actuall i think u hav never watched dis show otherwise u wont b writing dis whole n jst blaming ur most fav target.if u dont 9 so i i tell u.
1st marriage: 2 bail out mandira frm macau jail INSHI married n RISHI didnt force,he jst helped her coz dere was 9 other way 2 get out f dat problem.
2nd : secret marriage.well it was a by chance affair n RISHI didnt force dat n INDIRA too was very much involved in it n had her approval in it.if 9t den dey wouldnt hav consumated dere marriage on dat very particular day.infact INDIRA too was happy by her marriage wid RISHI,it can b concluded dat she was all smiling aftr her marriage n consummation.
3rd: marriage in front f society.it had evry evry family member approval n if u hav watched d epi den it was INDIRA who asked RISHI about his decision in her ishara n den asked her mother.n ya dat marriage was very much needed so dat dey could live as husband-wife in front f society.n if u remember den i think RISHI at dat time said dat 'maine apka ye wala promise bhi poora kar diya'(he was talking about d marriage) dat means INDIRA was willing 2 do another marriage.
4th: marriage wid Shweta.well it was all INDIRA's fault coz RISHI was never ready fr dis marriage n it was INDIRA who forced him into marriage.
5th: marriage wid ZARA.well i dont think RISHI or either ZARA or INDIRA too r d 1 who believe in live-in relationship.n at dat time both RISHI-ZARA were very much in love n to take their relation forward marriage was necssary.
6th: marriage again wid ZARA.if u dont 9 so i tell u dat it was INDU who was willing fr dis marraige well f course wid INDIRA but due 2 some chaal marriage took place b/w RISHI-ZARA.n it was INDU who bought dis topic f marriage.
7th marriage: well ye marriage abhi tak hui nahi hai aur jo hua nahi hai uske bare mein pehle se kaise kah sakte hai ki kiski galti hai ya nahi.so cant say about dis.
So frm all dis.i think u must hav understood dat dere is no one to blame about dis whole marriage gala but its cvs n ila bedi who r so much interested in marriages dat evry time dey come d same idea dat is marriage but in a differene way.but if still u want 2 blame den it would b appropriate if u u take evry person involved equally coz den evrybody r involved in dis n blaming session would b done equally.
Now if v take INDIRA,ZARA,SHWETA too.i mean marriage is an institution which is done on d approval f both d parties approval.
Now if v take INDIRA case den she is a strong lady n if she can tie RISHI wid a rope n tape his mouth n den she could deny dat marriage but she was all happy by dat marriage n we can say dat by her smiling face after her marriage n conssumation wid RISHI.
Shweta: well she was a doctor,a literate person n a friend f RISHI n she very well knew dat INDIRA was emotionally torturing n blackmailing RISHI fr d marriage but she was all happy fr dat marriage n she is 2 b blamed fr all her suffering after marriage coz it was a one side approval.
ZARA: she is a strong cop she could also have denied dat marriage proposal but she was so much happy after marrying RISHI.
One more thing till now only INSHI hav consummated their marriage n a marriage is valid only if it is consummated.so neither f d case wid ZARA or SHWETA ,RISHI have 9t consummated his marriage.
Edited by designersaini - 13 years ago
Anupamaa
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