time will be painful altough they love their husbands but they just have this deep fear...
its a silly reason but ppl do get it.
some ppl get into depression for no aparent reason...all logic and reasoning fails...they need peoper counselling to get back to normal.So wat they r showing abt anandi is not something extraordinary

Originally posted by: nniks

frigidness is a psycatric problem...sometime even normal ppl get it due to some trauma or fear...I hav read abt ppl who get frigid just at the thought of intimacy coz they think first time will be painful altough they love their husbands but they just have this deep fear...
its a silly reason but ppl do get it.
some ppl get into depression for no aparent reason...all logic and reasoning fails...they need peoper counselling to get back to normal.So wat they r showing abt anandi is not something extraordinary

Yes I know that sometimes reasoning fails when you have psychological issues that run deep. But I am saying she should atleast make an attempt to overcome it. She is such a bold girl, has overcome so many trauma. All I am asking is that she reciprocates small gestures of affection. She definitely feels affection towards her husband right?

Guys, this Shiv is an understanding kind, he is very patient and he is trying to understand Anandi ka funda bahut ho gaya, I want to know who is enjoying this being said ad nauseum. Anandi also saying mai bhi samajhne lagi hoon. Yaar this has gone on for too long and there is a lot of boredom in the IF family. SR can go to hell, just let the couple behave like normal instead of this puttu puttu behaviour. There is no story in this suspense, whether they have slept or not, that moment came and Director Pradeep Yadav blew it. Let it go.

CVs r overdoing it.both anandi n ganga issue...they r digging their own grave ... 😡